什么是爱一个人?挽回绝情前任成功率飙升

 shenmeshiaiyigeren?ganqinglikaideneiyike，shengsilijie、kubukanyan，gaobudongweihelingyifanghuihuranjiangchutichufenshouerzi，buganxindeniyaowenyiwenqingxi，zhaobuzherenjiutongdianhua，dianhuabujiejiufaxiaoxi，yitiao、lianggen、santiao......nandaoaiyigerenyoucuoma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaiyigerendewenzhangba。

 niqidaizhelingyifangrangniyigequelidehuiying，lingchenyidianxingguolaiyici，meiyou，sandianxingguolaiyici，doumeiyou，wudianxingguolaiyiciyiranmeiyou，liudian、qidian......

 zheileizhuangkuangjiushinimeiyouxiangdaode，weiheqianduanshijianhaimiaohuidetarujinqueyinxinquanwu，weihezishenneimeqinfendiqulianluota，xiangwanhui，queshineiyangdejieguo。

 henduorendoubuqingchupangguanzheqingtongchangshidabufenrenzuifeichangrongyifandebuzhengque，renweiyaoshizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenchongzudeaita、zhendeduibuqijiunengdadongtahuishou，keshijiqueyizhiyuxiwangyoubei。zheidaodishiweishenmeni?

1、沒有摆正心态

 “sanleba”，danglingyifangjiangchuzheisangezideqingkuangxia，dajiazhongjianjiuzaoyiyibushiqinglvguanxile，shenmeshiaiyigeren?lingyifangyejiumeiyouzerenbaozhengxinxineirongmiaohui，niyemeiyouzhipeiquanquguidinglingyifangzenyangzenyangle。

danshixuduo nvxingyiranbumingbaizheiyidadaoli，rengzaimanbuzaihudeshiyanlingyifangnvyouderenwujiaose。

ganjueyaoshizishenduojitamenfaxinxi，babuzhengquedoulandaozishendeshenshangjiukeyile，yinciwujiezhidesipilailian。

danshixianshizhuangkuangyekandaole，jieguozhiyoushijifeidanda。

nijibukeyihuodelingyifangdekuanrong，bingqiegengweiranglingyifangyanfan，jiandingbuyizishentichufenshoushiduide。

 xinlizhuangtaijuecechengbai，zaiwanhuizhongyiyangkeyong，jiranzaoyitichufenshoujiuxuyaolejiezijizaizheiliduanqingganzhongdebuwei，xianchangshirangzishencongzheiyiduanqingganzhongchoushenchuqu，yijianshizhedeshijiaoquduidaixianjieduandeguanlian。

2、沒有思考难题

yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，zuixianyaolejienantichuzainaerle，zheilingwaiyeshiweiheyaodahuoerbaizhengxintaideyuangu。

youyujiaruniyizhitingzai“nvyou”zheiyibuwei，neimanisikaonantideshijiaokendingshipiande、hanyoujuxiande。

 shenmejiaoaiyigeren?zaiwomentiaochulailuojisiweidejuxianshi，jiukeyirenzhenzixidezhengliyixiawangri，haohaodisikaoyixiazaizheiliduanqingganzhongzishenjiujingzuobuduishenmeshi。

zaisikaodeqingkuangxiayaoliuyiyidian，bubibacuoquantuijilingyifang，lingwaiyebubibabuzhengquedoulandaozishendeshenshang。

 youyubulunshiqianmianyizhonghuanshihoumianyizhongdoushihuiqizhawanhuidemaixiang，jiarunengzuihaoshizhaoyigepenyoushushuoyixia，rangtabangnipouxiyixia。

3、沒有对症治疗

 weiheneimeduoderendouganjuewanhuinanni?youyutamenyimeiyoubaiqiahaoxinlizhuangtai、ermeiyouxunzhaonanti，haiyouyigebianshimeiyouduizhengzhiliao。

shenmeshiduizhengzhiliao?jianyishuobianshininengchushilingyifangbixudewupin。

 lirutaxiwangnikeyiduoyixielejie，danniyizhijiaozongmanhengwuli，youlirutaqidainikeyirenzhenzixiyixie，niqueyizhidiusanluosi，yaolejiezheizhongbujinshitichufenshoudedaohuoxian，lingwaiyeshijiejuekunnandesuochi。

 liangzhezhijianfenshouzhihousipilailian，haiburujianjiandidegaizhengzheizhonglingyifangtaoyandediqu，neiyanggengnengjuyoushibeigongbandeshijixiaoguo。

 nandaoaiyigerenyoucuoma?shijishangtichufenshouhenyoukenenghuijinishangxinnanguo、keshilingwaitayekeyijinilejiedaozishenzaiganqingzhongdebugou，youshenmequexian，bingzaizheiqizhongjiqujiaoxun，jinerjianglaigengtanrandeyingduiganqing。