花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？该如何突破关系？

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？zaiqingganlidajiahuipengdaoneimeyizhongzhuangkuang：nipangbianrenfenshou，keshiguohouniyoudianerhouhuimoji，yaoxiangfuhexing，danyebuyuanyixianzhangkou。

 liangrenjianjiandijuedechubianchengpenyou，sheiyebuyuanyizaijinyibu。zaizheigeshihou，liangrenzhongjiandezheileiguanlianjiulaidaowanliude“aimeiqi”。

 danniqingchuma?nvrenhenanrenbuyiyang，tamenyushengjulaijiuhuiyoujiaoqiangdezhengfuyuhezijuexing。yinci dangchuxianyigeshitadongxindemubiao，takendinghuizhudongjingong。

neizenmecainengshitaduinizhongxindianranxingquaihao，zaiduduinidongxinni?buyaozheji，xiankanlaiyigexueshengdeshili：

 beibeishigejixingzixingzicha，gennanpengyouzaiyiqi2nianle，nanhaiziyizhihenguanzheta，keshirenderenshouquanshiyouchengdude，laidaolingjiedianyehuibaofa。

 wojuede，jinqibeibeizaiduyouyuyixiewuguanjinyaodesuoshinaotichufenshou，nanhaizijiulijitongyile，erqiekuaisulaheishanchulebeibei，kanshangquwuqingyoulengdan。

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？beibeiyilianmengde，haozaiyiqianyouduguodajiadewenzhangneirong，lixingdemeiyousipilailian，zhishilizhilejirihou，jijijiashanglenanhaizi，genjuyihou，meiyouzhiyiyuanguhuoshikenqiufuhexing。

 qingjingdedengleertian，jiuyongpenyoudezhenshishenfengennanhaizizhaohuatile，juedededaonanhaizidoumeiyouxuehuifangxiazishen，youshihoukaijiawanxiaohua，juedehaihaoxianglianaizhongdemoyang，yixienuanwei，keshinanhaiziyituozaituomeiyoutifuhexing。

 beibeiyixiezheji：neiyangxialaiyebushigeshi，wanyizhenjiangwodangpenyoulegaizenmeban，woyigenvsheng，yebutaikenengshangganzhequqiufuhexing，danshineiyangtuoxialai，shifouhuisangshiwanliudejihui?

daizhuzhuduoyihuo，tayoulaiqiujiaoledajiatanlianaifazhanxuehao。

 yijuwojiejueguowanqideganqingwanhuishilidegongzuojingyan，genjuzhangwoqingganzhongdejutiqingkuang，wobangbeibeipouxilenanpengyoubuyuanyijijitifuhexingdesandianguanjianyuangu：

一、分手之后的舒适度超过恋爱中的舒适度

yaoxiangwanliujiuxuyaoxianrenqingtichufenshoudeshizhishishenme。

 dabufenganqingyemeiyoujiuqushibawandegushiqingjie，zhenshirangnanshengjuecetichufenshoude，shi“neiyike”taganjuemeiyounitahuiguodegengqiang，huanjuhuashuotichufenshouhetanlianaizhongjian，tahuifenshoudeshushiganchaoguoyunitanlianaideshushigan。

 suoyishuotichufenshoushizaizisizilishijiaozuochudetiaoxuan。tichufenshoubingbuyiweizhetaduiniyidianqinggandoumeile，zhishihenyoukenengzhenduidajiadangjindeqingkuang，tazhiyouyongtichufenshoulaihuodezishendeyidiankongjian。

 beibeidezhuangkuang，nanhaizixianzhutihuilaidaofenshouzhihoudesuiyishufu，bingqiebeibeiyinweiyaoxiangwanliu，yecaozonglezishendexintaihexinfuqizao，zheizhongdourangnanhaizihenshiyong。

二、沒有感受到女孩真实的更改，针对复合型自信心不够

 yaolejieliangrendeguanlian，yizhishibeibeichangchangnaotichufenshou，qingxubuwending，aichizeta，zaitichufenshoudezheiyihuanjie，tajinguanjiandaobeibeimeiyounaopiqi，meiyouchaonao，xingqingfangfogengqiangle。

 dannanhaizihenyoukenenghuiwuyiwei，quanshibeibeiweilegenghaodihehaoeryouyizhuyaobiaoxianchuqude，bingbingbushiqueshigenggai，yaoshifuhexing，yiranhuiyicuozaicuo。

三、不明白男孩子的心理状态，沟通交流正确引导不及时

 zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，beibeifanlejuedaduoshunvhaidoushihuifandebuzhengque，bianshigennanhaizixianliaodequanguochengzhongtixindiaodan，pazijishuoshuocuo，nanhaizijiumeilizishenle，zishenjiuwanquanshiquwanliudejiyu。

 keshizheileiquyueshidexianliao，zongshiqueshixianshiganhezishendejiagou，nanhaizidoubusha，tabixudeshiyigezhenshigenggai，shitadongxin，dongtadenvpengyou，erbushiyigezongshiquyuefuhetadeqiannanyou。

 yinci aimeiqidexianliaoshifenguanjian，bujinyoujiagou，youyaohuizhengqueyindaotajijitifuhexing，bawoxianliaodejiezouganhefangshishifenzhongyao。