怎样谈恋爱?学会这4招也迫不及待回到你身边

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 niyibianmandifanyuetadedongtaixing，quekanbujianyisiyiwangdeyinhen;nijuededabaitianpinlemingdigongzuozhongjiunengmamuzishen，keyeliqueduinishuo，bubizijipianziji......

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 danshijishangzhenduiwanliuzheijianshiqing，zuibuyongdebianshi“xinji”，youqishinvhai，duiwanliuzonghuiyouyixiecuowuguannian，juede“wanliuyaojinzao”。

 danshijishangwanliuzhong，dajiazuibihuidefandaoshixinji，youyu，nvrenhenanrenshierzhongbuyiyangdeweishengwu，zhenduifenshouhoudexintai，yeshibuyiyang。

 nanrenzaifenshouhou，tongchangdoushihuilijingsanzhongbuyiyangdexinlizhuangtaihuanjie，meiyigehuanjiedewanliumeirirenwuquanshizhizefengongbuyiyangde，jinyoukanchuannanrendezheizhongxinlizhuangtaizhuanbian，caikeyifangzhidajiawucaiwanliujinqu。

第一阶段：放肆期

 gangfenshouhou，nanshenghuichuxianyiduanshijiandefangsiqi，jiuruyuqunzhongyouhaiyang，niaoerzhongbaocangqiongyiban，huanyuzide，zheigeshihoudetamen，shibuyuanbeiguanshude，gengbieshuofuhexingle。

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 dajiayouyiweixuesheng，jiaoxiaoxiao(biming)，henanpengyouyizhiyiguolian，dajiadoulejieyiguoliandefenqizishenjiuduo，haibutaihaochuli。

xiaoxiaobianshihenanpengyouzaiwaidiqinei，fashengzhengzhihewujiede，zaocheng tamenouqifenshou。

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 kemeichengxiang，pengmianmeiyousanfenqing，fanerbafenqigaodegengbianda，liangrendangzhongchaonaoshengbuxiangwanglai，yuanbenjinjinouqifenshou，yixiajiubianchenglebinglixingfenshou。

 yinci jiarunvhaibuyuanbafenqigengweiehua，jiubuyaozaizheiyihuanjie，hetajiuchanbuxiu，nanrendoushihuandehuanshide，wanliububijigongjinli，zheiyihuanjiedenvhaiyaolizhididenghounanshengjindaoxiayijieduan。

第二阶段：孤独期

dangnanrenfangsiyiduanshijianhou，jiuhuishenxianguanyunidezhuduozhuiyizhong，erqiemingxiandihuailianguoqu。

 zenyangtanlianai?rutonghuanlehoudejimoyiyang，jinyoujiejinquanlidihuanleguo，caigengkanqilaijimodecangliang，zheiyihuanjiebianshiwanliudezuijiashijile。

 qianbiandajiadexueshengxiaoxiao，yeshikaocihuanjiewanhuinanpengyoude，zaixiaoxiaoqueshiyunanpengyoufenshouhou，tajiuzhaodaodajia，dajiazhangwozhuangkuanghou，jutizhidaoxiaoxiaodediyigeliucheng，bianshi“naixindideng”。

 yikaishixiaoxiaohaihenzheji，hendanxinlingyifanghuiwangjizishen，kedangyigeyuehou，nanpengyouweixinpengyouquanshengjileyizhangyiqianyuxiaoxiaochuxingdebeijingzhaoshi，xiaoxiaocaishuxinchulai。

 yincixiaoxiaojijijitamendianlegezan，tananpengyouyelikehuiyinglexiaoxiao，zhujianxiufulianluodeliangren，zailaoshidejutizhidaoxia，qingganyemanmanshengwen，meiduojiunanhaizijiujijiqiuraole。

zheiyihuanjiedexiaoxiaodouganleshenme?shijishang，tajinjinzhaozhengquelejihuibale，nvrenhenanrenbutongzhichujiuqujueyuzheier。

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第三阶段：成长期

 jiarudierjieduan，nvhaimeiyouzhangwohao，rangnanshengjindaodisanjieduan，jiuxuyaodangxinle，youyucihuanjieduinanshengzuizhongyaodebianshixiyinliheshenmiganle。

zhikaoyiqiandeganqingjichuzaoyibuqizuoyongle，niyeyaozengjiadamali，zaiciyingzaogerenjiazhi，shitagangkaishizaiciguanxinni。

jinyourangnanshengjuede“woshiqulenile，wohouhuile”caikeyicujinnanshengjijiwanliuni。

 yinci zheiyihuanjiedeni，huitouruxuduo ，bulunshirongmaohuanshibenzhihanyangzheixie，bixuchaoguotayiqianduinideyuanyouyinxiang，neiyangcaikeyiqiaojitaderenzhidu，heqiuzhiyu。

wanliu，bingbushiyigunaode“xiaxinji”，jinyouzhibizhiji，qiezhunjihuicaikeyiyijijizhongdiwanliuaiqing。

 tanlianaidemudeshishenme?danshijinguanjihuihenzhongyao，keshigengguanjiandehuanshizhenxinshiyi，buranyiweiyikaofangfa，meiqusikaofenshoudezhenshiyuangu，neimajibian wanliu，yeshizhulandashuiyichangkong。