怎样谈恋爱?抓准男人分手后的心理变化

 wojinnianershiersui，rengzaidudaxue，nanpengyou27sui，zaoyigongzuozhongyouliangnianle，dajiadangshishizaiwangshanglejiede，jianguojidaohoujiugangkaishixiangchule，daoxianzaiyedabannianduole，kejiuzaijiriqian，tagenwotilefenshou。neimetanlianaidemudeshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenyangtanlianaidewenzhangba。

 yuanyinshi“dahuoeryaoqiubuyiyang”，taganjuetameiyougongzuonenglizhaoliaowo，youyuwoshigeyouqimeianquangandenvhaier，zhanrenjing，ertaqueshigeyouqibixuzishenshineikongjianderen。

yiwangdajiajiaowangshi，tachangchangyaoquyidigongchu，keshimeitianwanshangtadoushihuibangwotongdianhua，zhibuguoshishijianhenduan。

zenyangtanlianai?woyouyuzheizhongshiqingyizhigentaku，tayikaishihainengnaixindihongwo，zhihoutajiuyulaiyuyanfanle。

 tahairangwoduodushu，duoquwaibianjiaojiaoyou，bubizongweizhutazhuan，yinweiwoqinfenshizheguo，danshiwobuganxin，worenweitabianshibuaiwo，yaoburanweishenmehuijiangwowangwaituini?

jiushizheiyangtayulaiyulengdan，bicizhijiandejianjuyeyuelaiyueda，zhizhitamingquetichulefenshou。

 wogentashuodao：“jiarugaizheng，youjihuima?”taqueganjuewobuhuihenyoukenenggai，zheiyihou，wozaijitamenfaxinxi，tayaobubuhui，yaobujiuhenfuyanleshi，wotexianghetafuhexing，woxiangwenyixiawoyoujihuima?

答：

 tarendoushuoaiqingshiyigejiangyiduilurenbianweilianren，youjiangyiduiqinglvxingtongmoludeshoujiyouxi，erzaidajiadeshenshang，woqueganjuenicongshizhizhongyemeiyouzhangwoguozheigenanren。

nijihudoubuqingchutajiujingbixudeshiyifennaxiedeaiqing，yinci dajiacongyikaishibianshi“shengshu”de。

zailingyifanglaikan，niyejiurutongshiyiduopiaoliangdemeiguihua，benzhenierqu，keshichupengnishiquebeinidecizhadetongkubukan。

 dannijinguanqujueyuta，keyoubuqingchuruherongjinta，yinci taganjuedajiazhongjiancunyouyaoqiuchabie，taxiangjiniai，kequebuzhidaoruhequai。

niyaoshitaaizheni，quebuzhidaozenmerangzishenshenai，zheijiushidajiazhongjianjiaoda denanti。

jiaruniyaoxiangwanliulingyifang，jiuxuyaoquchunideshenshangde“ci”，quzhangwotadeyaoqiu，gaibianzishen，qiangdaziji。

xiabianwonengrangniyixiewanliushangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

减少需求感，不要联络另一方

 zaiqinggandequanqiuli，zhudaoquanshizhongdouwozaixuqiugangengdiderenshoushang，youyutashirenmendebenxing，yuefawufadedaodewupin，yuefahuixiangyaoquaixi。

yinci zaiaiqingzhong，guoduodexuqiuganfandaohuibalingyifanghetui，yerangnizijihusiluanxiang，chuzaichuyubeidongdediwei。

 yinci ，wanliudediyibubianshiyaoxuehaodiaozhengbenshendexuqiugan，guanlifangfahaozishendexintai，buyaoqulianluolingyifang，neiyangcaikeyiyuqinguzongdiqingchulingyifangduinidejingtixin。

重视提升自己

fenshounenggoujinijianjiedechajuezijicunyoudedaliangquexian，youjuhuashuodehendui“yirenweijing，nenggoumingdeyushi”。

 jiranzaoyifenlile，biaomingdajiazhongjiandejiaowangdequeshiyoushenmewentide，yinci ninengchenzheiduanshijianhaohaodiqutigaoziji，wanshanziwo。

nixushushangshuo，lingyifangcengjiniduokanshu，kuozhangyixiezishendeshejiaoquan，shijishangzheiyeshihaoshier。

 ninengquzhiruwuhaohaodixuehaozenyangbahuolituiguangzaizishendeshenshang，duoquchupengyixiefengfuderichangshenghuo，fazhanqushiyixiaxindexihao，tigaobenshenqichang，xuehaozhonggouzishencaisuanshiyingshiyongjiazhi。

jinyoubuduanfazhancaikeyibuduantigaoxiyinli。

去试着联络，展示自身的改变

 wanliushibixuxixinde，dengzhenigaibianhetigaozijiyihou，nenggoutanjiuxingxuexideheqiannanyoulianluo，ninengxianggeyibanpengyouyiyang，qingqingsongsongdiweilingyifangqiujiaoyixienanti。

 jiarulingyifangduinidexintaisuanbushangtaidichu，neimaninengzaiyihoudeshenghuolijitamengongxiangyixieyouqudeshi，jiarulingyifanghuanshihenlengmohedichu，neimajiuzaidengyiduanshijian。

 helingyifangfuchouzhelianmeng4qinei，yidingyaoliuyibakongzishendexuqiugan，lingwaibuluhenjidiweilingyifangzhanshizishendegaibian，jiaowangshiyidingyaozhuyaobiaoxiandejiuhaoxianggeyibanpengyouyiyang，neiyangcaiburongyiranglingyifangzaochengfangbeixinlizhuangtai。

 dengdajiazhongjiandelianluojianjiandiyuelaiyuejingchangleyihou，zaiyaoqinglingyifangchuquyiqichigefanhuoshikankandianying，jianjiandirangqingganshengwen。

fenshouhuoxuhentongchu，danjiarunihuanyigeshijiaoqukankan，zheiyeshiyiciziwochengzhangheziworenshidejiyu。

 tanlianaidemudeshishenme?yinci dajiachangchangshuozhenshidewanliuyeshizhonglianzhongliandequanguocheng，youyujinyoujiejuewentile，zishenhuodetigaole，caikeyinenggougenghaodixuehaozenmerangaiqingchijiu。