男友说介意我的过去要分手怎么办

　　fuhehouzaicifenshoudegailvshizhizaiyiduanganqingzhongjingliguofenshouhou，bicizaicizoudaoyiqidewentihou，huibuhuizaidufenshoudegailv。zheiyigailvbingbukehushi，youyufuhezhihoudeguanlianhenyoukenengrengrancunzaiyiqiandemaodunhekunhuo，yiranxuyaoshuangfangfuzhunuliquchuli。bicizhijianzhijiandexinren、goutongyukuanrongdudengfangmiandeyuanyin，douhuiyingxiangzheiyigailvdaxiao。youyixiefuhezhihoudeganqingnenggouwendingfazhanqushi，danshiyeyoudaduoshuqingkuangxia，fuhehouzhongxinfenshoubianchenglezaisuonanmianjieguo。yiner，yidingyaoxiaoxinbingshenkerenshizheileigailv，jinerjiyuganqinggengduodesikaoyunuli。

　　什么是再一次分离的必然？

　　ganqingdeshenghuochongmanlekankehebodong，youshihoudajiahuixuanzezaifenshouhoufuhe，woxiwangninengranqishiqudeaihuo。danshi，fuhehouzaicifenshoudegailvyeshicunzaide，zhuyaoshiyinweifuhebingbudengyugezhongwentidoudedaolejiejue。xianghuzhijiandeyiwangmaodunhekunhuotongchanghuizaifuhehoushanguo，congerduiganqingzaochengfudan。xiamianjiangcongjigefangmianlaitantaozaiyicifenlidebiranqushi。

　　老伤的未治愈

　　fuhehou，bicitongchanghaidaiyouyiqiandeshangtongheguoqudenanti。zheizhonglaoshangkenengshiyouzhengzhi、panbian、meiyouxinrendengyuanyinzaochengde，tamenjianghuichengweifuhehouganqingdefudan。zaifuhehou，zheizhongtongkuhenyoukenengzaidushanguo，dapobicisuowei"congtoukaishi"，yincizengqianglezaiyicifenlidegailv。

　　信任和沟通交流的缺少

　　fuhehou，rentonghegoutongjiaoliudefujianshishifenzhongyaode。ruguoliangrenzaifenshouqiancunyougoutongbudaowei、xinlailiekaidengzhuduowenti，neizaifuhehou，gezhongwentiyirankenengchuxian。bicikenengnanyichuangjianjiankangdeshenghuojiaoliufangshi，yeyoukenengbunengwanquanxiangxinduifang。zheizhongxinrenhegoutongdeqianquejianghuizengjiaganqingfenlifengxian，youyumeiyouzhenchengyulijiedeqianti，ganqingnanyizhangqi。

　　以往的方式无法摆脱

　　fuhehou，biciyoukenenghuifanfuyiqiandexiaochenfangshihegerenxingwei。zheixiemoshiyoukenengshilianggerenzaifenshouqianfazhanqilai，tamenyoukenengshizhengzhi、lengbaoli、lengdandeng。fuhehou，zheixiemoshihenyoukenengzaicifasheng，gouchengleqingxudeexingxunhuan。buguanbiciduoxiwanggenggai，danlaojiudedexingweimoshiwufabaituo，jinerdaozhizaiyicifenlidebiran。

　　可持续发展的可变性

　　fuhezhihoudeganqing，youshiyehuiyinweiweilaidebuquedingyinsuerzaiyicifenli。bicihenyoukenengfajue，zaifuhehou，bicizhijiandeguannian、zongtimubiao、shenghuoxiguandengbuhuizaiqiehe。zheileipipeidudejiangdihuirangshuangfangjiuweilaifazhankunhuobuyihebuan，kebianxingzengqiangleganqingzaidufenlidegailv。

　　zaifuhehouzaicifenshoudegailvjibiancunyou，yebuyiweizhemeiyiduanganqingdoushihuiwuzhijingdefanfufenlinengliangxunhuan。fanershiyidingyaoxiaoxinbingfuzhunuli，jiejuehaobicizhijiandemaodunhekunhuo，genggaibuzhengchangdefangshi，goujianqijiankangdeshenghuogoutongyuxinrengan。zhihuizaizheileiqiantixia，cainengjifuhezhihoudeganqingshouyuwendingdefazhan，jianshaozaiyicifenlidegailv，bingweiyihouxieshoubingjin。