什么才算爱?什么样的男人在分手后会彻底不爱你？

 shenmeshiai?jinqijiedaoshifenduofensideliuyanbanliuyan，zaiqizhongyouyidabufenrengenwoshuo：neimeshenmecaisuanai?aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

“jiaoshi，nanyougenwofenshouzhihouchedibulianxiwo，shifoumeihenyoukenengwanliule?”

shengyuyibufenrenzehuigenwoshuo：

“jiaoshi，nanyoumeiyoufenshou，shifoubiaomingwofeichangrongyifuhexing?”

neijinri，woyegendajialiaoyiliaonanshengdenaxiezhuyaobiaoxian，biaomingniyeyouwanliudejiyu。

zuixian，wohaizaigangkaishiyiqianxianqueliyigejianjie——

nanshenggennilianluobuyiweizhehuihuishou，lengmojiejuedoubuyiweizheyibuaizheni。

 woyiqiandewenzhangneironglishuoguo，nanshenggennilianluo，henyoukenengshidiaozhuni，shenmeshiai?nanidangbeiyongtai，yongyouxinqidianxinzhengchenglikeniutou，niyidianjiyuyemeiyou。

那如何去分辨呢?

 nixuyaogaoqingchu，yigenanrenshibushiaizheni，bingbushicongzhuyaobiaoxiankeyijianyikanchuqude，nidequzhangwoxianxiangshenhoudezhenzhengxinlizhuangtai。

wojugefeichangjiandandeshili：

 yixienanshengfeichangxihuanche，zaiqumaizishenxinaidecheliangshi，wanghongdian、shijiadouzhuyaobiaoxianchulefeichangdadexingquaihao，danjiaruzuizhongganjuejiaqianguile，nanshengtongchanghuizhuyaobiaoxianchuyizhongquehandanjiandingbuyideqingkuang，suihoushuozishenbixukaolvdao，yihouyiranliqu。

neizheigeshihounanshengbushitiqianzhunbeimaigailiangchelemeiyou?

bingbingbushi，tajinjinshiyongneiyangdezhuyaobiaoxian，zhengdegenggaodetehui。

zaiqingganfenlichulaiqinei，nanshengyeshineiyangdexinlizhuangtai，zhibuguoshizhuyaobiaoxianbuyiyang。

yinci ，yigenanrenzaifenshouhougenniweichizhelianluo，huoshichedilengmo，doushiyouhenyoukenenghaishenaizheni。

zhibuguoshinixuyaoyijubuyiyangdegerenxingweiquduiyingfenxitadexintai。

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 yijuwozheimeduoniandeqingganzixungongzuojingyaneryan，fenshouyihoutahaiaini，erqiewanliujiyujiaoda de，bianshitazaigennilianluodeqingkuangxia，yizhihuitidaoyixiezhiqiandejiushihuoshidutededizhi。

nanhaiziyibandoushiyou“nianjiu”xintai，naizhibinvhaigengqiang。

cengjingdewomendetanlianai，huijinanhaiziyizhong“duzhanyu”，feichangrongyiduiqiannanyouniannianbuwang。

zheileixinlizhuangtaihuiduibuyiyangdenanhaizizaochengbuyiyangdeweihai：

yixienanhaizihuibuduangennitidaozhiqiandeshier，laiguodediqu，chiguodemeicanzheixie，danyihoubingbuhuizuoguoshaodebiaoming;

yeyouyixienanhaizihuizainitidaoyixiewangshishiqingxujidong，danbingbuhuizulannixiayicizaicitidaojiudezhuiyi。

shenmejiaoai?yinci ，lingyifangchixutidaohuoshixingfendanbuquanzu，doubiaomingduizheiyiduanqinggancanliudeaiyexuduo 。

 zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，yaoshikeyizailingyifangzheilei“xingfen”deqingkuangxia，xunzhaodaoshidudefalidian，jiuhuiyouwanliuguanliandehenyoukeneng。

 liru，nenggougenjuchangjingzaici、jiaocuodianchuangjianzheixiefangfalaixunzhaozheiyifalidian。suihouduiyuzheiyidian，xiadaliqikaizhanshijicaozuo，wanliudangranyebushinaxienanti

neijiarutadezhuyaobiaoxianshijiaoweilengmode，niyejuebunengfangqi，zheileizhuangkuangnihuanshihaiyoujihuide。

nihenyoukenengganjue：“tadouzaoyiyijianshilengmole，zenmekenenghaishuoaiwo?”

nixuyaogaoqingchu，yigenanrenbuainile，zhuyaobiaoxianchuqudebingbingbushilengmo，zhishifama。

 duikefoutingjianjiandaonidegerenxingweiheyuju，chedibuzaiyi，yanguangzaoyisuozhuzaixindemubiaodeshenshang，zheileifama，caisuanshibuainidezhuyaobiaoxian。

keshi，jiarutaduinishilengdan，biaomingtachuyuyigebipozishengennifenlichulaidehuanjie，jinguanniyoujihui。

shenmecaisuanai?danyewubijinzaozheshouwanliu，youyutarujinzaoyigangkaishiwangduanjueguanxidefangweifazhanqushile。