男友对我很好但不愿意为我买单怎么办

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　　过去的痛苦和对立面间的裂缝

　　fumufanduifenshouhainengfuhema，fumudizhifenshou，zhenduifuheshifoukeneng，shiyizhongbeixijiaozhidefannao。danxinwomenzaiciqinshenjingliyiqiandekuchuyukunnan，juedefenshoushiweilerangwomenbicidoukeyishenghuodegenghao。danshi，tamenyekenengguoduoganyuwomengerendeaiqingguanlijuece，hushilewomenduifuhedeshijiqipan。zheileiduilimianhexianghulijiejiandeliefengzaijuedingwomenshifounengfuheshangchanshengjudayingxiang。

　　沟通与理解的必要性

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　　证实走向成熟使命感的必要性

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　　空间和时间：再次拉近关系

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　　深思熟虑与自我管理决策

　　zaifumudizhifenshoudefuhejuecezhong，shouxianyaoshensishulv。womenyinggaiwenziji，fuheshibushizhendezhide，huibuhuiduixingfudeshenghuochanshengjijideyingxiang。danzuizhongjuecehaishiyaoshilaiziyuwomenzijidexinling，bujinzaoshoufumudefanduiweihai。womenyaoxiangxinzijidepanduannengli，zhongshizijidexiangfa，bingqieweizijidejuedingchengdan。

　　fumufanduifenshouhainengfuhema，genjuchongzudejiaoliu、lijiefumudejiaolv、chengxianzouxiangchengshuyouzerenxin、jiqijiyushijianyukongjianzhongjianxinren，womenyexukeyikefufumudefandui，wanchengfuhedegailv。zuizhuyaodeshi，zaizheigeguochengzhong，yidingyaoxuehuijianshouzijidexinyang，buwangzijideaiqingshixuyaozijizhengdeheshouweide。