怎样谈恋爱?做到这三点轻松走出情绪反复

 “jiaoshi，fenshouzhendeshitaitongchule，buguanwozenmeyoukuyounao，ruhejijilianluota，qiuta，quzhaotagoutongjiaoliu，naizhishizhaoqinrenquandao，taquanshilengdanguoduandemoyang，ruobushiyinweiaiqingta，libuleta，sheixiangyaobazijidezizunfangdaodimianshangrongtacaitaa!”neimetanlianaidemudeshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenyangtanlianaidewenzhangba。

 jianxinxuduoxiaobaobaofenshouhoudoushiyouzuolexiangjinsipilailiandegerenxingwei，keshizhenduinanhaizieryan，henkenengtajieshoudaodeshujuxinhaoshi：“nizhixiangyaowodenanren，keshiquebudongwodexin!”

 yaolejienanhaizizhuiqiuwanmeitanlianaideshushigan，jiugennvhaizhuiqiuwanmeilianaizhongzishendexintaikeyibeimeishimeikezhaoliaoyiyang，youqishidangyigenanshengganjuegennijiaowangfeichanglei，henbushufudeqingkuangxia，tazongshigengyaoxiangtaochuni。

 zenyangtanlianai?dangyigenanshengganjuegennifuhexingshiyijianfeichangleideshier，neitajiuburongyiqusikaozheiyiduanguanlian，zheiyeshiweishenmehenduorenyuanbenshiyinnixingfenshou，sipilailianhouwanquanbianchenglebinglixingfenshoudeyuangu。

suoyishuoyaoxiangqudechenggongdefuhexing：

yifangmianbixudajialejienanxingsiwei;

lingyifangmianshixuehaoguanlizijidexintaihegerenxingwei。

 zaibeifenshouhoudeguanjianshiqi，jinkenengbaozhengbusipilailian，jitamenyixieshijianyukongjian，shitayouziwofansi，lizhisisuodejiyu。

zuixiandajiabixugaoqingchudeshiweiheyaojiqiannanyouyiduanlizhideshijian。

 xuduo nvhaizaoshoubeifenshouhoudediyifanyingshiquku、quqiulingyifangbuyaolikai，yiqianyouyigexintaikongzhinenglijiaoweichadexueshengfenshouhoushineiyangxushude：

 “jiandaofenshouduanxiaoxideqingkuangxia，woneishihounaoqiaolikelengzhu，tongchexinfeirenzhezheyanlei，wojitamenhuilexinxineirong：‘wonaerzuodebutaihao，nijuedechuqu，wozhuanxingma，qiunile，bubigenwofenshou。’

 jieguozheitiaoxinxineirongniniuruhai，quanbuyeliwoxiangxingshizhijuyiyang，jimeiyoubanfajienafenshoudekeguanshishi，youmeiyoubanfazhongzhiyoushangjiaolvqingxudexintai，neiwanwojitamenfaguoerbaiduotiaoduanxiaoxi，daguoshangyibaiduogedianhua，suihoujiubeiwanquanlaheishanchule。”

 beishandiaohoumashangjiashanglingyifang，kuangtongdianhuafaxiaoxi，kuzhenaozheqiulingyifanghuishouzheixie，zheizhongquanshixuduo nvhaichangjiandebuzhengquefuhexingfangshi，jieguozenyangjianxindahuoerdoushiyoufenbiedehuida。

 duiyuweihefenshouhounanhaizibixuyiduanlengjingqi，yuangufeichangjiandan，bianshinanhaihenvhaidesiweimoshishibuyiyangde，xiangduieryan，nanhaizipiankeguan，nvhaipiangan。

 dangnanhaizimingquetichufenshouhou，tahuiyouyigesisuoqi，sisuodeguanjianbianshiquzhuiyihesikaowangrideqingganjingli。liruzishenzaizheiliduanqingganzhongzuozhengquelenaxie，zuobuduinaxie，niyizhizaizheiyiduanguanlianzhong，zuozhengquelenaxiezuobuduinaxie，zheiyiduanguanlianyeyoufuhexingdebixuma，jiarufuhexinghuizaoyushenmenantishifouhuixingfukuailezheixie。

yinci zaigangfenshoudehuanjie，yidingbubisipilailian，jilingyifangliugoulizhisisuodeshijian，zheiyeshidajiachangshuodefenshou。

 ziranfenshoudoubudaibiaozhewomenshenmeshidoubuzuo，dengzhelingyifanglaixunzhaoziji。zheiyihuanjiedajiagengbixuzuodeshizhaohuiziji，ziwofansidajiafenshoudezhijieyuanyin，benshennenggouzuochushenmegaibianhetigao，duiyutigaozijibixuzuochushenmeqinfen。

 zhaodaozaocheng fenshoudezhongyao，suihouzuochugaibianhetigao，dengzhenizaicifashengzaitaderichangshenghuo，jitamenyanqianyiliangdejuede，neima，taxiangyaogennifuhexingdegailvjiuhuidaxuduo 。

 tanlianaidemudeshishenme?danshijishang，jindaofuchouzhelianmeng4dezhongyaohuanjie，henduorenhuiyuelaiyuehusiluanxiang，xintaihegerenxingweiwufakongzhi，liru：lingyifangyouhaodeyijianfankuideqingkuangxia，pobujidaideyaoxiangtuidongguanlianqufuhexing，erlingyifangturanmaochubuduandeqingkuangxia，xintaihuranlengmodeqingkuangxia，youfeichangrongyixiaojisheqi，neizheiyihuanjiegaizenyangdiaojieni?