花镇情感咨询师骗局吗？疫情隔绝不了我们的爱情

 huazhenqingganzixunshipianjuma？“xinyuanjiaoshi，yuanbenxinchunjiajiegaobiedanshenxinxinbaibei，henbunenghuijialemashangwangyoujianmianhuozhexiangqinyuehui，jinxingduofangweigaobiedanshen。

feiyanyiqinghuranlailin，dajiazhiyouwangshangtanlianai，bicizongsuandianrandeganqingxiaohuohua，haodanyoubeifeiyanyiqingxiaomie!”

 yeshiyouxueshengzaihoutaiguanlibangwoliuyanbanliuyanshuo：xinyuanjiaoshi，neimezhangqikanbudao，haodanyoudajiadeqingganya，yaolejiezheixiangdangyutanleyichangzhangqichixudeyiguolianya。gaizenmeban?

shuolaishuoqu，dahuoerzuiguanzhudenanti，shijishangzonghexingqilaibianshiyizhongdanyou：ganqingbeifeiyanyiqingjibai。

meishier，xinyuanjinrijiulaijidahuoerzhichuxinzhao，zuixianlaihedahuoerpouxiyixia，weishenmedahuoerhuichuxianzheizhongdanyou。

1.缺乏自信

quefazixin，shihemeiyouanquanganxianghulianjiedeshuangbaotaixiongdi。

jingchangganqingzhong，nvshengjingchangaihusiluanxiang，minganduoyi。

 nantijiuqujueyuyihusiluanxiang，jiuxinhuangxiongmen，yixinhuangxiongmenjiugangkaishibiantonghuagushi，naxielingyifangzaiganshenme，weihebuliwo?tayouneimamangma，mangdaohuiwoyigexinxineirongdeshijianyemeiyou?feiyanyiqingzhenmebijiaoyanzhong，tazaijialibunengchumen，haowuyiwenshizailiaomeizi……

 yinci，nvhaigangkaishifengkuangdizhuiminglianhuaishoujiweixincall，lingjiashipinyuyinkuanghonglanzha，zongsuannanhaizibachibuzhule，nvshengshuo，kan，tayouxierenle。

xunzhaoxinyuanzhengliyifan，qieshengshengdeshuo：

”xinyuan，duibuqi，woshiyouyuguishuganjiaoweipinfa。“

guishuganpinfahuozhemeiyouanquangan，gengduofangmiandeyuangushi，queshaozixin。

 bujianxinzijiyouchongzudefengcaixiyinlingyifang;bujianxinzijichongzuchuse，chusedaonenggourangzishenzaizhuduojingzhengduishouzhonghuosheng;bujianxinzijifeichangzhidelingyifangshenaizhe，zheixie。

zheiyeshiweishenmedahuoerhuidanyou，feiyanyiqingjibaiganqingdezhuyaoyuangu。

2.心态可靠性弱

xintaikekaoxingruo，daobushishuonvhaiaifapiqi，wuyuanwugujiumanbujianglideyouxiaopiqi。

guanjianjiushizhinvhaijinguanbunaopiqi，danquebugaoxing。

 julilaishuo，nvhailejiebuyinggaiguidingnanhaizimiaohuixinxineirong，yelejieneiyangnanyibaozheng，danshinanhaizimeiyoumiaohuixinxineirong，nvhairengbaoshangshengxianxi。

 jinguanbuhuiyouyuzheiyijianshierdanaopiqi，xinlibianshiyuyuguahuan，yici、2ci，haixing，shijianjiule，huizaiyigelianjiedian，yaobukanduanguanlian，yaobutichuzhiyilingyifangbushandaiziji，jinjinliaodianzhewan，huozhelijidanaopiqi，benxiangtichufenshouzhutifengge。

xintaikekaoxingruohefaxieqingxujinjinyiciguanlian，shijianwenti，duiganqingpohuaili，yuanbifeiyanyiqingyaoda。

 yinci ，zaifeiyanyiqingzhong，zishenjiudengtongyuwaidi，wulunshilianggerenjindaoganqingdeqingkuanghuanshitiqianzhunbeijindaoganqingdeqingkuang，bixushiwomendexintaikekaoxingtisheng，jiaruneng，rangzishenkaixinyixie。

pouxiwanwomenzaifeiyanyiqingzhong，henyoukenenghuizugeganqingdeguanjianyuangu。

jiexiaquxinyuanjiujidahuoerzhichuxinzhao，zaiquanguogediqixinhelizhanyiqingdeqingkuangxia，rangganqingyejibaifeiyanyiqing。

最先，喂自身吃“保心丸”。

liuyie，zheierdajiatijideshiweizishenchi，erbushiweizijichi，weishenmeneiyangshuoni?

 feichangjiandan，meiyigerendaoxintaideqingkuangxia，zaiguishuganpinfadeqingkuangxia，mianbulexintaisiqi，zheishihouhebuhonghongzishen，weizishenchike“baoxinwan”。

nihenyoukenenghuiwen，baoxinwanshishenmeni?shiduizishendehaowuyiwen，hexintaidejieshou。

 julilaishuo，dangjuedelingyifangbuhuiyingzishenxinxidelingwai，hebubaobaoziji，lingwaiyewenyiwenzishen，jishitabuhuixiaoxi，shibiaomingtashizhongburongyiyaowo，shizhongxiaotuilemeiyou?

 yaobushi，neiyouhefangdanyou。zheishihou，nihenyoukenengxiangzaitazhuiwozhichu，huoshishidajiaganglejiedehuanjie，tabushizheiyangde，neishihoutadouhenjijide。

shiya，neishihoutajiji，yejinjinneishihou，fangongzishengwomenziji，yebushineishihoudezishenya。

 ziran，niyemeiyoubixujiangzishendexintaiyayiganqilai，queshihenshengqi，hebuquchuzhilai，xieyipianzishendexintai，naizhininengbashoujiluyinzuoyongkaiqi，zhongzhongdichongzheshoujiluyinsukuyifan。

 ruguonizuolesuoshuzishiyihou，henyoukenengjingyadefajue，zishenshijishangbingmeiyouneimajiaolvqingxu，naizhizheishihoubujingyizhongfajue，tadexinxineirongzaojiutuisonghuilai。

zhangjiuyiwang，ninengfajue，benshendeguishuganhexintaikekaoxingdoushihuitisheng e。

次之，提升友好度。

 zhimingxinlixuezhuanjiasitanbogeyouyigeganqingsanyaosujichulilun，zaiqizhongyigeshilianrenjifufushizhongbaochihaodeqinggan，quanshikaoyouhaodulaiweichide。

henyoukenengninengyouyiwenshuo，zaifeiyanyiqingyanqian，lianmiandoubukeyijian，zenyangtishengyouhaoduya?

shijishangtishengyouhaodudefangfayouhenduozhongduoyang，mianjinguanbukeyijian，keshiwomenkeyiyoubiedefangfaya。

 liru，zhaoyigeshuangfangdougudingbudongdeshijian，suozhupingshigoutongjiaoliu，jifangzhileduitadexinxineirongkuanghonglanzha，youfangzhilebenshendejiaolvqingxu。

 liangrennenggoumeirichouchulaishijifenzhongdeshijianshipin，liaoyiliaobagua，liaoyiliaoshenbianrenzenyangzhanyi，naizhishiqidaiyixiayiqingguohou，lianggerenpengmianshi，nenggouzuodeshi。