我坐男同学的车上下班，老公不原谅我出轨怎么办

 zaixianshishenghuozhong，youneimeyibufenrenzongshibaganqingdangzuoerxi，bahunyindangzuoyouxi，badanglvxing。zongshibuyuanyiguopingdanwendingdeshenghuo，zongjuededuixingfuxingfudehunyinquefajiqing。laogongbuyuanliangwochuguizenmeban？

 yinci，yixierenkaishizaishenghuozhongxunqiuxinxianganhexingfengan，congershiqulewendingdexingfu。zhidaoneishi，tamencaifaxianshenghuoshirucimeihao。cishi，tamenzhengzainulizhengqu。

danshibuzhidao，youxieshiqingguoqule，youxierenshuowangjile，youxieganqingyidancuoguojiuzaiyehuibuqule。

我叫阿妙，今年35岁。

suiranwochushengzainongcun，danwoshiyigexingfudenvhai。danshipifubaiximeili，shenghuomeili。

zaibanli，tongxuemenjiaowobanhua，zaidaxueliyesuanpiaoliang。

 yinci，zhuiqiuwoderenhenduo，danwobingbuyincierzhanzhanzixi，yehuijujuenanshengdezhuiqiu。yinweiduiwolaishuo，xueyegongcaishizuizhongyaode。

jiuzaishangxuedeshihou，woyijingmingbailerenshengzuiyinggaijianchishenme——xuexi。

yinci，wobuhuiyinweiaiqingerdanwuwodeweilai。

gengzhongyaodeshi，woshiyigelaizinongcundenvhai，wodefumudoushinongmin。wosuoyoudefeiyongdoushikaotamendexinkuriyebenbo。

 zaifumuyanli，zhiyoukaozijidenulicaishiguangrongde。yinci，wobuxiangjifumuzengjiafudan，zhixiangjifumudailaigengduoderongyu。

shenghuozainongcundewo，dongdeqinjianjieyue，dongdechikunailao，gengdongdenuligongzuo。

yinciduwangaozhonghou，bingmeiyourangfumushiwang。woruyuankaoshanglewaiyuxidaxue。

congciwogengjianulijianulikaoshi，zhiweizijichengweiyigepinxuejianyoudehaoxuesheng，erbushirangrenxinshanghuaping。

suoyi，zaishangxueqijian，wozhidaoruheweifumujieshengjingji，woyemeiyoulangfeishijiantanlianai。laogongbuyuanliangwochuguizenmeban？

biyehou，woruyuanyichangdichengweileyimingwaiyujiaoshi。zheishiwofumudejiaoao，yeshiwozuihaodeguitu。

自从工作以来，我也开始思考自己生活中的另一件大事：结婚。父母更是忙着为我介绍对象。

suiranshangxueqiwomeiyoutanlianai，danshiwoduiaiqingyouzhemeihaodexiangwanghechongjing。

 meicitingdaofumushuolijiadehaizigongzuowending，zhangjiadehaizipiqihao，gaojiadehaizidoushifuzerenderen，liujiadehaizizhengquederen……

wozongshixiao，yinweiwojuedexiangqinshizhaobudaorendewunaizhiju。

erxianzaidewo，gongzuowending，waimaoqizhihao，zhixiangyouyiduanhonghonglieliedeaiqing，buxiangguozaodijuanruyouyanjiangcuchaderizi。

yexushishangtiandejuangu，yexushimingyundedaolai。wozhidaowodechulian。

tawenrouxixin，danzongshiyifudiaoerlangdangdeyangzi。

jingguoliangniandejiaowang，womenzongshibuduandezhengchao，buduandefenshouhehao。

 wokaishifanshengzijideaiqing，huanxiangzijihechulianjiehunhoudechangjing，zaijiashangfumudejianyi，womenliangzhendebushihejiehun，zhishihelianai。

yinciguoduanfenshou，buxianglangfeitaiduodeshijianhejingliquaishangyigemeiyouweilaideren。

 bujiuzhihou，wodayinglefumuanpaidexiangqin。benlaizhishibuxiangfanbofumudemianzi，yebuxiangrangfumushiwang，yingzhetoupiquxiangqin。

yuanlaixiangqinyeshizouxiangaiqinghehunyindezhengquetujingzhiyi。

diyicixiangqin，woyudaolexianzaidezhangfu。

womenlianghentouyuan，youzhegongtongdexingquaihao，youzhegongtongdeshenghuoguannian，woduitayouhaogan，taduiwoshiyijianzhongqing。

zuizhong，womenxiangshishiyinweixiangqin，jiehunshiyinweixiangqin。

老公阿军比我大3岁，今年38岁。

yigenvrenzuidadexingfujiushi：zhaoyigebizijidadenanrenzuoweishenghuobanlv，yinweitahuichongni，shanghaini，zhaoguni。

ajunshiyigelengjingderen，shuohuazuoshizongshineimeyoutiaoliheluoji，duijiatingfuze，duiwogengshiguzilideai。

 nongmeixiadeyishuangxiaoyanjingshirucishensheng。suiranyouhenduohuzi，dantamenxihuanganjing。tamenzongshibazijidasaoganjing，bajiazhenglidejingjingyoutiao，zhaoguhaohaizi，zhaoguhaowo。

 woyiweixiangwozheiyangpiaoliangdenvhaijingliguohenduolianai。danshidangajundezhiwoshiyigebaoshoudenvhai，zhilianaiguoyicishi，tagengjiazhenxiwo。

 suiranajundejiatingshenghuotiaojianxiangduiyouyue，dantacongbuxiongxinbobo，zaiqiyenuligongzuo。jiuxiangwodetongshikaiwanxiaoshuowoyiyang，wohenxingyunnengyudaozheiyangyizhifuzerendelanchougu。

yinci，womenliangrenzaibudaoyiniandeshijianlijiurenshilehunyindiantang。

neishi，wodefumuduiwodehunyinzanbujuekou，wodegongpoduiwoxifuderenkejianzhishixiaodehebulongzui。

 yinci，womendexiaojiatingweichizhelianggerendehexiehexingfu。woxiaoshunhezunzhongwodeyuefu，wodezhangfuajunduiwodefumugengjiatitiehexixin。zhenggejiatingshiyigehexiedefenwei。fumushuangfangzunzhongheai，fuqishuangfangxianghukuanrong、xianghuzhichi、xianghuai。

zheidagaijiushizuihaodejiahewanshiruyideyangzi。woxuanzeheajunzaiyiqierxingfu，ajunyinweijiajiwoergandong。

jiuzheiyang，womenjiehunliangnianhou，erzichushengle。

生了儿子以后，我简直是家里的大英雄，公婆舍不得我做饭洗衣，老公舍不得我熬夜批改作业。

 yinci，jinguanerzishiwoshengde，danzhaoguerzishigongpoderichangshenghuo。zhiyaowohezhangfufuzenuligongzuozhuanqian，jiunengrangwomendeshenghuoyuelaiyuehao。

yinciwojuedezijizaizheiduanhunyinzhong，zaoyibeichongchenggongzhu。

wohengaoxingjiandaowodezhangfu，woyehengaoxingwodegongpoyouzhengquedesanguan，peiyangchuzheimehaodeerzi。

suoweipoxiguanxi，yexuyaolianghaobingyihao。

 yinweiwodeyuefuheyuemujingchangbangwozuojiawu、zuofanhezhaoguhaizi，suoyiwozaizijidegongzuozhongyougudingdegongzi。wozongshijiwodeyuemumaiyixietamenxihuandeyifuhuoyingyang，bingdingqidaitamenqutijian。

zheiyiqiebenshenjiushiwoduigongpodeganen，quechenglegongpogengaiwodeliyou。

 linju、qinqipengyoudouchengzanwoshiyigehenhaohenyousuzhidexifu，wodejiarenyechengzanwodezhangfuajunshiyigedongdepinghengjiatingguanxidehaonanren。

yexuxingfulaidetaituran，yexushizijishenzaifuzhongbuzhifu，huozhezhishiyishidemilianerwuruqitu。

dangwodegaozhongtongxuechuangruwodeshenghuoshi，yiqiedoufashenglefantianfudidebianhua。

休完产假后，我照常去上班，回到自己熟悉的学校和教室。

jinguanzhangfudejiatingtiaojianhenhao，danwomenyouyigegenghaodeweilaijihua。

suoyi，jializhiyouyiliangche，yibandoushilaogongkaide。

erqiewokeyizijizuogongjiaoche、ditiehuozhedacheshangban。

youshiyudaoyinyuhuohandong，laogongxintengwo，zongshidunangzheyaojiwomaiche。

danshiwojuedekaichehenbufangbian。chumenhouhenmafan。shangbandeshihou，zuogongjiaocheheditiebizijikaidekuai，buyongdanxinduche。

danqiaohedeshi，zaidengchedeshihou，yiliangdachezaiwoshenbiantinglexialai。

zixiyikan，caifaxianzheishiwodegaozhongtongxuearui。

 youyici，taxuexiyiban，xihuanzaiketangshangwan，tadegaokaochengjiyituanzao。xianzaitashiyinweibiyehoudetouzi。jutilaishuo，wotingshuowozhuanlehenduoqian。wobuzaixianggeshagua。xiangfan，woyouyigewendinghechengshudeshangren。

taxiaozherangwoshangche，woxiaozhewentashifouzailushang？

tazirandishuowomenshilaotongxue，weishenmebusongniyichengni？

jiuzheiyang，woshangletadeche。

zaixunwenlewodegongzuodizhihou，tayizhiyanzhexuexiaodedaoluxingshi。

yilushang，womenhuiyiqigaozhongshichunzhenercanlandequshi，womentaolundeshimeigexueshengdegongzuohehunyinzhuangkuang。

shiguangfeishi，henkuaijiudaolewodexuexiao。

 laotongxuearuixiaozheshuo：“wodegongzuodidianshiduimiandebangonglou，wodejialinidenggonggongqichededifangbuyuan。yihouwomenkeyishunlu。”

meiyouyisiyizhidaraota，danlianshanghaishixiaozheshuo：mafanni。

zheicishunfengche，womenjiaohuanlebicidelianxifangshiheliaotianruanjian。

yuanbenyiweimeigerendoushixianghulimaode，bijingshiduonianweijiandelaotongxue。

danshixiawugangfangxue，wodedianhuaxiangle，shiaruidade。tashuoshunbiandaiwohuijia，woyebuhaoyisijujue。

wobudasuanmeitianzuotadeshunfengche，danshiaruiyijingxiguanlezailushangjiewo。

 jiuzheiyang，woyemanmanxiguanle，bujiditie，budenggongjiaodeganjue，youqishizaihanlengdedongtianzuozaiwennuandechelishineimeshufu。

yuanlaixiguanhuishangyin，youqishihuaixiguanhuiraoluanyigerendeshenghuo。

 zuozailaotongxuealidedabiancheyijingchengweiwodexiguan。zheigexiguanzuizhongrangwotupolehunyindedixian，beipanlehunyindezhongcheng，rangwoshiquleaiwo、aiwodezhangfu。

经过长时间的相处，我才知道老同学阿里的第一次婚姻以失败告终。我不知道具体原因是什么。

benlaidatadeshunfengchewoyemeiduoxiang，danshisuizheshijiandetuiyi，womenliangdeguanxiyuelaiyuejin。

zaimouzhongchengdushang，sihumingyishangdashunfengche，qishibicidouhenxiangjianmian。

xiangfan，wogengxihuanzheiyizhou，yinweiwobuxuyaozaizhoumoqushangban，suoyiwobunengjiandaowodelaotongxueali。

erqiearuiziranyejingchanghewolianxi，jishizaiwofangbiandeqingkuangxia，womenliangjingchangliaotian，dadianhua。

woyiweizheizhishiwodejingshenchugui，woxiangwokeyikongzhizijideqingxu，suoyijishialiduiwotaihaole，woyebuhuichugui。

 danwocuole。womenhuazaiyiqideshijianyuelaiyueduo，shenzhizaizhongwuyiqichifan。dangwomenzaijiaoshijiejianmianshi，alihuisongwoangguideliwu。yiqiedourangwoxianruzheizhongqingxu。

yifangmian，wohearuiyoubutongdeganqing，lingyifangmian，mianduichongwoaiwodezhangfuhekuijiu。

 wojiazazhezheiyangdeqingganxuanwo，buzhidaogaizenmeban。yinweiwobuxiangfangqihealideaimeiguanxi，yebuxiangshiquxingfudehunyin。

buguo，zaiyicijiankaozhong，woyinweiwaichujiankao，shiaruibawosongdaolemudedi。

kaoshijieshuhou，tayaoqingwoquchifan。chifandeshihou，womenliangdouheledianjiu。

 yexushiyinweijiu，alixiangwotanbaile。tashuotazaigaozhongshimomodizhuyizhewo。tabugandaraowo。kanzhewonulixuexizhenshitaihaole。biyehou，tahuifengkuangdizhuiqiuwo，dantameiyouneimeduojingjishili。yinci，alinulizhuanqianhezuoshengyi。tazhishijuedezhiyoudangtachenggongshi，tacaipeideshangwo。

 suoyialibatasuoyoudechenggongdouguigongyuwo。tayizhizaixiangwobiaodatadexiangfa。wodexinshikuailede。jiuzheiyang，dangwomenhezuideshihou，womentuchubicideai，yinweizheizhongqifen，womenyoulehunwaiqing。

 dangwoxinglaishi，wojuedewobuzaishiyigewanmeidejianzisheng，yebuzaishiyigehaoqizihehaomuqin。woweiwodejiating、wodezhangfu、wodehaizihesuoyouaiwo、aiwoderengandaoxiuchi。

woganjinnaqishoujitaozoule，haijiaruifaleyitiaoxinxi：congcibuganshe，jianmianjiuxiangmoshengrenyiyang。

fawanxinxihou，wodedianhuaxiangle。

 yuanlaishizhangfudalaide，tajiaojidiwenwo：“wojinidaleneimeduodianhuaheduanxin，nizenmeyizhibujieting，buhuifu？wohendanxin，niyidingyaobaohuhaoziji，zhuyianquan。……”

tingdaozhangfujiaojideshengyinheguanhuai，woyishifadai。woweitagandaonanguo，danwojuedezheishiyijiankechideshi。

guaduandianhuahou，worengchuyumaodunzhuangtai。

worenweizuoweiyigechengnianrenzuorenheshiqingdouyinggaiganyuzuo，yeyaoduizijidexingweifuze。

yinciwoyinggaibazheijianshigaosuzhangfu，wokeyixiangtachengrencuowu，woyekeyifashizaiyebuhuiyouhunwaiqing。

danshiruguozhangfubuyuanliangwozenmeban？

zaigaosuzhangfuhaishibugaosuzhangfudewentishang，wojiujiebuyi，gengshiwufamiandui。

无奈之下，我只能找到我最好的朋友，希望能从她那里得到更好的建议。

 zaiwogaosuwodepengyouzhenggeguochenghou，tarangwobatalanzaiduzili。tongshi，tagaosuwo，hewogongduyishengderenshiwodezhangfu，ruguoworangtazhidaodehua。zuoweiyigenanren，wowufarenshou。wodegaozhongtongxuezhishiyigeguoke。zhiyaowomanmanwangji，wojiunenghuidaoxingfudehunyin。

yincipengyoujianjuebuyunxuwobazheijianshigaosuzhangfuhejiaren。

wotingcongletadeyijian，ranhoubiaomianshangruowuqishidixiangshouzhezhangfudechongai，danneixinqueshineimedetongku。

meicilaogongduiwohaoyidian，wojiukaishichanhui，butingdizize，wojuedewobuyinggaimanzheta。

erqiewoyezhidao，wozaizhangfuyanzhongdediweishiwuyulunbide。zhiyaowozhenchengdichengrenwodecuowu，woxiangxintahuiyuanliangwode。

genghekuangwoyejishihuitou。

 yinweiruguowobugaosutazheijianshi，wodeliangxinhuigandaonanguo，womeitiandoushenghuozaitongkuhehuihenzhong。shuodaoganqing，wojuedezijiyiwenbuzhi。

zhidaoyouyici，dangzhangfukanzheshihunluopodewoshunjianjinzhangqilai，tayiweiwoganmaole，yushibutingdiweiwodaoshuizhaoyao。

neiyike，wodexinbengkuile，gengshiwufayinzangzijixinzhongdemimi。

yushiwotongkudigaosulaogongwodehunwaiqing。

danshirangwowanwanmeiyouxiangdaodeshi，wodedaodeshizhangfubunengxiangxindemuguangheyijierguang。

 zicongjiehunyilai，wozhangfuconglaimeiyoufaguozheimedadehuo，tazongshishebudepengwoyigentoufa。danzheiyici，tabujindalewo，yemeiyouxintengdeyi。

 tapaoxiaozhewenwo：“wobawosuoyoudeaidoujileni。woduinihenhao，wofumuyehenaini。niweishenmebeipanwo？zaiwoxinmuzhong，nichunjiemeilidenvshendiweishunjianduoluochengleyigerangwoexindenvren。woduiaiqingyouyizhongjiepi。suoyinidexingweiyounizijichengdan。wobunengyuanliangniduiwodeshanghai。rangwomenlihunba！”

 zaipaoxiaodeguochengzhong，wozhangfushenzhirangwolikaijia。neishi，wozhidaowogaosuwozhangfuzheiyiqieyouduoyuchun。yexuwozongshizhuanglongzuoya。tahuiaiwoyibeizide。

 danworenweifuqizhijianbuyinggaiyouyinman。wozhishigaosutawodecuowu。woxuyaotahewoyiqichengshouwomianqiandeshanghai。dantabuyuanliangwo。danwozhishichuguiyici，jishihuitoukan。wozaiyemeiyouhewodegaozhongtongxuelianxiguo。

zhangfuweishenmebukenyuanliangwo？

 laogongbuyuanliangwochuguizenmeban？dangwozaicigaosuwodehaopengyouwowufarenshoudejiatingdiweishi，tawunaidishuo：“nizenmenenggaosunizhangfuzheijianshi？meiyourennengyuanliang。”danshifuqizhijian，jiranyoucuowu。