几种“婚外情”的类型及应对方式，怎样对付第三者

 shouwaibuhuanjingweihaihegezhonggeyangchongdongjianquanyinhuandeyinyou，mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？dangjindehunwailianzhuangkuangriyizengjia，duijiazhongzaochenghendadeweihaihechongjixing，dangyigejiazhongchanshengzheileizhuangkuangshi，beigaofangquanshimeifayingduihejienade，keshijiranshierchanshengchengweishishi，neimajiuliyingrenqingerqieyaotuoshanchuli，xiabianshijiaopubianheguangfandejilei“hunwailian”dezhongleijiqingxudiaojie。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

第一、一时过失型

 shuobaile“yishiguoshi”xing，bianshizheixiexinlibingmeiyouhunneichuguixunqinghewaiyudeyixiang，danzaiteshudeziranhuanjing、changsuohebiaozhunxia，yinweibenshenderenjinghezilvyishigongzuonenglibuqiang，yishitouhunnaozhang，meiyoudidangzhuyinyou，wufacaozonghezhangwohaozishen，yishihulihutukaizhanlecuowudejueding，zhuchengdacuo。birushuoyouderenzaiyixieteshuziranhuanjinghechangsuoxia，shouwaibudeyinyou，yishichongdongsuozaochengde“hunwaiqing”；youdezaiyixiexiuxianhuodonghejiaojizhonghejiuguoduo，zaijiujingdezuoyongheweihaixia，shiqulizhisuofashengdejiuhoushitaijiqibeiyixiexinhuaibuguiderendeyouhuozheixiezhuangkuangxiafashengdewaiyu。

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？zhenduizheileichuguifajuehou，jiuxufenerzhongzhuangkuangyousuochayi，yizhongshichuguizheliangxinweimin，guohoushoushehuidaode、yishiheliangzhideyitonggongxiao，ganjuebaoqianlianren，juedehouhuibuyi，fanranxingwu，bingxinxinwanquangaile，zhenduicileirenjiuliyingjiqijiuzhengdejiyu，yiguanhouxiao，zhongjiurendoushiyoufancuowudeqingkuangxiarongxujiugai，suihouqianshifanpiancongtoukaishi；lingyizhongzhuangkuangbianshiyuanbenshiyishiguoshixingwaiyu，danquecongcichangdao“haochu”，zhaodao“juede”，zhaojiabuzhu，zuibianbiaotaifayanlishibuhuizaizhongfan，dansidixiaquedulaiduwang、yiranguwo，bujinyongyoudiyici，bingqieyongyouzaisanzaisi，neimazhenduizheileizhongleidejiuyingbujijiyu，rubujiuzheng，guoduansheqi。

第二、寻找赔偿型

 zhongyixueliyouyige“queshabusha”zhishuo，biaomingshirenzhibixuerdaozhi。erzaihunwailianliyeshiyouzheileizhuangkuang，tongchangyouyixiehunwailiandefashengshiyinweihunyinshenghuohuojiazhonglideyixie“queshao”，zaiqizhongyifangyouduiyucishiyoumingxiandeyaoqiu，suihoujiuqueshabusha，zaihunneichuguixunqingyiqiuhuode“peichang”he“dadao”，jinerfashengwaiyuzhuangkuang。biruyouduishuofufu，jiehunhouerrengongpingyichengxiangdai，xianghulijiehelejie，daoyeguodehemuxiangai，kebansuizheshijiandebianhua，laopozaijialidegerenxingweiquejianjiandizhujiangenggai，manmanfanyingchuxiangjianguanyiqiedezuofa，duizhangfuconghuijijiqigerenxingweishenzhixingjidouyangejianguan，jishiguanlikongzhirenhedongxidouguan，zhujianzhangfusuiranyoumaiyuandanyechengshoule，zhihoulaopodezuofashidecunjinchi，shijianyijiu，jiuyaozhangfujuedeyayiganhemeifajiena。

 yingneiju“nayoujiya，neibianjiuhuiyoudikang”，zhihouzhangfuchuguifashenglehunwailian，zhangfuhaobuhuiyandeshuozai“disanzhe”neibianzhaodao“wennuan”he“zhongshi”，zheijiushidianxingxingdeyizhongbuchangxinlierzhidezhonglei。zhenduigaileihunwailiankandaiyefenerzhongzhuangkuang，yizhongshizhaodaoshierdegenbenyuanyin，suihoulianggerengongtongfendouqugenggaihetianbu“queshao”deyibufen，huashetianzu，panbianqishuganyuanhuiguozixin，zheishijiaruchuguizhequanxinshengjizhonggui，huoshinenggoukuanrongcongtoukaishide。lingyizhongshizhaodaowaiyudegenbenyuanyinhou，lijinglianggerendegongtongfendou“queshao”yibufenhuodetianbuhegenggai，erzheishibeipanzhequeweigenggai，caiyongmingxiuzhandao，queanduchencangdefangfa，hetaren“taoshengyijiu”，neimazhenduineiyangdejiuyingxiajuexin，rangbeipanzhezai“gai”he“san”zhongjian，erzeyizuochuquelidetiaoxuan。

第三、品性难度系数型

 yeyouyizhonghunwailianshifufuyifangyinweiyifangde“zhanhuarecao”depinxinghepinxingzaitanlianaishimeiyoufajue，huoshishiyinweilingyifangyangaiyanzangdebucuo，tanlianaishimeiyoufajue。dengwanhunchengjialiyezhihou，cikelingyifangjuedezuohaole，buyongzaiduodeyanzanghemanbao，yongsuhuashuodehaodeneiban“benxingnanyi，bingxingnanyi”，cikelingyifangneilei“zhanhuarecao”he“chiqing”deqianjiapinxingzhujianzhanxianchulai，tamentaoyanyebuganxinyu“congyierzhong”，zhujiansichuxunqing、duofangmianliuai，bixuchenzhechixuzhaoxunxindeyixingpengyou，dadaozishenxunzhaocijixinghehaoqidexinlizhuangtai，chixufuweizishenxinlijiaozaobuandexin。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 shenpangyixingpengyouchixu，zaibuduantiaoxuanxindeyixingpengyouquanguochengzhong，xiangyouyizhongjuxingpengyuedetihui，waiyubianchengjiachangfan，qiezhicuobugai，genjuduiyixingpengyoudechixuzhuiqiuzhongtianbukongxudexinling，mibuzishenyuwuzhijindewaiquxinlizhuangtai。zhenduizheileizhongleiderenshijibumingbaiai，yewuzhenzhengdeaiqing，zheiyangderennenggoushuochengchedibukekao，yebuzhizhiaihefeichangzhidexinlaideren，zheileizhongleideyingdangbuguansanqiershiyi，haobuyouyuderangqilikai，yidianyebulianlianbushe。

第四、变心型

 nanhaihenvhaidoushizaizhuixunzishenzhongyihehuzishenyuanwangdelingyiban，keshizairichangshenghuozhongyouyixieshierquebuyidingnengjinsuirenyuan，naizhihuishishinanliao，youyixiefufuzaironghezhihou，bansuizheyitongderichangshenghuofajuebuguanzaigecengmian，fajuelingyifangbingbingbushizishenyaozhuixundelixianghuadeneiyiban，danlianggerenquezoudaoyiqi，erjutilianggerenbingwuzhenzhengdeaiqingsuoyan，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，yidanyifangzaiyidingdejiyuhebiaozhunxia，pengdaohezishenliangqingxiangyue，hehuzishenxinlizhuangtaiyuguhexinyuandeyixingpengyouzhihou，helingyifang“wangbachouheidouduishangyanzhong”，zhujianbianxin，mishanglingyifang。

 zenyangduifudisanzhe？suihourennizenmewanliugenggai，lingyifangdouquyiyijue，buzaiyinidetihui，zhijiazhongyubuguanbugu，silexinbuyuniguoqule，yaohedisanzhezaiyiqi，zhenduizheileizhuangkuangdehunwailianzhonglei，wulunshenmeyuanyin，yewulunzishenyouduoshaodekaolvdaohezaiyi，jiusuannijianglingyifangaideyusiyuxian，quanshiyixiangqingyuandeshi，zheishiyidingyaoxiaxiahenxinsheqilingyifang，youyucikenishiqiqiuwanhuihuoshihelingyifangdachaodanao，naizhishituo、haolingyifang，wulunnaxiekandaifangfa，lingyifangdouqingyiyiding，buhenicongtoukaishi，zheishihoutadexinlizaoyichediwuni，neimanijiuxuyaoxiadingjuexinliqu，buranzuizhongshoushangshenkedeyidingjiushini。

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？hunwailiandezhongleiyouduozhongduoyang，jiejuehejiejuefangshiyebujinxiangtong，tashipubiandejilei“hunwailian”dezhongleijiqingxudiaojie。