花镇情感机构正规吗？异性交往女人有这三种心态

 renhaimangmang，liangrenkeyixiangzhixiangshikaoyuanfen，ershifoukeyishixiuchengzhengguo，huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？zaiyuxianghuzaiqingganzhongdexinlizhuangtai。

 xinlizhuangtaifangzhengquele，wulunliangrenzaiyiqiduozhangshijian，douburongyixincunqijue;xiangfan，buguangangkaishiyouduotianmei，dounanyibimianyuelaiyueyuan。

enaiyizhifeichangjiandan，baitouxielaoquebuyi。

yixingjiaowang，nvxingyouzheisanzhongxinlizhuangtai，qinggannanyizouzhuangtou。

过多投入的心理状态

zongtingnvxingmaiyuan：“wotouruleneimeduo，weihequewufadedaoshouyi?”

 zaiqingganyanqian，dabufennvxingdouxiguanbuqiuhuibao。yizhipinlemingdequtouru，taoxintaofeidequduilingyifanghao，jiusuanzishenyuelaiyuezaidijianyeganzhiruoyi。

shubuzhi，xianshenjingshenshideganqing，congyikaishijiuzaoyizhongjiulejieguo。

yiduantourubugongpingdeqinggan，zhongjiuhuichuxianwaixiedezhuangkuang，wuxingzhongcuihuiyiduanhunyinguanxi。

yingpian《shierye》li，xushuleyiduiqinglvconglianaidaopingpingdandandelijing。

nvzhushiyiweikongzhongxiaojie，nanzhujiaoyiweijishugongchengshi，tamenzaipengyoujucanshangxiangyu，yihoubiankaishilelianaiguanxi。

zuichulianggerendoudadehuore，zhujiandeqinggandetianpingchenggangkaishichuxianbupingheng。

zaiyicizhengzhizhong，nanzhujiaoyanfandezhiyinvzhujiao：

“niweiheyaozuoneimeduoshi，yifukuziwonengzishenmai，diannaoshangnenggourangmishubangwoqu，niweishayaozuoneimeduo?”

 dezhi，nvzhujiaoziyiweishibayiqiejilenanzhujiao，jiejinquanliqutouru。ernanzhujiaoquezhiganjuetashizaiziqiqiren，budanmeiyouxincunganxie，fanerzizhanglebumanyiheyuanhen。

 yinci ，buyaowen，weihetouruneimeduo，jieguoquebujinrurenyi。nixuyaoxianfanshengzijizaizheiliduanguanlianzhongdaodishishaxinlizhuangtai，zheijueceleqinggandezuihoumaixiang。

aiyigeren，shidangtouru，huibianchengqinggandejinshucuihuaji，erguoduotouru，zehuirangqingganchengshoubuzhu。

liangrenzaiyiqi，biciyingdangweichigongpingdezishi，gongpingdetouru，qinggancaiburongyishidiao。

过多依靠的心理状态

nvxingyingdangyikaonanshengma?

duinvxinglaijiang，shenpangyouyigenenggouyikaodenansheng，shiyijianxingfukuailedeshier。

keworenwei，yiqieyaoyouyigedu，ninengyoushihouruoyidian，shitaduobangniyidian，danbuyinggaijiejinquanlidouyilaiyunansheng。

 dianshilianxuju《zhifou》zhong，minglanjiageigutingyehou，lejielingyifangshizhenxinshiyidaita，quemeiyouguoshaoyikao，zhishizishizhizhongdanduzili，yiyijizhilizhizhangzuye。

如同她常说的：

 “yiqiezuihaoshibubitaijixiwangyuren，dahuoerdoushiyoufenbiedekunnan。queshiyaojixiwangyu，yebukeyiguoduoguoshen。jixiwangyuyueduo，zaisuonanmianyouxinhan，xinhanyiduojiushengxianxi，xianxiyisheng，zenghenjiuqi，zheishenghuojiushangxinle。”

 zheijuhuadaochulerenherenzhijiandejiaowangjiqiao，lingwai，yegaozhiquanbunvxing，bubiguoduoyikaonansheng，buran，qingganjiufeichangrongyichuxiannanti。

 xuduo nvxingchangbuzhengquedirenwei，zongzhilingyifangshuoshanghuiyibeiziduizishenhao，yinci，lisuodangrandeyilaiyulingyifang，meiriweizhulingyifangzhuan，buguandaxiaoshibixutakanzheban，chedimeiyouzishendezijuexing。

 zaineiyangdexinlizhuangtaixia，liangrendechabiejiangyuelaiyueda。ninengzhujianwufagenshanglingyifangdejiaobu，naizhibianchenglingyifangdefulei，qinggancongerchuxianjiedi。

yinci ，jishinanshengzaiaizheni，yebubiguoduoyikao。pingpingdandandeqingganyidingshixianghubangfuyouxianghuzhijiandandu。

过多希望的心理状态

zuori，shuachuyitiaopengyouquan，wenbenneirongshi：

 qidaishenpangdelianren，tazhiwolengre，zaihunixibei，jinengweiwodangfengzheyu，younengkuanrongwodebaopiqi，jinengzhengqianyangjiahukou，younengpeizhewojiemensuiyue。

chukanzheigexiwanghaoxianghenlanmanxingfu，danxixinxiangyixiang，quelingrenbushitaihao。

lianrenzhongjian，youxiwang，benwukefeiyi。keshiguoduodexiwangbianhuibianchengyizhonggongzuoyali，zuihoujiqingganchanshengsunhai。

zhengsuowei：xiwangyuegao，xinhanyueda，quanbuxinhandouyuanyuguoduodexiwang。

 《huanlesong》zhong，fanshengmeihewangbochuanzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，yizhiduiwangbochuanyouhengaodexiwang。xiwangwangbochuanqupinquchuanghaozhuanqiangoufang，xiwangtaquchuligezhonggeyangnandian，xiwangtaweizijiyigemeihaomingtian。

 tayizhizaiwangbochuanyanqianzhuzhong：nibunuli，womeijianglai;nimeijiabanjiadian，jiazhongdetangshoushanyuyousheilaichuli;nimeigoufang，woshizhongquefaanquangan。

jinguanwangbochuanfeichangaita，danzhongguidanfubuqitayixiliedexiwang，liangrendeqingganhuanshiyibuchenggongjieshu。

 zuizhong，fanshengmeijuewuhuilai，duiwangbochuanshuo：“wobuhuiyingdangduiniguidingneimeduo，womenjiadeshieryingdangyouzijilaidanfu，erbushiyiaidemingyiquqiangjiayunideshenshang。”

 huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？duiganqingguoduoxiwangdenvxing，jieguonanyihuodewanmandeganqing。youyuzheileixiwangtongchangsuizhezhesunhai。

 zhenduibenshen，xiwangyueduo，shijideqifubianhuiyueda，xinlibianhuizizhangbumanyi;zhenduilingyifang，huidaozhifeichangdakunhuohegongzuoyali，yuanhen、zhengzhiyejiuyiyuyanbiao。

 bulunshizaihunyinshenghuo，huanshilianaizhong，nvrenyaoxuezhexuehuifangxiaduinanshengguogaodexiwang，baozhengyousuoyuan，youyidingdebuzhuiqiu，guanliancaikeyiwending。

qinggan，guigenjiedi，shihuxiangshangxi，huxiangzaojiudequanguocheng。

xianghujinyouqiguxiangdang，baifangxinlizhuangtai，yiqixianglianjiangchi，caihuizoudeshufu，ganqingcaikeyijieguoshi。

nvxingduiganqingyizhiyouyigezuizhongyihuo——

wojiujinggairuhejingyinghunyin，caikeyidedao yaoxiangde“yuanman”?

 jianjieguoduo，bingqiemeiyigerendezhuangkuangbuyiyang，yebingbuyidingdoukeyong，ronghedajiajiwangexueshengdeshilikanlai，zheixiezuihoudedao pingjingxingfukuailedexueshengzhishaodoubaozhenglezhei6dian：

1、“tonglixin”chanshengdehuanweisikao：womingbailenideku，yincibaozhengle“buqiangqiu”

2、huibiaoshu：lijigaozhilingyifang“woxiangyaoniruhe”，meiyouqingganlixianglaixiangqu，tutianhaofei。

 3、shoudezhu：xingfukuailedeguanlianyidingshizuodaolemouleijunheng，nideaiqingyingxianglitaidihuotaigaodoushiyoububian，yinci ，youjiagou，dongjunheng。