爱的艺术是什么呢？分手后能让前任再次爱上你的行为

 aideyuyanyounaxieni？wojinnianershiwusui，tayuwotongling，womendoushilianrenyeshidaxuetongxue，dandajiashangniandeqingkuangxiayouyujianjunantifenshoule。neimeaideyishuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyonghengdewenzhangba。

qianliangyuetayoulaiyaowo，shuowangbudiaowo，huanshihenshuoaiwo，yaoxiangyuwofuhexing，yincidajiayouzaicizaiyiqile。

kefuhexinghou，tabingmeiyouzhuyaobiaoxiandexiangtaxushudeneibanshuoaiwo，conglaibujijibangwotongdianhua，huiduanxiaoxi。

 meiyiciwogentafaxiaoxi，tadoushuo：“dengyihuierzaihenijuede”，suihoujiumeiyouxiamianle，woyoushidoucaiyi，tadaodishiweiheyaoyaowofuhexing?

 zhihou，yulaiyutaiguo，jibian kandaoxinxineirongledoubuhuiwole，wotongdianhuayiwang，tajiubujie，tazheiyimoyangwoqueshihaotongchu，benlaifangxiale，tayingyaolaidezuiwo，dezuiwanyoubuchengdan。

 yinci，wozuotianlijiquzhaota，hetachaoleqilai，tashuodao：“huoxudajiaqueshiyuanfenjinle，fenshouba”，woneishihoukuaiqisile，yuanfenjinbujue，quankaotayizhangzui，jihuyemeiyoukaolvdaoguowo。

 aideyuyanyounaxieni？rujindaobianweiwochanzhetale，woyebuzhidaoyinggaizenmebanle，laoshiwoyaozenmezuocaikeyisuanqueshifuhexingni?

答：

 kanguonidexushu，nengganshoudaoniwenbenjiandewunaiyutongchu，shijishang，fenshouhoudefuhexingmeiyouneimejianyide，lingyifangyaoxiangyunifuhexing，henkenengshizaizishenjimoshisuozuodebulizhijuece。

 bingbushitazuizhongchangshuode“ai”，yinweiyigerenzaidichaoqishi，douhuihuailianqiyiqian，tajinjinyaoxiangzhaodaoyuanxiandejuede，quebingbushiqueshiyaoxiangfuhexingbale。

yinci ，zaiyunifuhexinghou，nibingbukeyifuyuanyiqiandailaitadezheixiejuede，caihuidaozhirujinzheifujushi。

 shijishangbingbushiniyoushenmewenti，yebushilingyifangyoushenmewenti，zhishifuhexingdefangfabudui，sheiyemeiyoukaolvdaoguoduojiumangmugenfengtiaoxuanlefuhexing，jieguozhiyouyulaiyuzao。

xiabianwonengrangniyixiewanhuishangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

接纳分手

 lingyifangjiranzaoyijueceyunifenlile，neimajiubuyaozuoguoshaodejiuchanbuqingle，neiyangzongshiranglingyifangjuedeyougongzuoyali，zhiweitaochuni，yagenqibushangyiqiewanhuideshunxianggongxiao。

tiyini，helingyifanghaohaoditanyici，zaijiaotanzhongduitashuo，nijienafenshou，erqieburongyiduitayouyiqiejiuchanbuqing。

 zhiyaoxianglejiedangshiyunifuhexingdemudi，lingtingyixialingyifangneixindeniantou，duoyudehuabubiduojiang，jiangwanhuishenjiuzou，neiyangfandaohuiranglingyifangzaochengneijiuxinlizhuangtai。

提升自我

 tanhuahou，ninengweizijilieyigefenjieduandexiaofangan，liru，yundongjianshen、yujiajianshen、meironghufu、chuanyidapeizheixie，huoshishi，dujialvyou、sansanxin、xuexipeixunyimenxihaozheixie，dounenggou。

zhuyaoshiweilegenghaodirangzishencongyiwangdetongchuzhong，quanshenertuichuqu，bazheiyifenhuolinachulaitigaoziji。

aideyongheng,dengzaidupengmianshi，yidingyaoyiyigezhenhanlingyifangdeqingkuangchuxian，suihouzhuyaobiaoxiandedangrandian、daqidian。

 ranglingyifangjiandaonideqingkuangshichayide，ninenghendangrandihelingyifangdazhaohu，huoshiliaoyiliao，shuoqidaihelingyifanghuoshipengyou。

二次吸引

 dengdajiafuchouzhelianmeng4hou，zairichangshenghuozhongnenggouyoushihoujiyulingyifangyixieguanzhu，liru，yutiantishilingyifangdaisana，dafengtishilingyifangtianyizheixie。

nineiyangshijishanggengnengranglingyifangzaochengercixiyin，tahuigangkaishixiangxiangzishenzaiduyongyounizhihouderichangshenghuo。

 danduifangweinijijiqiuraoshi，zaoqiyidingyaohuijue，suihouwanzhuandishuochunideyoulv，danxinyicuozaicuo，danxintadelengdan，bazijiyiqiandetihuiheyaoqiushuochulai。

neiyanggengnengranglingyifangneijiu，erqiexiangniquebaofuhexinghoudetaidu。

 aideyishu,henduorenwangwangdanxinwanhui，shijishangbianshiyouyudanxinyicuozaicuo，yinci yaoxiangzhenshidefuhexing，jiuxuyaobaozhengzhenshidewanhui，yiqiebugaoduzhongshinantihequanguochengdewanhui，quanshiercishanghaieryi。