如何恋爱呢？分手之后没被拉黑，能挽回吗？

 shilianaima？xuduo nvhaidoushihuigenfalesiliaoshuo，zishenwanhuideqingkuangxia，lingyifangduizishenchedibulicai，naizhiyuewanhui，zishenhelingyifangdeganqingqingkuangyuecha，tayaoxiangfenlichulaideniantouyulaiyujiandingbuyi。neimeruhelianaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqidailianaidewenzhangba。

 naizhiyixienvhai，huibaneiyangdezhuangkuangguizuiweinanhaiziyititichufenshoujiuchediwuqingle，naizhiyouxierenhuiganjuelingyifangzishenbianshihuaxinnan。

 shijishang，niwanhuibushang，buyidingbianshinanshengduiqinggandejiandingbuyi，yebuyidingshiyouyuhuaxinnan，zhishiyouyunizaiwanhuizhichu，shilianaima？jiumeiyouquzuojunhengshiyongjiazhichabiedeshijicaozuo。

dajiazhongtouzailailvyixia：

nijuedenanyoubuainile，nijuedetiantale，nijuedezheigeshijieheisele。

 wolejienidetihui，yinweiwozhongshinidetihui，danniyedelejie，zaizheileiqingkuangxia，xiaochendexintaiduiniyidianxiezhuyemeiyou。

bingqie，jiarunizhimiyulingyifangshuoruguobuailebunengziba，nishimeifawanhuide。

 nixuyaogaoqingchuyijianshi——nanyouzaineiyangdezhuangkuangxiashuobuaini，bingbushiduinideqingyimeile，zhishiduinideshiyongjiazhihuiyuanchuzhimeile。

他爱着你吗?

爱。

taxiangzaicihenizaiyiqima?

不愿。

你可以挽回他吗?

当然可以。

qinggandeshier，shijishangyoushibuyidingxianggongshijisuandinglvyiyangxunguidaoju，yaobutaiyouxierenshuozheileishiershuobuqingni?

 shijishangbuyidingshishuobuchulai，jinjinbeigaofangbuqingchueryi，wohaizaizuoxuduo xueshengdeanlishi，tamendoushihuishuolingyifanghainengyuwolianluo，shuoshenmedou，weiyoutiqingganbuhao。

想过为何吗?

 lingyifangyunititichufenshou，xianglaibingbushiyouyuyishifahuosuikoushuochu，eryidingshilijingshijiandeleiji，jinjinniyongyuanbuzhidaoeryi。

 youshijinjinnimeiyouchajuechulingyifangderenshou，nijuedelingyifanghenaizheni，shijishangneiyangzaoyizaileijiduinidefumianqingxule，zhishidangshihaibuhuitichufenshoubale，jinjinnijuedebushangbale。

 jiranshuotichufenshou，liangrenjiaowangbingbushiguojiajiayouxi，lingyifangjiusuanbingbushixiajuexinyeshizuishaolijingyifankaolvdaode，yinci bingbushisanyanliangyu，yirufanzhangjiunengwanhuide，nixuyaorenqingtichufenshoudekeguanshishi。

bukeyihaizongdianjizheyiqiandewangri，tianmei，neiyangniyuexiangyuetongchu，neixinyuefanzaobuan。

 dannikendingshixiangxinjiwanhui，pinlemingdeyaoweilingyifangtouruyiqie，yiqidaolingyifangnenghezishenfuhexing，neiyangdexinlizhuangtaimeiyoucuoba?

jiarumeiyoucuo，neimajieguojinjinnimenzhongjiandejianjuyuezouyueyuan。

youyuniyizhizaigenlingyifangdeqingganxuqiugongzuozhong，danlingyifangdezuaidianbingmeiyouganqingshang，erzaishiyongjiazhichabieshang。

有的人不理解多元化怎么会毁坏关联。

shijishang，dajiachangchangshuodeliangrenzaiyiqiyao“sanguanhe”bianshifeichangjiandandejiazhiganfanying。

danrujindezhuangkuangshi：tagennijiaowangleyiduanshijian，yikaishitayouxinxinqujiejuedajialiangrenzhongjiandeshiyongjiazhichabie。

danrujintafajuewulunzishenzenmenuli，dajiazhongjiandechabieyirancunyou，naizhiyuelaiyueda，tadangranhuilikai。

zheigeshihou，youshiyongjiazhichabieyinqidexinlizhuangtaichabiejiuchuxianle——

taganjueshenxinpibei，niqueganjueshitabuainile，naizhibianxinle。

 yinci，nigangkaishixianglingyifangfaxiezishendexintai，huoshiqiqiutabuyaolikai，dantashierbujian，youyuzaitalaikan，niyagenmeiyouyaoxiangchulidajiazhongjiandeshizhinanti。

yinci ，rujintadexintai，dabufenbianshi“haishenaizheni，danmeiyouhuishoudeyuanyin”。

jiaruniyaoxiangrangwanhuishijicaozuowangshunxiangqingkuangqufazhanqushi，neixiabianzhei3jianshi，niyidingbubizuo：

01.持续说爱。

xuduo rendaowanhuiquanguochengzhong，zonghuichixufanfu“woshizenyangdeaizheni，nibuyaolikaiwo。”

 ziranfangshihenyoukenengbuyiyang，danxingdongdeshizhishibuhuigaibiande。yizhineiyangchixudefanfuhezhuzhongzishenduilingyibandeai，shijishangbingmeishenmeshunxianggongxiao。

 zaizishenbuzuochugenggaideqingkuangxia，zongshiyizhizhuzhongzishenshiduomedeailingyifang，zishenshizenyanglibulelingyifang，zongshitutiantadeyanfangan。

yigeweikongbiniburuderen，youweishenmehuibeiniwanhuini?

02.过多顺从。

 ruhelianai？yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangyejingchanghuichuxian，bianshizishenzaiqingganxiufudequanguochengzhong，weilegenghaodijinzaowanhuilingyifang，erdaozhixuduo shier、fenbian、juecenaizhiyuanzewentiexingshijiandouyizhaolingyifangdeyaoqiudabiaoniantoulai。

 zheizaixiufuzhong，shishifenzhimingxingde。youyudajiazishenbianshiyouyujiazhiganqifucaifenlide，neiyangdezuofa，zongshibadajiazhongjiandechabieladeyuelaiyueda。

tazongshiganjue：niguozhenshilibulewode。

yidanneiyangdeniantouchengxingle，qingganxiufudesuoyouzhudaoquanyejiudengtongyuzaoyijiaodaolingyifangle。

03.目地偏位。

 zaiyinweijiazhiganchabiezaocheng deganqingliekaizhuangkuangzhong，jibenshangdoushihuichuxianyifangfourenlingyifangdeqingkuang。zheileifourenkenengshiyibufende，yekenengshichedifouding。

yinci，henduorenjiugangkaishizaiwanhuiquanguochengzhongjielideyaoxiangniuqulingyifangdezheileifourenhefourendeniantou。

keshi，neiyangzuoyibanyemeiyounaxiehaojieguo。

tadefouren，jinjinyigegenjuduofangmianyuanguerxingchengdewaizaizhuyaobiaoxian，erfeibenzhiyuangu。

bubiwangjile，dajiafenlideshizhishiyouyujiazhiganchabie，bingfeitadefouren。

qidailianai,shujizhei6dian，caikeyijinidewanhuigengweichangshun