第三者说有本事管好你老公，原配应该怎么办，怎样对付第三者？

 zairichangshenghuozhong，changchangtingjianyoudisanzhehezhengshilaoponeiyangshuo：“youbenshiniguanhaozijidezhangfu……”，mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？nixianbuyaozhejitichuzhiyi，jiangchutamendedisanzhehaibanlilehanzhumingdaoyanhongdaodangchudehunwailianzaiduofangmianzhengming。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 shiqingzhonghongdaodelaopoxunzhaodisanzhejinminxijiangchideqingkuangxia，jinminxizhenzhenyoucidihuifushuo：“qinjiejie，weiheniwulunhaozishendelaogongni？”

 zhayanyikan，tajiangdehenyouxiedaoli。dajiajuedabufenrenguanxingliderenzhinenglishi，nanrenzai，yongyoulianren，yidingshijialidelaopozuodebuzuhao，yidingshilaopobuzuwenwan，buzuyoufengcai，bumeilidongrenhaiwangdao，caizaochengzheigenanrenyongyoulianren。

 neiyangjuedederen，woxiangwenyixia，jirannijuedezishenlaoponanadoubutaihao，dangshiniweiheyaoquta？jishinishiyanxia，danshiniyongyoulianrenweishenmebutiaoxuanliyiheqingrenguangmingzhengdadizaiyiqini？

mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？

 zaiwozhengzhidehunwailiananzili，youhenduopanbianguoqizidenanrendouhouhuimoji。yourenshuo：“ta，woshiyouyuhelaopoyouyixiezhengchao，ouqiheqingrenzaiyiqile，suihouyifayifabukeshoushi，yexiangguozhongguijiazhong，haohaoshenghuorizi，danshiwobuyuanyichengrencuowu，yaomianzi。”

 yinci，laopomenhenguanxindeyihuo：“nanshengpanbianhouqueshihuihedisanzhezhangqima？”wonenghenquelidishuo：“zhixudajiadehunyinshenghuobingbushiyoumingwushi，tajiunikendingbuhuiqueshimishangwaimiandeneinvren。”

 ciwai，zailaopomenderenzhinenglili，zishendezhangfuyongyounantishiwaimiandelianrenyinyou，bingbushishizheigenanrendenanti。zheilidisanzheyejuedenizuoweilaopo，meiyouguanhaozijidezhangfu，caizaochengtahewozaiyiqide。zuihou，zhengshihedisanzhezhujianzixiangcansha。

 yinci，nanshengpanbianzheiyijianshier，yidingbukeyizhijinjindijiangyiwuguiyinyulaopohuoshiwaimiandenvxing。yuqishuorangzhengshiquhedisanzhenao，zhenggeduiyucuo，haibibushangjiangshierzhengliyixia，hezheigenanrentanyixia，laopohaixiangbuxiangguo，xiangguojiuhedisanzhefenshou，buyuanguojiuliyi。

hunyinshenghuolidezhongshishiyizhongshuangzhongdetiaoxuan。ziran，tahaikeyitiaoxuanbuzhongshi。

 zaitajueceheqingrenzaiyiqideneiyike，zuishaoyouneimayishunjian，tatiaoxuanlepanbian。jiaruniyaoxiangzhengjiuzishendehunyinshenghuohezheigenanren，jiuwubicongtapanbiandeyuanguzhujianyidiandianzourutadexinli，nijinyoulejietaweihetiaoxuanhunwailian，cainenggouquqiadangdikaizhangongzuo。

 henduowangminzaiwodeyouxiangliliuyanbanliuyan：“jiaruneinvrenmingbaizizhongziai，jiuburongyiheyouqishidenanshenggaozaiyiqi。”zheileiwangminjuededisanzheyoubenshijiangchu：“youbenshiniguanzhunizhangfu”，jiubiaomingtagerenganjueyouliang，zuishaoyouzishenduizheigenanrendejibenfenbian。

 yincizheiertiyi，laoponenggouneiyanghuiyingdisanzhe：“wolaogongganlechunshi，jiushiwomeiyoudiaoshihao，keshinizijihaiyaosikaoyixia，heyigemingzhidaoyouqishi，yuniniqingwoyuandenanshengzaiyiqi，huiyounaxiejianglai？rujinninianqingnenggouhaozheqingchunnianshao，neimeninenggouhaoyibeizima？”

 zheiyiquanshijierangnvxingdanxindebingbushinansheng，zhishinvxing。yincilaopomendangdajiabeidisanzhetichuzhiyiheweixiedeqingkuangxia，bubiqudachaodanaohejichulilun，nixuyaobawozhutacishishuotamendexinlizhuangtai，suihouqingshanggaodiquhaiji。

 zuihaoshidehunwailianzhengzhifangshishirangdisanzhejijiliqu，huoshirangzheigenanrenjijichengrencuowuzhonggui。yaoburannizaikudiehanniangdehenanshengnao。niyuenao，tajiuyueganjuezishenmeiyoucuo，youyutasuanzhunlenikendingbuhuiliyi，gengbuhuilikaita。

 youwangminyoushuo：“neimejiujinanshengkandisanzhefaguolaidexinxineirong，daqidijixuxiaqushier，rangnanshengduinizaochengneijiu，jiyigeyouxiaodebiaoshu，shitazishenduankaihunwailian。”

 wokandaozheiyisiliaojiuhenxiangxiao，niantouxiangdetaiduo。nijiangdisanzhedexinxineirongrangnizhangfukan，mudizhibuguoshiyaoxiangtaduinizaochengneijiu，danshitahuiruhexiangni？nizhangfuyaoshuo：“niyejiubudebuhuita？nijiushigeshenjingbing，doushuohetameiyoushenmele”，qingnigaosuwo，ruguoshineiyang，niyaohuilicaitama？

 gengwuqingdenanshengyaoshuo：“niruguozaitiaomaobing，jiuliyi”，neimaniyuanbenjinjinyaoxiangshitajijiduandiaohunwailian，jieguotalijiyaoxiangliyi，niyejiuyoubuqingchugaizenmebanle。

 shijishang，youyudisanzhedeyiju：“niguanzhunidezhangfu”，zaochengdezhengshilaopodesisuoyagenbingbushizhishangjileizuibianshijiandehuiying。bunenggenchu，naizhihenyoukenengjifananshengduidisanzhegengqiangdezhuiqiuwanmeiyu。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 niruguozhennengrangnizhangfudiansediaokanyixia，zaoyijile，qiahaoshiyouyunijibushang，ninatameifa，youlenibuganliyi，caizaochengnidehunyinshenghuoyituanluanma。

nixuyaodisanzheguanhaoziji，jiarutaqueshiyaoxiangguanhaoziji，tajiuburongyishuoneibanchangjuedehua。

hunyinshenghuoshiyouyigeshengmingqide。zheiyizhouqishijianjiushizhifuqijianqinggandeqiqifufu。

 dajiafufuzuihoutiaoxuanhunyinshenghuoyidingshibicidoushiyouyidingganqingjichude。danshixianrujin，nidezhangfuhuiyunizhengchao，dajiahuichuxianxuduofenqi，naizhitahuiquzhaoxingbanlv，yidingshiyouyudajiadeqingganfashenglekunjinghenanti。nizhangfumeiyoucongnizheierhuodeyinggaiyoudelejiehekuanwei，bianhuizouchuquheqitanvxingliaoleliao。

 zenyangduifudisanzhe？duiyuguanzhangfuzheiyijiaofa，wobingbutongyi。rendoushiyouqinggan，haozhangfucongbushiguanchuqude。fanguolai，niruguomeitianyizhita，tazongyouyitianhuiduifu。

 yinci，laopohedisanzhechanshengzhengmianjiaofengdeqingkuangxia，yidingyaoweilegenghaodibaoweizishendehunyinshenghuoxuanzhan。keshibingbushiyoukuyounaohejichulilun，gengbubiqueyizhongshang。qingshanggaodenvrenzaiyingduilaogongdeqingrendeqingkuangxiaquanshiyouzishendejimoude。goutongjiaoliushiguanjian，zhengzhijiangxiaojiqiao。

 jiaruniyaozhangwohunwailiandeqingshanggaochulifangfa，reliehuanyingcanyuwodexunlianying，huoshilijiyuwosiliao，wonengbangnichuli，ranglaopomenbuhuizaimangran。

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？hunyinshenghuoxiangkafukachengbao，yaoxiangxingfukuailewanman，laopomenyidingyaoxuehaoweihubaoyangkafukachengbaodefangshi。