当爱再靠近只想恋爱不想结婚的男人是怎么想的？

 “dengai,hunyinshenghuoshirenshengdashi，cuxindayibuke。“quanbunanshengdouzaoshouguoneiyangdejiaoyu。xiangxiangduieryan，lianaidefenlianghaoxiangmeiyouneimezhong。kandaoyigemeinv，beitaxiyinzhu，mishangta，aijinta，yueta，lianai，shibushihetawanhunyeyaozaiguancha。jiaruganjuetabuyidangxifu，zheiyiduanlianaiyejiudangzuoyici”yeyushenghuo”。nanrenmennaizhitichang，duolianai，duoliaomei，duofangweidaguimojiaoweiyiquan，caizhidaoshenmeyangderengengshihezuoxifu。neiyangdeguannianjutizhidaoxia，tamenbianhuichanshengyizhongyibianwanyituideaiqingxintai。neimedangaizaikaojinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankandangaikaojindewenzhangba。

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 budanzheiban，tamenhaihuijixunagongzuolaidangtuoci。“wohenmang，meikongyouhui”;”wogongzuohaibupingwen，bushihewanhun”。tamenhuiduicuihundenvhaishuo：nanshengdegongzuoshishengminglidetoudengdashi，jiarumeitianxiangtanggaozongneibanpeiyangyuhuantingge、wudao、qupaowenquan，neiyidingshihuangliangqiuchunweiyede;nuobeierjiangzhongshenbuqu，zuohuanlechunsuideguanggun，zhuanxinzhizhikexueyanjiu，zongsuanbianchengjiechudeshengwuxuejia。

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 dangaikaojin，renzhongjiubingbushixiaodongwu，renmenyourenmendebiaozhun：wanhun。wanhunyihounanshengjiuwubishoulianxingtamendesuiyidebenxing，yinci xuduo nanshengtaoyanwanhun，erqiezhaodaowanbantuocizaitawanhun。keshi，weilegenghaodiyijizhisi，tamenhuanshiyao”pianxianghushanxing”。qidaiyouxierenbangtachuanzongjiedai，fanyanhoudai;qidaiyouxierenzaitalaodeqingkuangxiajitamenxiangban;huoshizhishishiqidaiduijiazhongyouyigejiaodai，tazuihouhuanshiyaowanhun。zheileiqiqiangdexinlizhuangtaizaocheng letamenyibiantiaoyibianwandexintai，bashenpangjijisongshanglaidenvhaixinranjieshou，jibian linshibuxiangchude，yebaochiwendingderenjijiaowang，yibianyoubeiwuhuan。tamenbingchizheijuhua：“yidingyaodenghoudongnideren，keshizaidongniderenlailinyiqian，hebuhebudongniderenshuoshuohua。“

 budongnideren，bianshi”beiyongpin”。“beiyongpin”buyidingbianshishihede，keshinenggouzaiqinggankongqueqiyonglaimibuneixindekumen、ganqingdegudu。aiwandenanshengyizhifengliudashen，ernvxingjiuaizheilei”jiefengyun”denansheng，feichangrongyi”luanhuajianyumirenyan”。keshijiefengyundenanshengshifougengrezhong”jiekouzi”ni?

 yinci ，dangaizaikaojin，meinvmenyingdangzailianaihuanjietounaoqingxing，wenyiwenzishen，zhengduimiandezheigeren，daodishifou”dui”derenni。tanenggougenninongqingmiyi、shuaxuekanyueliang，tanenggougennixiangyongjiewen，nenggougennilanmandiyouhuixiangyouzhuguangwancan，danshiruguoniwenqizhihouruhe，tazenyanghuiying?tadaodishifouyaogenniquqishengzideneirenni?nishitade”yongpin”huanshi”beiyongpin”?