怎样谈恋爱?挽回男人要学会制造不可得性

 henduonvxingzaiaiqinglimomodidetouru，xiangxiangzhenanshengyekeyixiangshifenaizishen，danshiqinggandeshiera，buyiweizhenitouruleshifen，lingyifangjiutouruleshifen，daotoulainidetourusuoyouzaitayiju“dajiafenshouba”zhongxiaohaodaijin，nijianxinbuyideqingganyuanxianyemoguoyuci。neimetanlianaidemudeshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenyangtanlianaidewenzhangba。

 niyelejiezheishijiemeiyouneimeduodetonghuagushi，keshitadelailinjiniduizhenzhengdeaiqingyongyouyisixiangxiang，nidezijintouruyulaiyuduo，nixiangyaoweitatouruquanbu，niyueaiyuezhang，kezuizhongfushangdeshini。

 xincongmeineiyangdekongdangdang，yigerenzouzaihuijialushang，tazaiyebunengzainipangbianyoushuoyouxiao，nicongciwuxuzaoshangjitamenzuozaodian，dajiadeyiqiedouzaoyifashengbianhua。

 zenyangtanlianai?neijiujingshishenmerangdajiadeqingganfashengbianhuani?youshisharanglingyifangneimawuqingjueqingliqunilei?yaonongdongzheizhongnanti，dajiazuixianyaolejieshenmejiaoaiqing?

 aiqingshi2geshijiandemingxiandeyilai，qinmijiechu，jiqiwujinchongjingbingmeiyoubujueqixindeganqing。zaiaiqingyibanjiedingli，“wujinchongjing”he“meiyoubujueqixin”shiyouweizhongyaode，chongjingxiwang，caikeyirangaiqingbuduanfachun，meiyouchongjingdeaiqingtongchangjieguodoushihuimaixiangmotu。

 neimashishacaikeyirangaiqingzaochengchongjingni，ninengxiangxiangyixia，pingchang、chuishoukededewupinnishifouhuichongjing?huidashiburongyi。nenglingrenzaochengchongjingde，yibanquanshilingrenhaoqixinde，erqiebingbushineimasuibianjiuhuodedewupin。

 yinci zaiaiqingzhong，zuihenzhongyaodebianshiranglingyifangyizhiduiniweichizhechongjing，jineryanzhi，yeshijiushibaocunduinideqiuzhiyuhebukedexing。tashiweichidajiaqinggandeshifenguanjiandeyaosu。

 yinci dajiayaoxiangwanliulingyifang，neimajiukeyiyinqilingyifangdeqiuzhiyu，suihouweichizishendekedexing，baocunyizhongcengcigan，suihouzaiquqinmijiechutazhangwota，dongta，dajiadeqingganjiuhuijianjiandifanhuizuihaoshideqingkuangle。

引起求知欲：

 zenyangzaiwanliudeqingkuangxiayinqiqiuzhiyuni?nixuyaozuodebianshijijigenlingyifangduandiaolianluo，bubiweichizheileisaoraolingyifangdeqingkuang，yaoburantahuiduinigengweiyanfan，hurandiduankailianluo，mianbuletahuiduinizaochenghaoqixin。

 suihounixuyaozuodebianshiqinfentigaoziji，yigaiyiqianlingyifangduinideyuanyouguandian，duohuayixieshijianzaizishendedeshenshang，youwaidaoneisuoyoutigaoyibian，nidegaibianyidinghuirangnanshengdachiyijing，erqieduinizaochenghaoqixin，yaoxiangzaicifajuenideshenshangdeshiyongjiazhi。

 jiarulingyifangjijilailejienidexiankuang，niyejiunenggouzaicizaixianliaojiqipenyoushejiaoquanzhongchengxiannideshiyongjiazhi，buduanzaochenglingyifangdeqiuzhiyu，shizhifachun。

维持可得性：

 kedexingbianshininenggoubeihuodedejilv，nitaifeichangrongyibeihuodele，neimanideshiyongjiazhijiuhuijiangdi，nanshengduinideqiuzhiyuyehuibansuizhezhangwonierjijuxiajiang。

 jiaruniyiqiangenlingyifangtanlianaideqingkuangxia，yizhimeiyoudixiandeditouru，nidehaolaogongchuishoukede，neimatajiuburongyiaixi，gengbuyaoshuoduiniyeyouzhengfuyuchongdongle。yinci ruguonigaibianleyihou，nideshiyongjiazhiduinanshengyouyidingdexiyinzhudeqingkuangxia，qianwanbuyaorangzishenzaidijianle。

 tanlianaidemudeshishenme?nixuyaozuodebianshiyuqingguzong，shitazaihuodehesangshizhongzhenxiyongyou，weichinidecengcigan，rangnanshengzaochengwujindechongjing，jiqixiongxingheermengdezaidudaixie，jiunengxunsutuidongdajiadefuhexing!