花镇情感咨询曝光，到底该不该远离屌丝男？

 youyigenvsheng，kanqilaihenmei，nenggouchengzuobaiqiongmeiba，heyigenandiaosishichuzhongtongxue，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，xianghuyouhaogan。chuzhongbiyeshenghou，nandiaosiduguojigongxuexiao，suihoulaidaodadoushidagongzhuanqian。baiqiongmeini，chuzhongbiyehoukaorulegaoxiao，yegandaolenandiaosidagongzhuanqiandedadoushi。

 yinci，nandiaosigangkaishiquzhuizheiyinvhai。zaitaderouqingsishuijingongxia，yinweiyigerenzaidadoushideguruowunai，yeyouyutainianqinghaimeijianguoshimian，nvshenghetachuduixiangle。

sinian，tamenkanqilaihenhemu，jinguanyeshiyouzhengzhi。

 zheisinianli，nandiaosirengjinjinyigehenyibandedagongzu，dantayeweimeiyoushouyidenvhaifukuanleyixietanlianaichengbenfei。jinjin，tameiweinvhaihuayiciqian，doushihuishouhaodanjuhejiluzaibijibendiannaoshang，baohanmaiyigenbinggunerdeqian。sinianjisuanxialai，yigongshi8wan4qianduokuai。

 congpanduanlishang，jianshizheyingdangkeyifenbianchuzheiyiqieshibunengbuduande。guozhen，zainvhaizaoyudaxuebiyeshi，haoxiangshihuranjianmingxinjianxingle，lejieleyigefuyouerkanqilaifeichang“ai”tadeshuainanren，yinci，bianleyigehuanghua，xiangnandiaosimingquetichuletichufenshou，bingconggaoxiaodeqinshibanlechulai，wan“xiaotui”。

nandiaosiziranbuyuantichufenshou，tafengkuangdizhaoxunzheiyinvhai。

 zaihaoguimidequandaoxia，nvhaigennandiaosijianmian，dangzhongmingquetichutichufenshou。nandiaosiyiranbugan，leiwangwangde，shuozishenduomedeaizheiyinvhai，meiyoutajiuchengbuxiaqu。baiqiongmeinvshenghenguoduan，wudongyuzhong。

 yinci，zainanaozhong，nandiaosiyoujizheiyinvhaidaguoyigedianhua，shuoqidaitalaitadeqinshi(jigerenzhudeneileizhigongsushe)jianzuihouyimian，tayouyiyangwupinyaorangzheiyinvhaikan。jiarutalai，tajiuliquzheizuodachengshi，yibusaoraota;jiarutabudao，tajiuzijin。

 gujinizaoyixiudaofengxianle，bingnenggouqiaobuqinandiaosizhadaonaxieshuipingle。kenvhaihuanshilaidao，taxunzhaoyibubeisaoraodeqingjingrichangshenghuo，jiqibeitade“zijin”shifangdeshehuidaodegongzuoyaliqilegongxiao。

 zainagezhigongsushe，fangfoxianzaibeiliangdangzhongdenandiaosixiangxiangyongta，talakaile。nandiaosiyouleiwangwangdiwendaonandaoshuotamenjiubukeyizaicima?nvshengshuojiarunijuededeshizheizhonghuawolikejiuzou。nandiaosiyinciquchulesinianlaitaweinvhaisuohaodemeiyibiqiandedanju，jiqiyongyujiludebijibendiannao，shuoweinvhaitouruleguoduo。nvhaiyikanquandoudongle，zaiyebuhuileneijiu，yongjindejinyouqiaobuqi。tashuonenggouhaita，erqienenggoufudaikuanlixi，yigongnenggoujitamenshiwan。nandiaosiyouliuxialaileishui，shuotabingbingbushiyaoxiangqian，qianbingbuzhongyao，nvhaishinenggouhaideqiqian，kesiniandeqinggantahaideqima?(henguaiyi，nvhaiqiantashenmeganqingma?gennisinian，jiuhuiyouzerengenniyibeizima?)

 nvhaibuyuanzailiaonaxie，huishenxiangzou，dannandiaosilikequchuledaodizhezishendejingbu，shuotazoutajiuzijin。nvhaizaiqiaobuqidangzhongjiangguoyijuhua“nixuyaosijiusiba，wobuxiangyounaxielianmin”，zaiduhuishenxianghuwaizouqu。nandiaosizongsuanyingshangqu，duinvhaitaiqiledao。

 woyebuzhidaonikanlezheigegushiyounaxiegantan。zhanyouneiyangdenandiaosi，yigehaokande、benlaiyingdangyoujingcairenshengdenvhai，tourude，shixingmingdechengben。

neiyangdexiaogushizaixianshishenghuozhongqueshitaiduole。banbenhaoruchuyizhe。wozhenglileyixia，dagaiyouxialiejizhong：

 a、bianshizheigegushidebanbenhao，nandiaosiquzhuiyigebiaozhunbizishenhaodenvhai，nadao，zhihou，haoxianghuranjuewuhuilaidenvhaimingquetichutichufenshou，nandiaosisipilailianbugan，shuomeiyoutajiuchengbuxiaqu，zuihou，banvhaijishale;

 b、nandiaosizairichangshenghuodecuozhezhong，youyujuedemeifaholdzhunvpengyouhuoxifu，zainaolemaodunyihou，banvpengyouhuoxifuquanjiarenjishale，bieming“shaquanjiaren”;

 c、nandiaosiquzhuiyigecongbiaozhunshangjiangyinggaishiqiaobuqitadenvhai，nvhaimeiyoutongyi，yinci，nandiaosi“fener”banvhaijishale;

 d、nandiaosinaxialelilunshangyingdangyougengqiangtiaoxuandenvhai，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，hunhou，tanenggoujinvhaiderichangshenghuo，bulunshicongjingjifazhanshang、jingshenshizhishang，naizhizhishishinvrendeaimuxurongshang，yiranjuniyutadesuyangsuoxiangpipeideneileicengji，henlowdecengji。youyubuliyi，nvhaimeiyoushengmingweixie，dantaderenshengdaolujinjinzaichengshounandiaosidesuyangzhongduguo。

a、b、cziranshijiduanhuadeanli，ddaoshixiangduixingguangfanyixie。

 wobuxiangshuo，nandiaosizaijintian，xiangduixingyubenlaiyingdangyoujingcairensheng、yougengqiangtiaoxuandenvhaieryanshiyigefengxiandeshehuifazhanzhongqun。danjilvshimeifahushide。

 ziran，wozaizheichangshuodenandiaosi，bingbushicaojinana。caojinanzhishaoyouyidingdewenhuaziben。tamenhenandiaosizaishehuijingjifazhanyingxianglishangjibingbushitongyigeshehuifazhanzhongqun，yebushitongyigexinlizhuangtaizhongqun。

 lingwai，wozaizheichangshuodenandiaosi，zhideyebushizheixiejinguanrujinlinshihaichuyujianxindangzhong，danyourengetezhiqudangdan，qujizijihebierenchengdanzeren、mingbaiqinfennulidenanren。tamenlinshihenandiaosizaishehuijingjifazhanyingxianglishangkenengshitongyigeshehuifazhanzhongqun，danzaixinlizhuangtaishang、rengetezhishang，shiliangdaleichedibuyiyangderen。zhenduizheizhongyourengetezhihenengliangqujizijihebierendangdandenanren，woyongjindeshishangxi。tamenrujindejiannanquanshilinshide，jianglaikenenghuibaotamenyouliangdesuyang。

 nandiaosishizhuanzhi，zhideshizheixiezaishehuijingjifazhanyingxianglishangshaodi，lingwaiyouyubuzixin，xinlizhuangtaizaoyiqibian，zairengetezhishang，jihujiumeiyou“dangdan”、“yiwu”zheizhongdingyidenanren。tamenshihuaxinnanhuoqianzaixingdehuaxinnan。