如何恋爱呢？常见的几种分手类型

 shilianaima？jinqixuduo nvhaigenwoshuo：“jiaoshi，womenfenshouyiduanshijianle，wodoushifoukeyishiwanhuini?”neimeruhelianaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqidailianaidewenzhangba。

 zheizhengzhongjianyouyibufennvhai，biaomingzishendenanyouzaifenshouzhihou，bingmeiyoujiaruheimingdanzishen，xiangyaozhidaozheileizhuangkuangwanhuijilvshifouhuidayixie。

xiangduinishuodeshi：fenshouzhihoulabujiaruheimingdan，jinjinyigeqingkuang，bingbukeyilijifanyingdajialiangrendefuhexinggailv。

zheileiqingkuangzhiyoushuochengbijiaohaoqushijicaozuo，zhidingduicedeshineikongjianyexiangduixinghenda。

jiarunirujinhetachuyuyigedouhaimeifenshoudezhuangkuangzhong，you6dianjiushiniyidingyaobaozhengde——

01.mianduixianshi，zhengquerenshiguanlian;

02.pingwenxinlizhuangtai，lizhijiejue;

03.weichizixinxin，jiandingbuyizongtimubiao。

先说第一点。

zaifenshouzhihou，liangrenjiuyibushiqinglvdeguanlian，zaijiaowang、yuyan、xinlizhuangtaidengcengmian，doushihuichanshengfeichangdadezhuanbian。

 chuyuzheiyihuanjie，feichangrongyifenbuqingchuxianghujiandeguanlian，zaiciyinvyouzixu，zuochuyixiehaowudaolidexingwei，shilianaima？ranglingyifangjuededichu、yanfan，tishengwanhuidenanduxishu。

 woyiqianyouyigexuesheng，zhangkongyujiaoweiqiang，zaifenshouzhihou，yuanbennanhaizihaihetayoulianluo，doubudichugoutongjiaoliu。tajiuganjuezishenhuanshilingyifangdenvyou，yinciyougangkaishixiangyaoqucaozongnanhaizideyantanjuzhi、xiguanxingzheixie。

yizhouyihou，nanhaizijiujiaruheimingdanleta。

zheijiushidianxingxingdemeiyouzhengquerenshiliangrenzaifenshouzhihoudeguanliandaozhide。

 tishizhuweiyaoxiangwanhuidenvhai，fenshouzhihou，liangrendeguanlianfashenglezhuanbian，yaorenqingneiyangdezhuanbian，erbushiyiweideduobi，lizaiguoqudejiaowangshenyingdangzhong，wufaziba。

再而言平稳心理状态。

 rendaoningjingdeqingkuangxia，danaocaisuanshizuibaochiqingxingde，caibuyibeizishenzheji、wukenaihe、xinhandengxintaisuoshangxia，caikeyizaishidudeshikezuochushidudeshier。

 zheiyidianshibixuzhuzhongde，xuduo rendaofenshouzhihouquanburendoushenxianjiduanhuadexintaidangzhong，zuochugezhonggeyangzaibaochiqingxingshike，yidinghuihouhuimojidexingwei。

 liru，gangtichufenshou，hentongchu，bukeyijienasangshilingyifangdekeguanshishi，mannaodaijunshiyaoxiangwanhuilingyifang，yinci buduandejilingyifangtongdianhua，faxinxi，jiangliangrendezhuangkuangdunangdezhongrenjiezhi。

 zheizhonggerenxingweibujinbunenggouqudechenggongwanhuilingyifang，haihenyoukenengjianglingyifangyuetuiyuezhang，sangshizuihaodewanhuijihuihewanhuizhuangkuang。

 yuefazaixiongxiandeshike，yuefayaolizhi，ganwanbukeyibingjiluantouyi，naxiewuyuanwugudefangshidouyong，wuyuanwugudehuadoushuo。

zuizhongbianshiweichizhuzishendezixinxin，jiandingbuyiyaowanhuidezheiyimudi。

yibaneryan，wanhuishiyigezhangqixingdequanguocheng，bingbushiyiliangtianjiukeyijinxingdeshier。

 ziran，yixiebubijiaoyanzhongdezhuangkuang，liruliangrenkaiwanxiao，jinjinxiaofenqineiyangdetichufenshounenggouzailiangsantiandeshijianyineiwanhui，dabufendewanhuiyaoyigeyue、liangyue，naizhigengzhangdeshijian。

 gaohaochongfenzhunbei，bubiliangsantianmeiyouwanhuiqudechenggongjiuhuixinsangqi，juedemeiyouwanhuideqidaile，erwanwuqianlizhangzhengcaigangkaishidiyibu。

 wanhuibingbingbushiyijianjianyideqingkuangxia，wanhuidequanguochengjiudengtongyugenggaiyigerenduilingyigerendeguandian，zheishijishangshishifenjiannande。

xuduo nvhaiyizhizaibuduangenwoshuo，zishenyoumuyouhenyoukenengwanhui，huoshilingyifangshifouhuihezishencongtoukaishi。

womingbailenidetongxin，yegaoqingchunidebugan，niqidaihuodeyigerenrangniyigekefouwanhuitadejingquehuiying。

danwoyaogaosuni，yigejianyidenenghuobukeyi，duirujinnidenilaishuomeiyouyiqieshijiyiyi。

bingqie，jiandanzhijiedejieguo，shiduiwanhuiheqinggandebuchengdan。

我要告诉你的是——

yijuwocongyeganqinglingyushiernian，jierenguojiwangeshilideshujufenxieryan，92%detichufenshouquanshinenggouwanhuide。

 zhibuguoshihenduorenchenjinzaizaigangtichufenshoudeneileimangranhetongchuzhong，nanyiqiadangkeguandijiejuetichufenshouzaocheng zhuangkuangyulaiyuzao。

 wanhuiganqingshiyijianyouqizhongshijihuihegaoxiaolvdeshi，jinjibubimangmugenfengcaiquyidingdeyouxiaocuoshi，bujinqibushangyiqieshijixiaoguo，fandaohuitishengwanhuijiqihuifudenanduxishu。

yibanlaishuo，fenshouzhihouxiangwanhuideren，huizaochengerzhongxinlizhuangtai：

ruhelianai？yizhongshiganjuelingyifangbutaihao，mengpianzishendeqinggan，danzishenbianshiwangbudiao;

lingyizhongshiganjuezishenbutaihao，yaoxiangjinzaorencuo，qiuquwanhui。

nijuedenayangxinlizhuangtaizuihounengqudechenggongwanhuini?

woyaogaosuni，nayangdoubutaikeneng。

 zheierzhongxinlizhuangtai，doushihuidaozhinimeifakeguanxingdiduidai、jienazheiyiduanguanliandewanbi，shinishenxiandaoduizishenhuoduibierendejingongzhizhong，bulinibaituoxinlichuangshang，shiqiduiganqing、duijianglaihezishendezixinxin。

zaiyiduanqinggandangzhong，tongchangshinagetourushuzuiduoderentongxindezuilihai。

yaoxiangjinzaodezouchushiliandexintai，bixurenqingdajia2gezhongjiandenanti。

dannixuyaogaoqingchuyidian，wanhuibingbushiyigeyigejianyideshijicaozuo，zhishiyaolingyigerenzaicizhenxinshiyidijieshouni。

 qidailianai,jiufangfonidehaoganduzaitaneibianzaoyiqinglingle，niyizhizaiwanhuizhongbixukaolvdaodenantibianshizenyangzaiciyinruhaogandu，erbushijiuchanbuqingzhezaoyimeiyouhaogandudelingyifangkanjianzijidehao