当爱再靠近 怎么提升自我，成为他的最佳选择？

 dengaitangruobadanshendanyouzailianaishilingqingniandenvhaiguilei，neimawozhixiangyaofenweierzhong，yizhongshiyijingchenjinzaiwenrouxiangdangzhong，xiangyouaiqingyuyuedexingfukuailenvhai;erlingyizhongzeshiqinfentishengziwo，yijingaiqingzhuiqiuwanmeizhidaoshangdenvshi……qianmianyizhongshixingfude，houmianyizhongjiangyaohuodedaoguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile，tangruoxianzaideniqiaqiaoshihoumianyizhong，nishibushiyouxiangguozenyangcainenghuodezishennenglifanchouyineigenggaodexingfukuaile?neimedangaizaikaojinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankandangaikaojindewenzhangba。

 yingduijijianglailindeaiqing，daliangdenvhaizhishishidenghou，wangshangtianqidao，daogaozheguishuyuzishendeaiqingdelailin，qianjingdeyaoqiulaotianyeshangcizishenyiduanxingfukuailedeaiqing……dannishibushiyouxiangguo，shijishangxingfukuaileshibushikeyichaoguonideyugu，daliangdeyaosubawozainideshoushangni?

 meiyoucuo。niyaoxunzhaoshiheqiechusedeyixingpengyou，nanshiyedouxiangyaozhaochusedenvshironghe，dengaitangruodajiabahunlianjiaoyouzuoweixiaoshoushichangdehua，nisuodapeidelianren，gengshiniziwojiazhiyejiushishuonidefengcaidedingxingfenxi，neimazenyangcainengtishengziwo，rangzishenzaihunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangzhonggerenjiazhikuaisubiaozhang，zaojiuyiduanmeimanxingfudelianaihehunyinshenghuoni?benwenlinxijiaoshijiangdaizhuzhuweikanyixiazheixiekeyibangnitigaoziwojiazhi，chanshengxingfukuaileganqingde“guanjianzi”——

恋爱关键字一：尤其

 dui，meiyoucuo，diyigeguanjianzibianshiyouqi，xianzaideniguangjiegouwuhuiguanxinshenmechanpinni?wojuedechulegangxingxuqiudeshangpinyiwai，nigengxiangyaoguanxindeshizheixiekanshangquhenyouqidewupin。

 “youqi”zheigecihenyouqu，tabuyidingyiweizhezheyouduomededehaokan，danbidingshiyuzhongbutongde，shiyouchusediande，erzaihenanshengdechupengzhong，dangtajiangchu“woganjuenihentebie”neiyangdehuayushi，shijishangzaiqianyishizhonglizaoyijuede“gennizaiyiqironghe，dajiayidinghuishengyunchuyouqidezisunhoudai”。

 danzheiermingji，youqibingbushiyilei，bingbushitaiguofukuadequxiyinrenmuguang，zhishixunzhaozishenjiaoda deliangdian，xunzhaozishenhezhoubianrenbuyiyangdediqu。

恋爱关键字二：能力

 nenglizheigeci，yibanshihenanshiguagoude，zheierjiangnenglishishuangcenghanyi：yishitishengziwozailianaizhongdeshuizhun，youyuduinieryanlianaibujinshiyizhongxiangyou，lingwaihuanshiyizhongyunying，younaxiedeshuizhun，caikeyiyouzizhixiangyounaxiedeaiqing;erlingyizhongshixuehaorangnanshengdenenglituxian。

 xuehaobiaoshuzishen，genjubiaoshuzishenrangzheiyinanshengxunzhaozishendenenglisuoshu，takenengchajuezijidenenglihexinxinchediyuanyuyunishi，tagenghuijiandaonideliangdian。

 danzheileifangfashijizenmecaozuoni?shijishangbukeyi，ruguoninengfangkuanzishen，shanyufajuejiukeyi，liruzaitaxiezhunixiudengpaohuoshibangnideshoujishuaxitong，nizhiyaoyongyizhonghenqinpeideyudiaoshuo：“nizenmeneimeqiangda，zongjuedezheiyiquanshijiemeinikendingbuhuide，jianzhiquannengya!”

jiusuantazhidaonishizaitaohaota，danduitaeryanyequeshihenshiyong!

恋爱关键字三：关心自身

 dangaikaojin，henyoukenengnigengzaiyilianaidezishen，guanxinzhezishensuoxiwangdelianaimubiao，yinci yizhizaitiqianzhunbeizheyinglailianaidelailin。danwojuedezaiaiqingdaolinyiqian，nigengliyingguanxindeshizishen。youyuzainidedeshenshangyouguoduonenggoutishengziwodediqu，youguoduoliyingguanxindexingye。youshihouninengsikaofanshengziji，kanyixiazaizishendeshenshangyoushenmefeichangzhidetigaode?youshenmeshibulilianaijinxingde……tangruonizijikanbujian，zhaozhaozhoubianyoulianailijingdehaoguimi，huoshizhaoyigejiaowangdefeichanghaodeyixingbangnizhidaozhidao，xuduo qingkuangxiayixiewupinjiugezheyicengchuangzhi，yidianjiupo，danzishenhennengchuopo，yikaobierendexiezhu。

恋爱关键字四：学好用“第一次”

 zheiyidiyiciziranbingbushiniyaodeneiban，neizhiyouhuirangnanshengganjuenijiaoqing，naizhixinjibiao。zaizheierlinxijiaoshijiangde，shijishangshixuehaolinghuoyunyongzheiyicijulaizhuyaobiaoxiannideshehuizhengnengliang，liruzaizheigenanshengdainiqulvxingshininengshuo“wohaishidiyicilaineimehaokandediqu”;zailiruyeyou“wodiyicijiandaoneimehaowandedianying”“diyicilejieyuanxianneimequwei”……

 zheihuifanyingnizhengchuzaiaiqingdetansuojieduan，bingweiyouguoduodefumianxinxisixu，qiezhuyaobiaoxianchunifeichangrongyikaolvdeshizhi，bingqiehenchunhenmeng，henfeichangzhidenanshixiai。

 ziran，tishengziwodefangfabudanshijinyoulinxijiaoshijiangdezheizhong，bingqieyixiefangfayebieyankeanzhaowenzhangneirongzhongdefangfaquzuo，buranzunshouguizehuirangzishenyuelaiyuebuzizai，huanshiyijuzishendexingqing，dangaizaikaojin，sisuoyunyingzishenfengcaizhifa，tishengziwoshiyongjiazhi，bianchengtadedexuanzeba!