怎么挽回分居后的婚姻

　　zenmewanhuifenjuhoudehunyinhunyinlideliefeng，tongchanglaiyuanyuwuyindegoutong。bansuizhewuhui、lengdannaizhishuyuanmanmanqinshizhebenlaiqinmideguanxiairen，henduonvxingpengyouhuibeiganwunaiyukunhuo：daodigairuhewanhuizhangfudexin?shikusedeqiqiu，huoshijiejinquanlidezhengde?danshi，zhenzhengnengzhiyuhunyinshenghuowaishang、zhonglianguanlianniudaide，tongchangqujueyumeiyicidakaixinfeidezhenchenghuihua。

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　　1.hunyinwentilidegoutongdejiqiao

　　► 1.1. goutongdeyiyiyufangfa

　　zaiganqingzaoshoukunjingshi，henduonvxingpengyoukenengmaixiangliangjihua。yizhongshishituyongchizeheweiqulaihuanxinglaogongdezerenxin，danzheizhongfangshitongchangdebuchangshi，qianghualebicizhijiandeliefeng。lingyizhongzeshitiaoxuanfengbiziwo，yichenmolaihuiyinglengbaoli，ranerzheizhongxiaochenyingduicuoshiyiyangmeifachuliwenti。xinliyanjiubiaoming，xiangchenggongwanhuizhangfudexin，zhongdianzaiyuchuangjiangengshencengcideqingganlianjie。erzheiyilianjiedejianshe，libuleyouxiaodegoutongzheiyigongluqiaoliang。

　　1.1.1 ►goutongjiaoliudeshizhi：lejiebingfeiquanfu

　　fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，henduonvxingpengyouhenyoukenengwurenweigoutongjiaoliubianshishuofuduifang，keshishishang，zhenzhenzhengzhengdejiaoliugengpianxiangyulejie。shituyong“jiangli”lainengrangduifangtuoxie，huoshiyongqingxuhuafangfalaihuodelianmin，tongchangzhihuijiazhongduifangfangyuxinli。youxiaogoutongbixuxuehuifangxiahaoshengxin，jiangjiaodianfangzaichuliwentishang，bingfeijiujie“sheifancuowu”。yucitongshi，shidudibiaoxianzijideyisunxing，rurenkezaodongbuan、houhuimojihuowunaiqingxu，keyijifaduifangtonglixinyuzhengfuyu，congeryouzhuyuchuangjiangengshencengcideqingganlianjie。

　　1.1.2 ►goutongjiaoliudeshijianhuodongshouce：lingting、biaodayuxingweidejunhengzaoxingyishu

　　lingting：chongfenwajueduifangdexinsheng

　　zaiganqingchuxianwentishi，henduolaogongwangwanghuixuanzechenmowuyan，tamentongchangganjuenideshengyinburongyibeiguanzhu。yiner，zuoweiyigenvren，womenyinggaijijiquqingtingtamendeganshou，zheiyouweizhongyao。biru，dajiayaozheiyangwen：“jinqinizongmangliuyugongzuozhong，shibushiganjueshenghuoyalishinichuanbuguoqi?”huoshi“dajiajuededajiazhijiandewenti，shixingqingshangdechabie，huoshixiangchumoshidebudangzhichu?”zailingtingdeguochengdangzhong，womenyinggaifangzhiqieduanhuobianbo，ershiyongdiandiantou、fanfulingyifangdeyanyudengxingshi，xiangduifangchuansongdajiadelijiejieshou。

　　biaoshu：yitihuiqudaichize

　　zaigoutongzhong，womenyingdanggengduodeyingyong“woganshoudao……”zheizhongjuxinglaibiaodazijideganshou，erbushijiandandihuxiangzhize。biru，ruguoduifangduijiatingwentibuzuguanzhushi，congmouzhongyiyishanglaishuo：“jinqifudaohaizixuexikechengrangwoganjuedaoshenxinpibei，ruguokeyidedaowodedalizhichihefentan，wonengqingsonghenduo。”neiyangdebiaodafangshikeyigenghaodeyindaoduifangjinxingsikaozenmejiejuewenti，erfeikaiqitadefangyuxinli。

　　xingwei：ranggenggaikandeqing、modejian

　　kongdongdefuwuchengnuomeifafujianqixinlai，zhiyoushentilixingcainengzhengmingwomenzijidexinxin。biru，jiaruwomenyiqianyouyuhulvejiazhongcongeryinfalefenqi，rujinwomenkeyizhudongzhengtiguihuazhoumojiatinghuodong，yongshijixingdonglaimibuguoqudequexian。huoshi，ruguoduifangmaiyuanwomenzijidegoutongjiaoliushixiaoshi，womennenganshisheding“fufushizhang”，zhiliyubicizhijiandeyaoqiuheqingganshangdegoutongjiaoliu。tongguozheigeshijixingdong，womenkeyijiduifangzhanxianwomenzijidediaozhengheqinfen。

　　► 1.2. zhongyaochangjingxiadegoutongfangfa

　　dangmianduihunyinshenghuodebuyiyangkunjingchangjingzhong，caiyongjutigoutongfangfayouweizhongyao。

　　danglaogongtichulihunhuoliangdifenjushi

　　zenmewanhuifenjuhoudehunyinzaizheilichangjingxia，guoduwanhuikenenghuijiajutadelikaiyixiang。yiner，zhongdianzaiyubaochilixing，yuqinguzong。yaozheiyanghuifu：“wolijienixianjintongchu，jiarunixuyaoshijianlailengjingfenxi，wonengzunzhongnidejueding。danxiangxin，woyizhizhenxizheiduanganqing，bingqieyuanyiweitishengtaerfendou。”

　　houmian，nengtongguofeiqinrushidejiaoliufangshilaifujianlianluo，birumeiguoliangsantiantuisongyitiaojianjieerchongchizheguanzhudexinxineirong：“zheiciwoluguonizuixihuandekafeiting，goumaileyibeinatie，xiwangninenggouchangdaoneixiangwangdeshenghuo。”

　　老公长期性冷淡时

　　lengdantongchangshiduishangxindetixian。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，xuyaoxunzhaojitijiyidechufadianlaidapotadeqingxufangyuli。biru，fanchulaiwanhunshidezhaopian，bingpeiyijushenqingdehuayu：“jiandaozhaopian，wohuiyiqinicengjingxuxiade‘jianglaiyaoyiqizoubianshijie’denuoyan，woyijiuhuaichuaineiyigelixiang。”yucitongshi，shidudeziwodiaokanyenenghuanjiejiaolvbuandeqifen，ru：“wofaxianzijijinqipengrenjishubaozeng，yihanmeiyourengongxiang……niyaohuijiachangyichangwodeshouyima?”