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 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？“zishashidanshen”zheigecixianglaidahuoerzaoyitingershuleba，tadeyisibianshi，miaoshuyizhidanshenyoubuzhudongtuozhanshejiaomeitifanchouqulejiexinpengyou，quemeirixiangxiangzhenengyouzheganqingdegerenxingwei。

 zheigecigangyichuxian，jiuzaochenglechengqianshangwanwangmindegongmingdian。xuduorenbiaoming“shiwozijimeiyoucuole”!kezhiyanbuhuiguizhiyanbuhui，xuduorenhuanshimeiridamenbuchu、ermenbumaidihuaizhelingshidangdnfsifeizhai，dingzhe“bainiangudu”debiaoshiziganduoluo。

shijishang“zishashidanshen”jiaoda deguanjiannanti，huizongjiuerdian：buzhudong，aixiangxiang。

jinridajiajiulaijutifenxiyixia，“zishashidanshen”derenmen，tamendexintai，jiqizenyangjiejuezheileiqingkuang。

1、“单身多随意，谈恋爱太不便”

 “zishashidanshen”quntili，youfeichangdayibufenshitongyitiaoxuandanshende，youyuxianmafan。zhongjiuguojiafadingjiariyaopeichiyouxipeiwanjiyiwaijingxi，linshuiqianyaowenhaoshangbaowanan。youshihouxialebanxiangfangkongzijiyixia，jieguojiulengdanlemubiaohaidehong。

 eryigerenderichangshenghuobuyongguanzhe，zishenxiangganmaganma，tiaowu、shuaju、wanyouxi，kanshangqudoubitanlianaihaowanerduole。tamennaizhiyouneiyangyijuxuanchuankouhao：“yishidanshenyishishuang，yizhidanshenyizhishuang。”

 danshensuiyi，tanlianaibubian，shijishangjinjinduiwaikaifangdeyizhongshuoci。dajiadezaiqianyishizhonglihuiganjue，lejieyigerenhaobubian，congxiangyudaoxiangshizaidaoenai，yaohuaguoduodeshijianhehuoli，erqiezuizhongdejieguohaibuyidingjixiangruyi，yinci haibibushangdanshenlaideshuangkuai。

 shiwogedaxuetongxue，shigeyangzihaitingshuaidenanhaizi，jiaoxiaozhi。gaoxiaoqinei，tafeilehendadeshijianzhuilaidaoxiaohua，lianggerenshifentianmei。

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？xiaozhidenvyoushiyouqizhongshixinyideren，yaoxiangqingchunouxiangjushidetanlianai。xiaoyuanneilihaixing，kebiyezhihourichangshenghuohegongzuozhongdegongzuoyaliyipumianerlai，xiaozhijiugangkaishijupaxuxuduoduodechuantongjierihejierile。

 shafeikuxinqutiqianzhunbeiyiwaijingxi，shaoqianfeihuoli。zouzouguochangsuibianchidunfanba，shihoudezhiqianhewanjiujiugengnanle。zuizhongtaheguojiguanjiu，guzuyongqitiletichufenshou，suihoudanshenqijin。

zhenduimouxierenlaijiang，tanlianaibingbushipaofu，zhishikunxiansuo，baituolezhihoufandaoshushiduole。

2、“一个人久了，我好像早已丧失恋人的工作能力”

 tanlianaibingbushijiaoyou，pengmiandeqingkuangxiayoushuoyouxiao，daobieyihouhainenggeguogede。tanlianaishiyaoheyigebenlaibulejiederen，buduanfazhandechuangjianqiyidaohunyinguanxi。

 zhenduiyigexinshendouzaoyixiguanyigerendedanshendahueryanshinanyide。pingchangzhibixuhaohaoaiziji，zhaoguhaoziji，shandaiziji。huranyaozhuanhuachengquzhaoliaolingyifang，ailingyifang，henduorenkenengdoushihuiwangershengwei，ganjuezishenzuobudao，jijupayoudichu。

 xuduo zishashidanshenderen，pengdaoyouyixingpengyouzhiquanfanyuewan，diyifanyingbianshizhaojiekouhuijue。youaimeiduixiangyaoansongqiubo，mashangbianhuanhuatitaolunbaquanbudefenseqipaodadeyigebusheng。

 zheixierenxinlibingbushibuqidaitiantiandelianai，zhishibujianxinzijiyoulianrendegongzuonengli。yinci tamenjinjinyeyediweichizhezishenheyixingpengyoudejianju，huaizhe“zhenjiepaifang”sibufangshou。

 zhenbuyaoshuo，danshenhenjiuhuranyaotanlianai，queshihuilingrenbuzhisuocuo。gengyoudanzixiaode，naizhihuiyaoxiangfanjuanpugaidangwantaozou。

3、“缘份是上天安排好的，我等待就可以了”

 kaishiwoyetiguoqule，zishashidanshendelianggehexinnanti“buzhudong、aixiangxiang”，yejiushibenlaimeiyoujijiquzhuiqiuwanmeiganqing，queyiranaiqingzuimeilizaishihedeqingkuangxiayidinghuichuxian。

huaizhezheileiniantoude“danshenwang”men，yishi“lan”，ershi“taobi”。

 buxiangchuaimozhaoshuqutiejinyigeren，feijinxinjiquyuetarenbibushangmengtoushuijue。buxiangbazijizhenglideguangcaizhaoren，yebuxianggenggairichangshenghuodexiankuang，diaozhengqingxudaoyigerenyetingbucuo。

 erdaibandepingdingyuanfenhuizishensonghuoshangmenlai，zeshi“huibixing”derenchangchangzuodeshi。denghouyigexusidezhenzhengdeaiqing，shijishangshiweilegenghaodikeyilinshidujuezhenshidehunyinguanxi。

 xueshengxiaokejiuzheiyang，zaitaqian27nianderenzhinenglili，jinyoushangtiananpai、minglizhudingdecaisuanshiganqing，kaorenweiyinsuzhengdeheqinfende，jinjincouhe。

 huijuecouhedeta，jiushizheiyangmairulezishashidanshendelumian。tapingchangdoubuhenaidaban，zongganjuezhenshishandaizijideren，yehuiaitazimingqinggaodemoyang。