花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？如何谈一场甜宠剧式的爱情？

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？qianzhenyoubeidajiaqiyedexiaonvhaimenfenxiangleyibuju，《wanmeixianshenghechabuduoxiaojie》。tamenzaitantaolibiandexianhunhouaizheigewenti，bingqieduihoubian2gezhurengongtiandaoyusiyuxiandegushiqingjieyouyidingdecaiyi，yizhigenwoshuozheishijiujingyoumuyouhenyoukeneng。

 jianyitinglexiaogushidedayueneirongyihou，wofaxianleshijishangxianshishenghuozhongyouhenduolianrendexiangchumoshidougenjulidezhangjiaoshouheyunshuyouqileisi，yigeaojiaoguimao，yigeqiangliegongji，poyouyixie“wangdaozongcaiaishangwo”zheileiwangluoxiaoshuodeyuyi。

 xiaoshuojihedianshilianxujulidejuqing，haowuyiwendoushihuiwangchaochongyeyouwanmandefangweiqubianxie，ziranzheileijieguozaidajiapingshiderichangshenghuoyeshiyoukenengchuxiande，weihe?

我有一个有关木工板与钢钉的情感基础理论，能够来给大伙儿表述这件事情：

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？mugongbanyugangdingdejichulilunjiushiwodeyuanchuangjichulilun，shijishangyeshizhongguoshijiatingzhonghenpubiandeyizhongzhuangkuang：

 nanshenghaoxiangyikuaiguangjiedemugongban，kanshangqurenfeichanghao，keshihaoxiangyouyizhonggongdi，luanbaihuacongyingguo，pianyebuzhanshen。xuduo nvhaiduizheileinanhaizihenganxingqu，keshidangzishenyaoxiangzaijinyibushi，quefajuelingyifangmeiyouguoduodedafu，yincitiaoxuanlecheli。

 erjinyouzheixieqianxinkeyimingxianbiaoshubixuerqiejianchibuxiedenvhai，caihaiyoujihuixianggangdingyiyangjinjindingzaimugongbanshang，guanliancaikeyiweichixialai。rutongdingzihuayiyang，chanshengleyigexindetuansheji，yigexindejiazhong。

木工板几个规范的特性：

 1、zaiyurengoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxiajibenshangkanbujianlingyifangminganhebixubierendedian，haoxiangyizhihenlihaidemoyang，zongshizaitourubangzhutaren，quefeichangshaojienatarendehao，meiqukuijiurenqingshigu。

2、feichangshaoqufuwuchengnuoxienaxie，keshishuodaodeshierjichudoushihuiqubaozheng。

 3、jibian pengdaoledongxindenvhaiyebuhuisuibiandejijizhuiqiuwanmei，jiarubeijujuelehenkenengxunsushoulianxing，renherenzhijiandejiexianfendehenqingchu。

genzheileirenjiaowangyizhijuedebuhaoxianggenyigegongpingrendejiaowang，zhishixiangheyigeyoudianerpiaomiaodeshenhuoshibabajiaowang。

 dajiazaikanyixia《wanmeixianshenghechabuduoxiaojie》libiandenanzhuzhangjiaoshou，yigehaoxiangbuzhudongyebuhuisuibiantongyitarendeguimaonan，haoxiangyejichujizhihehulezheiyimugongbannandepinpaixingxiang。

而钢钉也几个显著的特性：

 1、youqidenadeqifangdexia，keyiyouqimingxianhejiandingbuyidebiaoshuzishendeqinggan，burongyiyouguoduodegulvhuoshidanyoulaixiandingzishendebiaoshu。

 2、burongyibeilingyifangdelengmofanyingsuoweihaizishendegerenxingweiheniantou，weilegenghaodizishenyaoxiangdeerquqinfenjianchibuxiehezhuiqiuwanmei，jijijinxingzhenduilingyifangjinxingganqingjingong。

dajialaikankanjulideyunshu，shifoujirendejuedeyeshineiyangyigejizijideniantoueryingyongqinfenzhuiqiuwanmeidenvhai?

shuodaozhei，neidajiataolunyixia，mugongbannanshizenyangyibuyibuzoudaoxianzaide?

1、担心创建关联

renshiyizhongshifenbixurenjijiaowangdexiaodongwu，zheiyeshirenyushengjulaijubeideshehuishuxing。

yingguozhumingdexinlixuezhuanjiasatiyanaizhimingquetichu：

renmeiribixu4gexiangyongcaikeyicunhuo，bagexiangyongcaikeyibaochirichangshenghuo，12gexiangyongcaikeyifazhanqushi。

jinguanzheiyiyoudianerfukua，keshiyecebianbiaomingrenjijiaowangdebixuzhenduirenzisheneryanshiyijianduomedeguanjiandeshier。

keshizhenduimugongbannaneryan，tamenquedanxinzheizhongrenjijiaowang。

 meiyigerenshijishangdouqipanzhenshiderenjiguanlian，keshizaocheng mugongbannandanxinrenjijiaowangdeyuangu，laiziyumuyingyongpinguanlian。mamakandaidangchuzuoweixiaohaidedajiadexintaihedajiajieshoudaodetihuieryan，zaoyijiledajiazuizhongyaodeyigeganshou，bianshi——tarenyudajiaderenjiguanlianshizenyang?

 dangfumulingdajiahaipaqubixudeqingkuangxia，dajiajiuxuehuilequandoubukuijiutaren，burongyihetarenmaimeng，yiqiedouyuelaiyuehendandu。

 dangfumulingdajiajuededaoqingshi，dajiajiuganshoulaidaodajiashijishangzhenduitareneryanbingbuzhongyao，yizhimeiyouanquangan，lianfumudouganjuedajiabuzhongyao，hekuangtarenna?

 erdangfumujiwomendeaiqingguodudeduo，guodudecanyuwomenderichangshenghuo，dajiahuiganshoudaoguanlianzishenshitongchude，womenzaiguanlianzhizhongshihuibeikongzhibeiyanmeide。dajiabixudujuefumu，caikeyishuxindebianchengzishen，liruguowailiuxue，yidinianshu，yidigongzuozhongzheileide。

erzuizhongerzhongzhuangkuang，tongchangdaozhilemugongbannandechuxian。

renzuoweishehuidongwu，danduzishenbingbushinanti，keshiguoduodedandu，shizhishangshijishangshiyizhonggudan。

erbixushangdeqiuzhibude，rangmugongbannandequanqiuzhongdongle：shijishangbeihaohaodikandaishiyizhongnaxiewenroudezhencheng。

 dangzheiyinanhaizishanjierenyidemiandaliangdeqingkuangxia，gengxiangyaoyongzishenjuedehaodefangfalaiwenroukandaiquanqiu，youyugaoqingchuzhenchengguanjiandeshijiyiyi。

 jieguoqueyouyuduihenduorendouhenhao，fandaokanshangquhaoxiangyigejiayongzhongyangkongdiao，rangrendaotui，zhongjiuganqingzishizhizhongzhuiqiuwanmeideshibeipianai，erbushirende。

 rutongwodeyigexueshengxiaopi，taxiaidemubiao，jiubiaoshuguoduixueshengdexiai，chuqumanpaodeqingkuangxianaizhijijibaolexiaopiyixia，keshixiaopizishenganjueyoudianermaomeijiuraokaile。jieguozheiyinanhaizijiucongcimeichuxianguo。

 xiaopishijishangzishenduizheiyinanhaiziyoudianeryisi，keshinanhaizituranjianbulianxileyeyeshijuedewuyuanwugu，nongbudonglingyifangdaodishayisi。

 shijishangzheiyinanhaiziyeshiyigemugongbannan，kandaolexiaopidehuijue，juedexiaopiduitameiyouxingquaihao，weilegenghaodizhongshixiaopi，guoduanzishenxiaoshile。

2、过度注重服务承诺

henyoukenengyouxierenshuo，mugongbannandebuzhudongjiqiduizhoubianrendouhenhao，neibubianshijiayongzhongyangkongdiaodahuaxinnanme?

woxiangjiangdeshi，mugongbannanbushijiji，bujujue，naizhiduirenherendouhenhao，keshihehuaxinnanjiaoda dechabiebianshichengdan。

 fuwuchengnuoyexuhenshao，keshiduizijishuoguodehuashichengdanzerende，erzheiyishibushixiangyaofuzeren，bamugongbanzhuangdehaolaogonghexiaohaiyiyangdehuaxinnanqubieqilai。

zhangzhenyuegelibianchangde：“naxiedijiutianzhang，shijishangjinjinsuibianshuoshuo”tashihuaxinnan。

 ermugongbannanqueyouyuzhenduiyiwudezhuzhong，gaoqingchufuwuchengnuodefenliang，caiburongyineimajiyunvhainaxiedijiutianzhangdelangmandehua，fandaorangnvhaiganjuefaweimeiyoudafu，yejiudaozhile“pianyebuzhanshen”decuojue。

 youyugaoduzhongshiguanlian，youyugaoduzhongshizishen，yinci youduizishenshuodehuahenzhuzhong，duiyiwukandefeichangzhong，duizishenshuodehuayongxin，burongyisuibiandechengnuo。erbushixiangzhangzhenyuegelibianchangde，naxiedijiutianzhangjinjinsuibianshuoshuo。neibanlaihongnvhaigaoxing。

結果就越来越用心又乏味，一个直男癌。

 zhengqilinrandehaolaogongyizhinanyixiangqunzixiadeyeshoudehuaxinnanyiyang，nengkaolvnvhaidexiangxiang，keshizhenduifuwuchengnuodegaoduzhongshi，zhenduiyiwudegaoduzhongshi，yerangmugongbannan，zaiqueshipengdaoshierdeqingkuangxiacaisuanshinagehuiweijiadingzaiqianmiandeneiren。yeshikeyizhenshixiangyaoqushizhegoujianyigehaodejiazhongderen。

 yinweimugongbannandezhuduotedian，zaocheng jinyougangdingnv，yigekeyisuiyidebulizhidejiandingbuyidebiaoshuganqingdenvhaicaikeyibubeimugongbannandexianxiangsuohepao，lijiquyinranmugongbannandexinlirichangshenghuodejiqingheqipan，caikeyihuandereqingtianmideaiqing。

 mugongbanyouyuyongyougangdingcaibingbushizhishicengdiezaiyiqi，erchanshenglegeshigeyangdezhichengpin，muzhibieshu，mudiaobaijian，mucaizhuoyibandengzheixie。ergangdingyongyoumugongban，caikeyituxianzishendeshiyongjiazhiheshijiyiyi，jinmilianxi。

 zhenzhengdeganqingheqingshangzhishang，congbushiyitaogudingbudongdewupinquyingfulingyifang，zhishizhenshidewolejielenishisheiya，wocaikeyilejienideshenshangfashengshenmeshi，caikeyiniyigemuguangwoyegaoqingchushayisidezhongshenbanlv。

 caikeyizhenshizaigudandequanshijie，youyigexianghuwennuandehaigang，erbushizongzaiguaiyihuoshiwunailingyifang，zongshizaihelingyifangzhengzhi，ranghaohaoqingganyuelaiyuetongtongshinanti。

 shuobaileduideren，bianshiyunixingqinghexingweimoshiqiehederen。rutongwentunchenwende“mugongbannan”huihejianchibuxiejiqingde“gangdingnv”zaiyiqiyiyang——

 nizijishishenmetedian，bianhuiyouzhuanshuyunide“qiehemubiao”，hetazaiyiqi，nide“buyiyang”quanshiyoushi，tahuikuanrongni，beinishenshendixiyinzhu。

 zhangwonizijidetedian，jiunengxiezhunijingquejingzhundingweizishendaodiheshenmezhongleidenanhaizigengshihe，jiaowangqilaicaikeyigengshushi、gengwennuanchijiu。

neima，nidetexingtexinghexingqinghuijiniyunazhongnanshigengbanpeini?zuoyigejiancenijiuzhidaole~