什么是爱一个人?用正确的复合方式挽回对的人

 shenmeshiaiyigeren?danjingyinghunyin，quejuefeiyishi，dangxianghupengdaomoca，bicibianhuigangkaishiyouyidingdeyihuo：tashidongniderenma?tashiduideganqingma?nandaoaiyigerenyoucuoma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaiyigerendewenzhangba。

 yidanyouneiyangdetichuzhiyi，yeyiweizhezhelianggerengangkaishizaochengliefeng，yongyouliefeng，chufeishituoshanchuzhi，buranbicideguanlianyenanyihuodehuifu。

 huoxuxianzaidenijiuchuyuneiyangdeqingkuang，dajiadeganqingtubengwajie，jinguannidexinlingshenchuyouqianbanshebude，danyepobudeyirangbu。

 danshi，zairangbuyihou，daliangdehuanshijimo，zhongjiuniyebuyuanhedongniderenjianxingjianyuan，nidexinlingshenchuyiranqidaizhehetanengyoumeihaomingtian。

yincinigangkaishiwanhui，nigangkaishizheyanyuhuifudajiadeguanlian。

 danshi，yiqiedoubururenyi，ruguonidixiatouxiangtachengrencuowu，shierbingmeiyouxiangnixiangxiangzhongneibanchenggong，fandaoyiqiedouzainibucengxiangdaodefangweifazhanqushi：tameiyoubeinidechengzhisuochudong，naizhizhuyaobiaoxiandehenpaichi，youyiduozheni。

 nandaoshuoshichengxinbuzuma?nineiyangxiangqi。yincinigengxuehuifangxiashenzi，changshizuohaozishi，qidaidedao tadeyuanliang，danshishieryuelaiyuegengcaogaole。

nandaoshuotabingbushidongnideren?yejiushishuo，tazaoyiduinimeiyouyidingdianganqinglemeiyou?

并不是这样。

 shenmeshiaiyigeren?shishishang，yiqieyiduanganqingdouburongyimomingqimiaodexiaotui，yebuhuizaihenduandeshijianneiwanquanxiaohaodaijin。

 taduinihuanshiyouganqingde，zhibuguoshimuqiandeta，douchuyuyige“duinimenganqingfouren”dehuanjie，ziranyehuixiangduidefourenni。

yinci zaizheigeshike，jibian niqianwangwanhui，zhiyoumiaoshuwei“qinglv”，naizhishuo“mangzhuang”yebusuanguo。

 zaifenshouhou，nanshidexintaishihuizhuanbiande，congzuichudepaichi，daozaicixiufudanshenhoudezide，zaidaopingdanqi，zuihouhuiluozaizhuiyiqi。

 jiarunitiaoxuanqianbian2gejieduan，qugentatanfuhexingzheijianshiqing，yezongshishitaganjue“niyizhizaizaicibatalajinhuodui”，tayouzenmekenengbupaichinilei?

 genghekuang，nichangyongdewanhuifangfashibuzhengquede，zhongjiuniyizhizaizuode，shibuduandigentazhiqian，chixudezuochufuwuchengnuo，dannibingmeiyouyiqiedegaibiana，nidekoutoushangfuwuchengnuo，luozaitadeyanli，zongshiganjuenituolishiji。

yinci wanhuiyidingyaoxuanduijihui，yongduiqiadangdefangfa，jinyouwanhuiduicejiejuele，caikeyiwanhuidongnideren。

 xuanduijihui，jiuxuyaoraokaitaduiniyinxiangzuilandeshike，ranglingyifangpingjingxialai，yidanshijianqigongxiao，tabianhuiqingqingsongsongdewangjinizhuduodebutaihao。

 ziran，nigengyingxuanhaoqiadangdewanhuifangfa，jiaruzongzhuyaobiaoxianchuxiaochenxiaochendeyimian，jiaruyizhiyongbeiliangquwanhui，yezongshishitaganjueyunitichufenshouqueshishiqiadangdetiaoxuan。

jinyouruguonizhuyaobiaoxiandefenfaxiangshang，tacaihuirangnibiaoshuzishendejiyu。

ziran，guanjiandeshiniruhequzaicizhanxianzishen。

yaoqingchudeyishidao：dajiadeganqingshicunzaidewentide。

 shenmejiaoaiyigeren?tawangwanggennimingquetichutichufenshou，renzhinenglirentongdajiadetichufenshoujuece，naizhizaitingzhangyiduanshijianneibuyaobaibudingzishendeniantou，bianshiyouyuganqingcunzaidewenti，ertajibian xiangchuli，danyemeifachedixiaochu，yinci zhiyouzhichihouyong，yongfangkaishoudefangfalaigenggaiyiqie。

 jirannenglejiedaozheigewenti，neiyejiulizheniqudechenggongwanhuihenjinle，ziranyiqiedeqiantitiaojianhuanshinikeyijijigenggaiyiqie，chukaigaibianxianzhuangdebenzhihewaizai，tishengziwoshiyongjiazhi，gengzhongyaodehuanshiqugenggaidajiadeganqingqingkuang。

dajiayiqiandeganqingqingkuangjinglixingfu，danzuihouhuanshichaozhecaogaodefangweifazhanqushi，zhidaoshitameifajiena。

 neimenidanenggouzhuiyiyixia，dajiazhongjiandeganqingcongxingfudaocaogao，jiujingjinglilexieshenme?jiujingshiyiheshigangkaishigenggaide?jiujingshiyouyushishenmeyuanyinni?

jinyouruguonisikaoqingxizheizhongnanti，caikeyizhenshideyishidaogenggaiyiqiefangshi，haikeyizheyanyuhuajiemaodun。

 shide，buguannizaishuoshenme，tadounanyirentongni，youyuzaidajiayiqiandejiaowangzhong，zaidajiafashengzhengzhishi，niyeyiqianjiyuguofuwuchengnuo，danzuihousuoyouchengkong，zheiyishitaduinichuxianyichangbuxinren。

 nandaoaiyigerenyoucuoma?suoyini，xiangshitaduinidexintaiyouyidingdegaibian，jiuxuyaozhenshidiluoyuxichu，rangdajiaganqingqingkuangyouyidingdegenggai，rangyiqiechaozheyouliangdefangweifazhanqushi，tadexintaicaihuihuanjie，tayouhuirangnijiyuquzhengshizishen，wojuedebianshinidewanhuitupokouma?