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 huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？yibiejingnian，zaidupengdaochulianqingren，ninengzenyang?shipaofuqizigenchulianqingrenzhongranwenrouxiang，huanshijianshouchuxin，zuoyigehaoqizi?jinrideqiuzhuzhetiaoxuanleqianmianyizhong，danquepengdaoyidianerjiannan，dajiakanlaiyixia。

#学生自诉#

 wodemingzijiaozhaozilong(biming)，2020niansanshisui，liyiyinian，xiaohaigensuiqianrenlaogongzhu，rujinyouyigenanyou，xingmingshiduyuncheng(biming)，tabiwodashiwusui，dajiaqianxienianjiulejiele。

 shiduonianqian，ganggangbiyehou，zaiyijiaqiyejianxi，neishihoutajiushiwodelingdaoganbu，genwoyixienuanwei，danyouyuneishihoutazaoyijielehun，yinci zoudejiusuanbushangjin。danshuoshihua，woduitahuanshiyouganjuede，jinjinyunshibuhao，shiwomencuoguoxianghu。

 houlaidegushijiufeichangjiandan，youyunianjixiao，guodudanbo，wogentanuanweibuchaoguosangeyuejiucizhile，suihoulikainageshangxinyujue。

 ziran，tayecengwanhuiguowo，chengnuogentazaiyiqiwokeyihuodeshenmehaochu，danwoqueshizuochubulaineileihengdaoduoaibufuzerendeshi。

 yebushimeiyouhouhuimojiguo，youqishipengdaowodeqianfuweixiang(biming)hou，genduyunchengduibi，weixiangjinguankanqilaigengjunqiaoyixie，danqingshangzhishangxingshangdoubugao，haiyoudianbaerduo，jinguanyinweiwocengdadongyutayijianshideweimingshicong，danshijianjiudanshiyaowojuedechangranruoshi，butubukuai。

 tataimeizhujianle，banshiyemeihengxin，jinguankandailaonianrenxiaohaishitingbucuo，danqueshaolegunanzihanqigai。nenggouneimeshuo，gentazaiyiqi，woganjuebushangzishenshigenvxing。

 duyunchengjihuyebuneiyang，jibian tayinianguosishi，zaizheigeshehuifazhandejingzhengnenglimanmanjiangdi，yemeiyouleqiancaiheshilidefuchi，danyijianshihuanshiyoufeichangdadeyouhuoli，gentazaiyiqi，wokeyijuededaozishenbeizhengqueyindao、beizaojiu。

wohenxihuanzheileibeiqianyindaidejuede，erbushiqianyindaitarendejuede，yinci ，woxuanzeliyi。

 xinlidangranyeshizhengtuoguo，zhongjiuwoheqianrenlaogongyuyouyizi，butaikenengxinwuqianguadeliqu，danlairikeqidexingfukuaileyijingxiangwohuishou，wobuhuihenyoukenengsheqizheileidelaibuyidexingfukuaile。

nianqingjieduandehaiziqiyishiwomencuoguoleyici，rujinrenzhizhonglaonian，dajiajiubukeyizisiziliyihui，xuanliyihuima?

 weixiangbukenfangkaishou，danwozhudongfangqilefangdichan，yongyuhuandexiaohaidehaizifuyangquan，zuihoudedaoliyi。duyunchenghetajiazhongdenagemulaohuzaoyinaodebuxiangwanglai，zaishiduonianqianjiumeiyoushenmeqinggan，hekuangshirujin?yinci tadeliyibandeyeshishunlichengzhang，keshi，taliuleyishou：lihunbulijia。

 tagenwoshuo，youyuneixinyoukuilaopohexiaohai，yinci tiaoxuanjingshenchuhu，tayexiangbanchuquzhu，danrujinshouwuxianqian，zhiyouzaiqizineibianjiangjiuyixia，ciwai，tahaiqianyibizhaiwu。

 woxintongtasichubenbo，yebaoyuantachongbaofahu、jiadaqi，duitaqizihenhao，tashixinwukuijiule，danwoderizijiushangxinle，budanyaobangtahaiqian，yeyaodanfubeibierenwuhuidefengxianxing。

 wohendanyouzishenbeibierendangzuodisanzhe，yexiangzhihouderichangshenghuoyouquebaoxie，yinci qidaitanengjinzaobaituozishendeqizi，congyuanxiandejiazhongbanchuqu。

 tayetongyiguowoyidinghuigenwowanhun，jiwoyigemingfen，dancongliyidaoxianzaizaoyibannianle，tahuanshihaowudongjing，meiyiciwoyitizheijianshiqingtajiusipolianpi，shuowoqianghanguanle，bianhuizhilingren，congweiweitakaolvdaoguo。zhongyumingbai，woyijingweitatouruneimeduo，ruhejiumeiweitakaolvle?

rujinwoyijingjienatajingshenchuhuzheiyikeguanshishile，danzenyangcainengrangtazhongguidaoxiangzhiqianneibandaiwohaoni?

 jiangeshinian，zaidupengdaorangzishenxintiaojiasude“chulianqingren”，tebieshizaihuanshizaiqiuzhuzhebeiganhunyinshenghuoyaoyaowuqideqiantitiaojianxia，xianeryijianneileichongjixingganshiduomedeqianglie。yinci qiuzhuzhejiurufenbugushenyiyangchongxiangganqing，danhuandedejinyouzongtimubiaodetichuzhiyi、yihuohelengdai。

 qingchuzheiyiduanganqingshibushishehuidaodeyihou，zuoweixiaomianren，dajiabeiganqiuzhuzhedekeling，zaiyouyulianggerenzaoyiliyi，buweifanfengxuliangsu，yinci manlinjiaoshicaijiexialaizheiyishili，jiexiaqudajiakanlaijiaoshidepouxi。

1、心口不一，一边爱着另一方，一边看不上另一方

lianggerenganglejiedeqingkuangxia，yigeershishangxiayiqifengfa，yigesanshierli，shiyechenggong，aiqingdehuohuayishunjianbaofa。

 dengzaiguoshinian，lianggerendezhuangkuangzhoubian，nvxingsanshieryi，nanxingzaoyikuaidaowushizhitianmingdenianling，chuyushi，huichuxian“chulianqingren”pslvjing，rangqiuzhuzhechenzuiyuzongtimubiaodeqiangjingxia，dandengshijianjiuleqiuzhuzhebianhuimanmanbaochiqingxing。

 qiuzhuzhexianjieduanjiuchuyuyigefenqidangzhong，jiwangbudiaozhiqiandexingfu，youkanbushanglingyifangbiaozhunbibushangzishenhao，danzishenrujinzaoyililehun，bingqieduizongtimubiaokaizhanlehenduodexiangmutouzi，yinci xinlijiqibupingheng。

2、两“强”相逢，不容易示弱，不明白卖萌

 huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima？congqiuzhuzhedediyiduanhunyinshenghuokanlai，jiulejietashiyigeshifenqianghandenvren，benlaiqianghandenvrenpeidalieshidenansheng，zaiyiqihaikeyizhenxingfu，dantaxinlishifenmuqiang，qiaobuqi“baerduo”dezhangfu，yinci zhaodaoyiqiandechulianqingren，yejiushimuqiandewanliuzongtimubiao，danzaohuanongrendeshi，zongtimubiaomubiaoyeshiyigeshifenqianghanderen。

liangqiangxiangfeng，birandeyouyigerenhuishiruo、huirenrang，jiarumeiqiangxiangduixing，zaihaodeqingganyehuibeixiaohao。

 qiuzhuzhejinguanxiaibizishenqiangshidenanren，danhaimeizhaodaoheqianghannanshengjiaowangdefangshi，yiranyongkandaiqianrenlaogongdefangfayingduixinren，danzongtimubiaobingbushitadeqianrenlaogong，rongrubushang，yinci caiyouneimeduozhengyi。

3、疑心重，随处猜疑，随处提防

 “yixinzhong”kenengshiquanbutiaoxuan“erhun”nvxingdechangjianwenti，henyoukenengduiyiqiandehunyinshenghuozijintouruguoshao，tamenzaiyingduixiayiduanqinggandeqingkuangxiabianhuiyouyidingdeshoulianxing，keshitamenzhishoulianxingzishendeqinggan，queguidingtarenduizishenyichengxiangdai。

 zheiyeshiqiuzhuzhezaoshouqingganwentideyuanguzhiyi，tameifawanquanjianxinrujindenanpengyou，youqishizaixiannanyougenqizilihunbulijiadeqiantitiaojianxia。

 neiyangdexianghuzhijiantifangxianghuzhijiancaiyishijishangshimanjianxinde，liangrendouhenpijuan，jiaowangbudangran，congerhuizaochenggeshigeyangdefenqi。

4、信赖心理状态重，心理状态预估过高，造成 失调

 qiuzhuzheshihuaizhefeichangdadexiwangcaihezongtimubiaozaiyiqide，zaitaxiangxiangzhongzongtimubiaoyingdangxiangshinianqianyiyang：youyidingdediwei、zhuanyenenglituxian、duizishenhao、zhengqueyindaozishendeng。

 neimegaodeqiwangzhirangtabuguyiqiedechongxiangzishendeganqing，dantaquewangjikaoliangzheigenanrendegongzuonenglishibushihaixiangshinianqianyiyang，jiqirujindezishenhaixiangshinianqianneimaxinshouma?