女人放不下婚外情的男人怎么办，婚外情女人最终只有戒断一条路可走

 womenmeigerendouyouyigejiating，yiqianshitongxue，shineizhongguanxi，xianzaiwomenzaiyiqi3nianle。yinweishiyidi，suoyidagaibangeyuejianyici。nvrenfangbuxiahunwaiqingdenanrenzenmeban？

 tashigexiaoshouyuan，shouruyebugao，conglaimeiyoujiwohuaguoduoshaoqian。wojide，tajiwomaidezuiguideshiyijianyurongfu，haishizaiwomenxiangshidediyinian。

tayeweiwohualehenduodadangao，danzhendezuodehenshao。

 tashuohuabijiaozhi，gangjiechudeshihou，womenmeitian，tazhijiewenwo：“niyouneigeyisima？ruguonimeiyouneigeyisi，jiubuyaoshuohua”，womenjiuzheiyangzaiyiqi。

 yigeyueqian，takaishiwudongyuzhong。tazongshizaiwobeihoujiedianhua。dangwokandaotaheqizideliaotianxinxishi，wohuigandaobushufu。wojidetagaosuwotaheqizideguanxibuhao，zheihetayiqianshuodebuyiyang。

weici，wozhudongtichujieshuguanxi，gentanaoshi，yaokantadeshouji，tayebutongyi。

 houlai，dangwomenyiqichifanshi，tatiqianlikaile，shenzhimeiyoudazhaohu。wofeichangshengqi。wodadianhuashimaleta，shuoleyixienantingdehua。dangshi，tazhengzaikaiche。chelihaiyouqitaren。tahuidawodexinxibingxiangwojieshi。houlai，tadadianhuajiwo，danwomeiyoulihui。dangtazaicilianxishi，tashuotaxiangshanchuweixin，houlaizhendeshanchule。

shanchuhou，wojitadalehenduodianhua，tameiyouhuida，xianzaiwozhendebuzhidao，gaizenmeban？

 dangwomenbeidongdishiquyiduanguanxishi，womendediyifanyingyidingshibuyuanyifangqi。womenxiangyaohuifugezhongjiuge。zhiyaorenmenyouganqing，renmentongchanghuishiqulizhi，youqishinvxing，hunwaiqingyebuliwai。

 raner，ruguonixianzaixianruzheiyangdeguanxi，buguanniyouduobushufu，zuizhongdejieguozhiyouyitiaolukezou，neijiushi，“jieduan”。

 xuduorenzhidaohunwaiqingmeiyoujieguo，dantamenbunengfangshou，yinweizheixuyaoyigeguocheng。hunyinshiyitiaojiannandedaolu。zuoweiyigehunwaiqing“bifenggang”，zhihuirangnigandaobeiai，liuzaihoumian，haishixuyaowomenzijiqumiandui，xuyaochengzhang，xuyaoxuexideqingganwenti。

情感矛盾之一

 laifangzhefaxianqingrenduizijimobuguanxin，zaibeihoujieqizidedianhuashigandaofeichangbushufu。tajuedezheiheneigenanrenshuodebuyiyang。kenengyouyizhong“shoupian”deganjue。

 rangwomenzaizheilitangechangshi，jiushijihu90%deyihunnanrendouzaiwaimian，zaiwaimian“touchi”yigeleisidehuangyan，wulunshishiyufou，douhuibeibianzaochulai“woheqiziguanxibuhao；womenyijinghenjiumeiyouxingshenghuole；womendehunyinyiweizhefumu，woduitameiyouganqing...zhiyouzheixiehuangyan，zhiyouzheiyangdehuangyan，hunwaiqingcaineng“mingzhengyanshun”dizhankai。nvrenfangbuxiahunwaiqingdenanrenzenmeban？

情感矛盾之二

 yejiushishuo，womendelaifangzhezaichuliqingxuwentishi“yingduimoshi”zailianaiguanxizhong，nvxingdeanquanganzhuyaolaiziyugoutong“jishihuiyingbanlv”duiziwoderenke。

 suoyoudenvrendouxiwangwomendebanlv“fanshidouyouhuiying，fanshidouyouluodi”dangduifangturanlikaierbudazhaohushi，shiqingxudedaohuosuo，zheigeshihouhenrongyibaofa，guanlibuhaodeqingxu，shibukebimiandezhengchao。

 womenlaifangzhedeyingduimoshishi，renaode+lengzhan，liangzhongjiduandefangshi，yaomeshiyitongdianhuaguoqu，huxiangzema，yaome，shiduifangxiangyaogoutongdeshihou，guanbigoutongqudao。

 qingganxiufujiushigaibianzijideliezhi“qingxuyingduimoshi”。zhiyoutigaoqingshangheqingganrenzhi，cainengjiediaoyiduanshijian。“bujiankang”deganqing。

 zuihou，womenlaishuoshuo，hunwaiqing“duanlie”hexinyuanyinshidangyigenanrenganjuedaodeshihou“pa”“beiweixie”“meiyouzhangkonggan”deshihou。

 zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，gainanzishiyimingxiaoshourenyuan，youzijidejiatinghehaiziyaofuyang。jingjishilishinanrenzuidade“zixin。congnanrendejingjinenglilaikan，tameiyounengliweihunwaiqingzuoai“maidan”yejiushishuo，yidanlianggerendeshiqingbeipuguang，tazaitongxuejiali，haizidemingsheng，jiuhuidadazhekou，qizijiuchan，zaochenghenduomafan。

 ruguonizhishirangtajuedetadechujingshitade“beiweixie”，lianggerenchuyuqingxujiaolvdezhuangtai，dangyigenvrenduizijidexuqiutaiqianglie，taifengkuang，changjingbiandewufakongzhi，tahuigandaofeichangweixian，buyinggaizaiwaimiantiaoxin，cishi，nanrenhuichetui。

 nvrenfangbuxiahunwaiqingdenanrenzenmeban？ruguoyigenanrenxianglihun，tajiubuhuiyouhunwaiqing。yinweihunwaiqingnanrendedixianshi“baohuhunyindezishenliyi”，shibukechumode。