恋爱定律之90%的人都陷入了这2个误区

 lianaidinglvyoushenmeni？“jiaoshi，wojuedewanliu，keshibuqingchutahaiaiwoma?”neimelianaidewenduyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideyiyidewenzhangba。

 “jiaoshi，xianzaiwohendanxin，xubuxuyaoquwanliu，youyufenshouzhihoutajiangwodelianxidianhuadoushanchule，kendingshibuaiwole。”

“jiaoshi，nijuedetahaiaiwoma?”

henduorenbaxubuxuyaowanliudelizudian，douluozaile：“tahaiaiwoma”zheiyidianshang!

 haiai，jiuxuyaoquwanliu，bianshifeichangzhidede，buxihuan，neiyoumeiyoushenmewanliudebixu，tadouruguobuaile，quwanliubuguoshireliantielingyifangdelengtunbubale，hunrizi、qiancaihehuoli。

 zheileiniantouduibudui?yizhaoyinguoguanxiluojixingkanlai，meishenmebudui。keshiqinggandeluojixingcongbushineiyangde，lianaidinglvyoushenmeni？ganqingdeluojixingshi：zhiyaoniyuanyi，yiqiebianshifeichangzhidede。

xihuanyigerenyeba，aiyigerenyehao，mudikendingbingbushiweilegenghaodiquyuelingyifang，zhishiweilegenghaodiquyuezishen。

 lianaideyiyiyounaxie?jiarunizhishishiyouyutaaizheni，caiquwanliu，buxihuanjiumeiquwanliu，neimazaiyiduanguanlianzhongnihenyoukenengshizhongzhiyouchuyubeidongdedenghoutarenlaiaizheni。

 nijiangqinggandezhudongquanfangqile，lingyifangaizheni，niyejiuaijin，lingyifangbuaini，niyejiuliqu，lianwenweishenmedeyongqiyemeiyou。

 nijiangtahaiyouduoai，bianchenglezheiyiduanqinggandeweiyizhichengdian。keshinvhai，wanliubujinshiwanliudezheigeren，xiufuguanlian，zaicizheiyiduanqinggan，gengguanjiandeshininengyouyiciquanfangweilejiezijidejiyu，niyizhizaiqingganzhongshiruhede?yiwangnishiruhejingyinghunyinde?niduiqinmiguanxidezhenshiyaoqiushisha?nixuyaoruhequzuocaikeyideniyaoxiangde?zheizhongquanshiwanliudeshijiyiyi。

 youderentanlehenshucitanlianai，quemeiyounayiciqueshihuodelezishenyaoxiangde，haosifenbugushenyibandequai，zuizhongluogegebiantilinshangdejieguobuyongshuo，haiganjuerenshijiandenanshengmeiyouyigehaochanpin。

 jiujingshinanxingbutaihao，huanshinizijibutaihao，tanguoyiliangcitanlianaihou，neixinzonggaiyougefenbian。yicibuchenggongnenggoushuochengqingchunnianshaobutinghua，2cibuchenggongnenggoushuochengsuotuofeiren，sancizhishangzonggaicongzishendeshenshangquzhaoyuanguleba!

 zheixiezhenshidedao xingfudenvren，bingbushimeiyoutaguowandao，yebushimeiyoushoudaoganqingdeshang、bingbushimeiyoujingliguotichufenshou，gengbingbushiyushengjulaijiubawolezhenzhengdeaiqingdeqiaomen。tamenbuguoshimingbaicongyiduanyouyiduandeqingganzhongquxuexixindetihui，congyushangguoderenzhizhong，chajuezijizhenshibixude。

rangtamenzuochujuecede，congbushitarenduitamendexintai，zhishitamenduibenshendezhangwo，heduifazhandekewang。

 duiyuzheixiezongxiaiwen：jiaoshi，nijuedetahaiaiwoma?jiaoshiqueshimeiyoubanfahuiyingni，shuotahaiaini，nimeiyidinghuijianxin，shuotabuainile，nineixinzishizhizhongcunyouxincunjiaoxing。

 yiqieyigenengyouyutarendeyuyanjiuzuochuxingdongderen，congbushiyouyushuodongtadeneiren，youduoqiangda，zhishiyouyushuodongdefangweiyunizishendeniantouruchuyizheeryi。

 tayouduoaini，shijishangnineixinzaizaoyiyongyouhuida。nibuguoshiqidainengcongtarenneibiantingjiannizuixiangtingjiandehuabale。youguantayouduoaini，jiaoshibingbukeyibangdaonishenme，jiaoshinengbangshangnidejinjinjiniruhequdedao niyaoxiangdeai。

 shuoshihua，tayouduoaini，huidacongbuzaitadeshenshang，erzainideshenshang。aibujinshiyigeyuhui，aishiyizhongganqingdebiaoshu，erbuguannayangqinggan，doubixumeijie。

liangzhezhijiandanxinyutayouduoaini，bibushangxiangyixiangweihetayeyaozaiciaizheni，youweihetabuainile?

 ninhao，nichuse，nizhangzailetadeshenmeiguanshang，tajiuaizheni。niwuliqunao、nilingrenshenghen、nipingdanwuqi，tajiubuaini。erruguonigenggaile，bianchenggengqiangdeni，tadangranbianhuiaizhenile!

 lianaidewendushishenme？ganqingkanqilaizhanjinshajue，shishishang，yiyangchongmanleguilvxing。wangwangyouderenaideshunxinruyi，youderenaidekekebanban，chukaitianfu，pindebianshihoutianxingdexuexipeixun。