爱是流动的 聪明女人的嫁人经

 aishiyiciyicidelunhui,zuixianzhuhenile，nengzaijiehunqianjiandaobenwen，zhenshitaihaoyunle!xuduo jihundenvrenzaidupengdubenwenshigankairuguojinzaojiandaojiuhaole。rujinwojiangtagongxiangjidahuoer，qidaidaliangdenvshengnenggoujiandaobenwen。zuobiejuyigedenvren，zuoyigeyouzhexingfukuailedenvren。youshiganqingbushinixiangxiangdeneimoyang，bingbushixunzhaoyigezuiaiderenjiunengyouzhexingfukuaile，xingfu，youconghui，caikeyidedao xingfukuaile。neimeaishiliudongdeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishitiandedewenzhangba。

1、不必一开始就在男人眼前做贤淑状。

 jiarutaduinidefuchulisuodangran，quebumingbaishouyi，tayoudananrenzhuyidexingwei。aishiyiciyicidelunhui,jiarunishijianzhangle，neixinshifangyalile，zuodemeiyouzhiqianhao，tahuihentoule，huiganjuenipianletahuozhenimeiaitale。

 bibushangyikaishi，jiuzhangwofencundebiaodaaiyi，jitamenzhuyaobiaoxiandejiyu，shitajinizuoxieshi。shuozhenhua，nanrenduizishenfuchudewupinyinxiangjiaoweikegumingxin。tajinizuodeyueda，fuchuyueduo，taduiniyuelianlianbushe，yuebudong。fandao，nidefuchu，tadededao tajiaoweiganjuebuhao。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，changganjiawu，changzhaoliaoxiaohaidenanrensheqihunyinshenghuodegailvyaodideduo，yegengshiyouyuzheiyijiashitajianxinzhujiude，tagengbushedesheqi。

 xuduo lanqingjueqingdenanrendoushiyouyigezuixianshu，buqiuhuibaodenvrenzaimomodifuchu。wozuihouxiadingjuexinjiageizishendenanpengyou，shiyouyutayuwojiang：woshifencaolaoni，，wolaopanihuodebutaihao，huozheyudaoshashi，yaoshiyibukanjianni，woyeshifenxintengni。tadefuchuyuwodeganxieshiwoliangshidexiangchumoshi。

2、女生還是要勤奋让自身出色些，从工作能力到容颜。

 zhongguotaiwanyoujuguanggaoxuanchuanyu：yongxindenvrenzuipiaoliang。meiyigerendoushiyouxuanzezijishenghuofangfadezhipeiquan，aishiyiciyicidelunhui,danyidingyaoyongxin。duizishen;duigongzuozhong;duishenghuo。neiyangdenvrenjishibingbushiqingguoqingcheng，yeyouyizhongxinxintanrandemeiyejinyouneiyangdemei，caikeyiheshijiandikang，shijishangyeshihaonanrenshangxidezhonglei。

 henyoukenengxuduo zimeibingbushigongzuofangmianhenchusederen，neimakeyibazishenzhenglidezhengjieqingxin，yeshiyigefeichangdadeyoushi。wulunzenyangshuo，shijizhongdenanrenhuanshizuixianfeichangrongyibudongzhuangdongde，bingbuyidingdenanrendouzhiaizuimeilidenvren，zhenduizhengjieqingxindenvren，dabufennanrenquanshiyouhaogande。

3、出嫁最关键看为人，性情。

leisidexingqing，leisiderenshengjiazhiguan、renshengjiazhiguanshihunyinshenghuoshenghuoshidequebao。

 gexinghuabuyiyang，liangrenpingchanglidoushuobulai，jiusuanshiquanshijiedourenkedetiansedizaodeyidui，tianshengyidui，yeshibukeyijiade，zhongjiunideyishengzhongdabufenshijianyaoyutahuandude，lengnuanziru。

4、有话说破。

 younaxieniantou，shuochulai，bubirangnanrenqucai，nenggoutongjiaoliu，nideshenghuohuigenghuanle。bukeyigoutongjiaoliu，biaomingnimendexingfudouhaimeiquebao。wojuede，meiyouyigenanrenshiyicainvpengyousixuweilede。weizheiyiyuangu，sangshiyigehaonanren，queshihenyihan。

5、恋爱中女生要有自身的道德底线。

 aishitiande,juebuyunxuyinweiaiqingta，jiusheqizishendezizun，wuruzishendebabamama，paoxiazishendegongzuozhong。haodeqinggan，hunyinshenghuoyidingshihuligongying，erbushidanfangdefangqihemanzu。

6、一开始便说配不上你的男人，之后他也不容易加上你。

 duiyixiechusedenvshengeryan，douhuiyudaoyixiekanqilaichengzhanggudenanren，niweitagaibianxianzhuang，fuchusuoyou，tajiushuo，niduitataibangle，tade(wenping，qiancai，gongzuonengli，yingxiangli，zhangxiangzheixie)peibushangni。woshenpangxuduojiemeimendeshilizhengshi，meiyouxinxin，zhinengyikaoniqujiucaikeyixiangchudenanren，zhihouduinikendingbuhuihaode，nidechusezongshishitagengbuzixin。

7、不必为男人一开始的追求完美就付出自身的心。

 haonanrenhehuainanrenzaizhuiqiunizhichu，doushihuiguanzhuni，jienisongni，rangnifaxinxi，zainidebingshizhaoliaoni。bubiyiyouxierenxintengni，niyejiulikexianjinlai，xiangyixiang，duokanyikan，zaizuojueding。yiban，sigeyue，chongzudechupeng，zugoujinizhangwota。zaiwangshangdexiangchusuanbushangde，zaizhangqidehulianwangchupengyesuanbushangde，zhenzhengdeshenghuocaigengyouyiyi。nixuyaohetayiqichifan，guangjiegouwu，yiqizuoxieshi，caikeyizhangwota。niguodekuaibukaixin，nizijilejie。xuduo qingkuangxia，bingbushinanrenzaimengpiandajia，shiwomenzijizaihuozaimengli。

8、好男人，对自身有规定，对女人没规定。

aishiliudongde,danfanzishenduigongzuozhongwusuozuowei，queduizishendenvpengyouyouzhongduoguidingdenanren，huanshibieryuanzhibijiaohao。