恋爱定律之怎样成功挽回爱情?

 lianaidinglvyoushenmeni？dajiawangwangtichufenshou，shiyouyuliangrendoushiyouyiwu，tameiyouzaihu，niyemeiyoujiejuehao;dangfenshouhounixuyaowanliudanshibai，yeshiyouyunifanleyixiehenherenqiebuzizhidebuzhengque!nijuedeyaowanliuta，jiuxuyaochengxinchengyi，yaoshiyouchengxinyouzhenxinshiyijiukeyibatataohuijia…zhenduidajiadezheileiniantou，woqueshiganjueyoukeling!youkehen!neimelianaidewenduyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideyiyidewenzhangba。

wanliubujinshiguannideniantou、xintai，gengguanjiandejiushinishijidegerenxingweiheduice。

一、为何要运动起来才可以处理眼下的难题

 tichufenshoushiyigezhangqixingdaozhidejieguo，chengnianleiyuezaoyirangtapingdingleniyizhizaitaxinzhongzhongdepinpaixingxiang，fenshouzhihoudezheiduanduandeyiduanshijianleibuguanniganshenme，douzongshijuyoufanzuoyongli。nizaicizhaotanao，tahuiganjueniyiyiguxingwukejiuyao!nijuede，ejiaoshi，woshizhaotachengrencuowude。

neimawoyaogaosuni，taburongyiganjuehuiguozixinle，tazongshijuede：niyouzaizhuangle，biezainaxuqingjiayidele!

 yinci nikankan，buguanshibushinichengxinchengyidehuiguo，tadoushihuiyizuihuaideguyichuaimoni。cike，buguannizaishuoshenme，quanshibaishuo!nijiangnidexinwozitaojitakan，tadoushihuiganjueshijiade。neimarujinnitinghaolaa，womenzaiyuyanshangwufaquanta，wufagoutongjiaoliu。neidajiajiuconggerenxingweishangququanta，laigoutongjiaoliu。

 shenghuoqijulaijiaodajiayigejibenchangshi，neibianshirendexingweishiyouzheigerendeniantouxintailaicaozongde。lianaidinglvyoushenmeni？zheiyejiushiniyingduitichufenshou，xiangwanliushifancuozheimeduoshideyuangu。

 shehuixuejiazaoyijichuquerenleyigeshiqing，neibianshi：gerenxingweijuecexintai。zheijishinian，chengqianshangwanxinlixuezhuanjiahenaoshengwuxuejiazaoyishuoming，xuduo qingkuangxia，dajiazuochugerenxingweiyiqian，naozhongdexintaiheniantouquanshinuanweizaluande，erzaiwomenzuochulegerenxingweiyihou，dajiazehuilikeduizishenkaizhanzishenshuodong，shiwomenganjuetashiwomenzijiyikaishijiujuecehaode。

二、不但要做事情，也要做对才行

1、diyizhongbuzhengque，fenshouzhihoujiuchanbuqing

 xiaoquanhenvpengyoushiyisuogaoxiaode，liangrenzhengchaoyebushiyitianliangtianle，ciciyouqiqiangda，nvpengyouhenqilijitiletichufenshou。tashinvpengyouchuduixiang，yinianduolailaidiercititichufenshou。xiaoquanyiting，huolaila，lijiqunvpengyoukeshidamenkouheqinshidamenkoudu。dulaidaojiuyiduntongma。neimajieguokendingshibaozhale，nvpengyoulijixiujialeduozaichuzufanglibian。

 zheishizhihou，xiaoquanganjueyoudianerguoqule，danshiyoubuganjiuneimegaoyiduanluo，yinci youchanzhelingyifangjigejiaofa，yidingzhiquanchuqujianggeqingxi。qianbujiujingraolexiaolingdaohenvxingdefumu，nvpengyouzaigecengmiangongzuoyalixia，zuihouhuanshichuqujianlegemian。xiaoquanrenweinenggouyisuzhongchang，jieguolingyifangquanguochengbuhangsheng，xiaoquanbuguanshuoxieshenmetadoumeifanying，zuizhongliaoxiayijusanleba，zhihoubiezaigaozheizhongle，satuoliqu。

 shijishangfenshouhou，nvpengyoudezuimingxiandetihuishisha?shifahuo!fahuoshishaa，shixintaideyizhong，duima?erduiyufuhexingbufuhexing，zheishiyigerenzhinenglifenbian。

 xintaishizaiyurenzhinenglide，congerzhengqueyindaorenzhinengli。nijintianyudaohaoshiergaoxing，jiandaohuacaoshumudouganjuetaorenxihuan;nijintianqianjiameile，jiandaoquandouganjuefanxin。tashidanaodejiegouzaocheng de，xintaishizhongzaigerenxingweideqianbianzhengqueyindaoheweihainidedegerenxingweiherenzhinengli，mingbailema?

 xiaoquanzhaowojiangtawufashihuai，weihezhiqianqianyibaishundenvpengyourujinyingdebuyaochi，ruandedoubuchi，shifouliangrenqueshibushihe。qingnigaosuwo，rujintanvpengyoushizaikaolvdaohebushihezheileinantima?xianeryijianbushia!rujintanvpengyoubianshiyigeqingxujiqixinfanderen，yaoshijiandaohexiaoquancabiande，neiyidingquanshijiqifumianxinxide。tazaizheileizhuangkuangxialaixunzhaolingyifangdehuida，ruguoyoushunxiangde、haodehuida，neicaisuanshiqueshiqileguaile。

nidegerenxingwei：jiuchanbuqing/saorao

tadexintai：xinfan/fanmen

tadegerenxingwei：dichu/naonu

taduinidexintai：yanfan，buganxiangxinnijuededeyiqiebiaoshu，huijueni

2、dierzhongbuzhengque，fenshouzhihourenrang

 lianaideyiyiyounaxie?ciwaiyeyouciwaiyizhongxiangjindezhuangkuang，xiaozhaoganggongzuozhongyinian，henvyoushijiedilianqing。tanvyoujiaotaliangtiaochuanbeifajuele，yihouliangrenjiulengbaolijietichufenshou。xiaozhaozhaodaowodeqingkuangxia，liangrenzaoyitichufenshouliangyuele。tichufenshoushixiaozhaotide，nvpengyouhaiwanhuilehaozhangshijian，jieguoxiaozhaoyiqizhixiahuanshifenle，fenlejiuxiangwanliule。

 keshixiaozhaobuguanzenyangbianshitabuchuquzheiyibu，naoziliquanshiqianrennvyouheciwaiyigenanshengqinqinwowodemoyang，keshi，youbukeyixuehuifangxia，juran，gesanchawuyeyaofayiliangtiaoxinxiquwenyiwenlingyifangdezhuangkuang!naizhixuduo qingkuangxiashuozheshuozhejiutongku，zhaowoliaozhaowoliaojiubianchengqiqiu，shiqiqiu，bingbushimaiyuan。keshinijuede，zheileiqiqiuhuiyongma?woyaogaosuni，youxiao，keshishifuzuoyong。

 xiaozhaorujinbianshiyigexianglinsao，meirenxiangyaoyiciyouyicidetingxianglinsaodaokushuide。diyicihenyoukenenghuilianmin，diercitaganjueyeyouyidianyiwu，disanci，disici，diwuci，zonghuiyouyici，nizaizhaota，tahuilengbingbinghuiyingnijuede：buyaolianluole。

 rendenaishoulishibijiaoyouxiande，jishilingyifangqueshiduinibaoyouzerenxinhezerengan，zaiyicicihaofeixia，zheizhongyoudiandoushihuijianjiandiyongjin，neishihoujiuzhenhuitianwulile，mingbailema。

 xiangnanxingwaiyu、disanzhezheileizhuangkuang，buguanzenyangnanxinghuoduohuoshaoxinliquanshiyouyidianliquciqiongde，tabianshibixuyigechanhuidejiyu，haorangtawaiyuchudeshunlichengzhang。

 lianaidewendushishenme？zheiyishilizhong，xiaozhaonvpengyoudexinlishiyoujiaoqiangdechanhuibulizhide，erxiaozhaoqiahaojiletazheiyijiyu，rangtanenggouyidiandiandexuehuifangxiazheiyiduanqinggan，zuishaozaidaodeguanshangburongyihaiyouyali，yidanzhidaotadexiuchiganxiaohaodaijin，yejiushixiaozhaozheiyiduanqingganwanquanxuanbupochandeqingkuangxiale。qici，sheiyouhuixihuanyigefumianqingxumanmandepofuni?