恋爱磨合期：这招最吊前任心

 lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？ruguonihelingyifangenaishi，xianghudouchongmanlenengliang，youyudajiaxinxinxiangxi，jianxinxianghuquanshijianglaishouhouzaizishenshenbianderen，liangrendouduijianglaimanhuaixinxin。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

 dandangzaiqizhongyouyifangdeqingganyibuneimanongyushi，tayulingyibanjiufangfogeletaiyuandejianju，zhiyouyaoyaoxiangwang，queruheyezoubujintadeneixin。

 niqidainenghelingyifangzaicifanhuiyiqianxiangaideqingkuang，yinci niyongjiejinquanliwanhuita，danshiniyongyuanbuzhidaonaxiedefangshishiqiadangde。

 jinghuangzhongtiaoxuanlelingyifangzuiyanfandefangshi，zuizhongwuxingzhongbaliangrenfenshoudejiezouganjiasule。neimazaiwanhuizhong，youduoshaowanhuicuowuguannian，dajiayingdangruhefangzhini?

这种挽回错误观念你清楚吗?

 zigaozida：bazijideniantouqiangjiayudaolingyifangdeshenshang，naxiequanshi“yuanyiwei”，juedezishenzaiqingganzhongmeiyoucuo，quanshilingyifangdaozhijinridejushi。

 gaoxuqiugan：neixinzhebuzhushi，xiangtajiulikezhaotashuodaochuqu，lingyifangbuhuijiuyizhifaxinxitongdianhua，bujihuibaoludexuqiugan。mangmugenfengqidai：taiguoxinxinzishenyidingnengwanhui，baodeqidaizhitaigao，jinerjienabushangbuchenggongdejieguo。

paoxiazizun：weilegenghaodihelingyifanghehaoquandouxiangyaozuo，meiyouzishendedaodedixian，yiweideqiehe，disanxiasiquwanhui。

zhishangjigefangmianquanshidianxingxingdewanhuizhongdecuowuguannian，shidajiakendingbukeyipengchudejinqu。

恰当挽回：心态调整

haodexintaishiqudechenggongdeyiban，zaiwanhuiyiqiannizuixianyaobazijidexinlidiaojiehao，rangzishenyuelaiyueqiangjingqilai。

 bukeyibeiyidiansuoshidakua，neiyangnicaikeyidanfuwanhuibuchenggongdejieguo，lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？buhuibeiyanlidajidaoyijuebuzhen。

henduorenyouyuxinlizhuangtaibupingheng，jiqiqueshaozixin，juedezishenzuobudaowanhui，yinci haipaquwanhui。

 lianaililunyounaxie？yeyouderenqingxushikong，jinbuzhuzishendechaxingzi，meishuojijujiuduilingyifangtongma，zheizhongzuofadoubuliwanhui。

 jinyoudiaojiehaozishendexinlizhuangtai，caikeyikeguanxingdeduidaidajiazhongjiandenanti，zaijiexiaqudewanhuizhongcaikeyizhanxianchuzishendefengcai。

恰当挽回：欲擒故纵

 zaidiyibufenzhong，dajiatijilepuluxuqiuganshiyouwudewanhuizuofa。yinci zaiwomenwendingqingxuyihou，yebukeyixinjimashangquwanhui，youyuneiyanghuixianxianchubenshenmingxiandexuqiugan。

nidexinlizhuangtaiwendingle，danbuyiweizhelingyifangdejiezouganheniyiyang，xinlizhuangtaiyediaojieguolaile。

 lingyifangmingquetichufenshou，yidingshizaifumianqingxudekucunjiyaxiacujinde。zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，lingyifangbixudelizhishijianxianeryijianhuigengduoyixie，jiaruzheishihoumangmugenfengdequtaojinhu，zhihuizaochenglingyifangdeqingchunqipanni。

yinci zaifenshouhou，tiyixiandenghou10-20tian，jiqilingyifangdeqiuzhiyu，lingwaiyekeyirangtadeqingxuhuodehuifu。

raokaizheizhongfenshouwanhuidecuowuguannian，caiburongyirangwanhuibianweiyichangdipinzhideganqingjiuchanbuqing。

 henduorenmaixiangfenshoudoushiyouyuhushileyunying，niyiweizaiyiqijiuwanshiruyile。quebuzhidaozaiyiqijinjinqinggandegangkaishi，yunyingcaisuanshirangqingganmaixiangchijiudetoudengdashi。

lianaileixingyoushenmeni？liangrenjiaowangshangdouyouyixiecuowuguannianshiyidingbukeyizuode，hekuangshiwanhuini?