为了报复丈夫出轨，我也找了第三者，3点了解正确的应对方式

 houtaiguanlidefensixiaoxieliuyanbanliuyanshuo，chajuezijizhangfuchuguile，mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？shifenfahuoxianglihun，danyouchongfenkaolvxiaohaidenggezhongyuanyin，jinguanmeiyouliyi，danshixinlidedaoerzishizhizhongmeiyouyiwang。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 kenengshixinlizhuangtaibupingheng，tachuguilepengyou，keshibeijiapofajuelexiaoxiexinlizhizhongshibuyuanliyide，zaizheiliduanhunyinshenghuozhizhongtamenliangrendouchuguile，duibicieryanquanshiyizhongsunhai。

 congernenggoufenbianjinxieniandehunyinshenghuoshijishangshiyizhongsangshiqingkuang，meiyouguanzhu、meiyouhudongjiaoliu、gengmeiyougoutongjiaoliu，nenggoushuochengyoumingwushi，erfanzadeshitadejiapoganyuletamendeguanlian。

neimagairuhechulizaoyiyouliefengdefuqiguanxi？

第一、和丈夫的关联

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？jingxialaixixindelvyilv，fuqijianshenmenantishibixuchulide，zhangfudenantidaodizainaer？tawaiyushiyounaxieyuangu？

 ruguoshiduilaopodebumanyi，haiyaojijiderenkeshenmedifangshimeiyougaohao，haiyoubianshizhangfudejiatingguanxishiruhede，tashifouzaichuanqibabamamadefuqiganqingfangshi。

 jiarushuogongpodefuqiguanxiyuanbenjiucunzaidewenti，tazhangfudiyichupengdebianshibabamamadefuqiguanxi，suoyishuobabamamafuqiguanxibutaihao，duixiaohaizhihoudefuqiganqingshiyouyingxiangde。

第二、恰当的解决夫妻关系

 yiduanhunyinshenghuozhibuzhizhengjiu？zuixianxukandebianshitamendeganqingjichuzenyang，zaichuduixiangdeqingkuangxiashifouxianghuzhijianenaicailaidaoyiqide，huoshishixiangqinyuehuixunsuwanhunde，zheilianggefangfadoushiyoubuyiyangdeshijianchuli。fajuehunyinshenghuozhizhongdenanti，lejiefenqidianzainaer，zaizuojuedingshiyaozhengjiuhuoshilijiliyi。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 youxierenzailiyideqingkuangxiabuqingchugaizenmexuanze，zheinenggoulejie，zhongjiushirenshengzhongdedashi，danlejietarenyibandouburongyihuodezhunquedehuida。

 chufeishineileiqianshedaoshengmingweixiede，liruzheigenanrenyoujiatingbaolidequxiang，meiyicidoushihuibalaopodagebansibuhuonaxiede，neiyangdehunyinshenghuojiulijisheqijiuhaole，meishenmeyinqizhengyi。

 duiyubiededehunyinshenghuoshifoufeichangzhidezhengjiu，bingbingbushiyiliangjuhuajiukeyishuoqingxide，nenggouyouyigehuanjiedejiyu，bianshixianliangdifenjuyiduanshijian，fenbieliqingxizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhizhongdenanti。

 zaipingxinjingqidezhuangkuangxiaxiangqingxishifoufeichangzhidezhengjiu，jiaruqueshiwanjiubuleyebubiyoukuyounao，fenshouzuopengyoucaisuanshiduixiaohaiheduigezijirenzuihaoshideyizhongfangfa。

 zenyangduifudisanzhe？jinyouliyideqingkuangxiameiyouzaoshouwaishang，neimazaijianglaiderichangshenghuocaihuigengfeichangrongyihuodexingfukuaile。

第三、解决和家婆的关联

 jiaruxianghezhangfuhehaodehua，jiulijijiangjiapofenlichulaichulai，bikaitamen，zheierbingbingbushishuobuxiaojing，zhishijinkenengbuzaiyiqirichangshenghuo。youyutaheerxifumeiyouyiqielianjie，erxiyounaxiebuzhengque，zaitadeyanlishibiandade。

 yinciyibianbikaijiapo，lingyibianshiyaohejiapodiaojie，jiarufufubicijuecewanliuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，haizinenggouhejiapokaizhangoutongjiaoliu。

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？neijiaruzhangfuweijujiapo，buneiyangzuodehua，dajiajiuxuyaokanyixiazhangfuzhenzhenzhengzhengweijudeyuanguzainaer，tashifouyouyixiequedian，zheizhongnantidouxuyaobokailerousuile，shijinantishijichuli。