对待男人出轨，女人最正确的应对方式不是离婚，而是这一种

 ruguonidehunyinshenghuobeipanbianshi，nihuizenmezuo？qiadangdezuofabingbushi“buxihuan，lijiliyi”，danninengtichufenshou，mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？dannixuyaohuodenilaodongsuodede，erbushishinidelaogonghexiaohaijiaowang。nishiyuanxiandeyidui，zheimeduodesunhai，weishenmeshiyiqieniwubichengdan，tashibuhelide。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

dangyigenvrenpanbianleyigenanren，xiangyixiangniziji。niyaozenmezuocaikeyishitafudaliangdeqian，erbushilinshiliyi。

zhengshitongchangshinaonuyulijiliyi，yejiushijinxingtaren，dianjizherangzishenbutongchu，danyirantongchu。

wojiangleyigeliyinvrendegushi，huoxuwomenkeyicongtaneibianxuedeyixiewupin。

 yananshijueduibuhuijuedetadelaogonghuiwubi，taganjue“jibianquanqiudenvxingdelaogongdoushizaiwubi，tayeburongyi。”niyinggaizhidaonanhetalaogongshiliangxiaowucai。bingbushiyitianliangtianqian。lianggerenshangtongyisuoyouzhiyuan、tongyisuozhongxiaoxue、tongyisuochuzhong、tongyisuogaoxiao，naizhibiyeyutongyigongzuozhonghuozaitongyiqiyegongzuozhong。

ershiniandeyouqing，bukeyibinilejieneinvrenyigeyuema？

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？dajiayizhijuedewomenzaiyiqideshijianyuezhang，dajiajiaowangdeshijianjiuyuezhang。rujinwomenzhidaowomendoushizheibanmingan。

 nanhetadelaogongguishuyuneileicongxiaofudaohunshadeganqing。tamenshibicizhijiandechulianqingren，jiehunhouyuyouyinv。jiehunwunianhou，tamendehunyinshenghuoebianle。nanmeineimachun。talaogongyouqidanda，heyigeganglaidejianxishengyouyitui。qiyezaoyizaidahuishangtaolunzheizhongshierle。nanweishenmehuibuqingchu？

 dangyananshihetadelaogongzhiwenshi，neigerenshuo：“zheijianshiqingyudajiabuxianggan，danwomendoushiqunzhong，dajiayiqichifan。”taqingmiedixiaole，bushima？womenyiqichiwanwancanneinvhaijileniyigelipin？tashuodao，“tajide。nikeyiguoyibuqubujiedianhuama？”zhengzhizhong，yiqiedoushidabian，chuguiderensahuang，hushiyiqie。

 nanhuozhitadelaogongheganglaidenvjianxishengdeguanlianbingbuyiban，tayelejienvshengdejiazhongfuyou，danqiannenggouquyinyoutarendelaogong？

 nandiyicifajuehou，tadelaogongxianchangyaoqiukuanrong，bingshuo：“dajiaburongyizailianluole。”dannandiercifajuele。cicitameiyouhenanshengzhiwen。taganjuehenwuliao。taxiangyaozishendefangfachulizheiyinandian。

 tamenzhongdeyixiegongzuozhongbingbushiminyingqiyede，shiyigeshifengerendeqiyeyuangong。nanlejietalaogongzuidanxinshenmema？zheijinjinzhimingdu，danxinbeizhafei，haipashiquwogongzuo。

nanqushangbanshizhengheneigenvrenjianghua。taziranxiangjiandaoneiyigetongyihuiletajiazhongdenvxing。

"niyongyuanbuzhidaotajiehunlema？"

"shide，danwoxihuanta。jiarujiajitayouyoushenmeguanxini？”

dangnantingjiantamenshi，taxianchangshanletayibazhang，gaoshenghandao：

 "yincixiaiqiangtarendewupin，yige94suidenvshengsheirangnineiyangdegaoao。meiyigerendouzaizheiergongzuozhong，weiyounizaizheieryinyoutarendelaogong。nineimexiaizuodisanfang，yigenianqingdenvhaifancuowu，zaiguangtianhuarixiazuoyigeqingshaonian。nirenweilingyifangshiwushangguangrongdema？”

nanshuozheyouquchuyizhangzhaopian，neijiushinvshengzengjitalaogongdelipin。taranhoushuo：

 "nineimexiaitayouyuniyouzheimeduoqian，niwubijitamenyigelipin。wojianguonanshengsonglijinvxing，danwoconglaimeiyoujianguonizheibanganxinqingyuandibataguaqilai。wodelaogongshineimehao，yincinixiaita。"

 neiyigenvjianxishengmeiyoushenmehaoshuode，hunwailianbukeyijianguang，renheshikedisanzhedoubingbushishenmedifangzhidezihaodeshi！tamenlianggerendejiaotanzaochenglehenduopengyoudeliuyi，nvjianxishenggengjuedecankui。

wobudebuchengren，nandelaogonghenjunxiu，danjunxiuderenyeshitarende。tamenjielehun，danniquezheibanbuzun。

 nanbianchengleyigelvchabiao，dantacongcishoubule。tapobudeyirangtamenjizijidegerenxingweifuchuyingyoudedaijia。weiheyigenanrenyaomengpiantadelaopo？tashigongpinggongzhengde，tamenyingdanghuodedadaoma？zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 hunwailiandejieguobuzhongyao，kanbudaoguangbianshikanbudaoguang，buyinggaizuodeshierhaiyaojizijidegerenxingweitouruyinggaiyoudechengben。

 nanhenvjianxishengtanguoyihou，renshibumenjijizhaoleneigenvren。tayingdangxianxunlian，suihoulijiqugongzuozhong。rujintazhiyoubeicituile。

nandelaogongyouyugerenyuangubeicituile。dangzheigewentizaizheigelingyuchanshengshi，yiqieqiyedouburongyishitalaigongzuozhong。

 yananshibukenrenrang，zaiciyulaogongjiaoshe。taxiangyaotalaodongsuodede。fufudaozheiyichengdudangranshibukeyijianchixiaqude，zhiyouliyi，erliyibingbushijiejuekunnandefangfa，zhishikanyixiazenyangliqu？

tadelaogonglejietazhiyoubaituojiamenkou，erxiaohaiyeshiguiyanan。

zheiduifuqiliangjiasipo，hunyinshenghuomeifazaici，dannanbuxutamenzhuanhao，zhongjiushineiyigesunhaitaderen。

yananshiyuanyilihunzhihou，tadelaogongbaituolejiamenkou。

 hunwailianshi，chuguizheyaojizijidegerenxingweifuchuyingyoudedaijia，disanzheyeshiyiyang，haiyaojizijidegerenxingweifuchuyingyoudedaijia。

zenyangduifudisanzhe？nvxingjiejuechuguinanrenzuiqiadangdefangfabingbushiliyi，zhishizheilei“zenyangliqu”。

 jiaruniyaozhangwonixihuanshenme，bubiruanruowunengerduisunhainiderenshili。yannanyingduitadelaogongchugui，yejiushirangtamenlianggerendousangshishengyu，suihousangshigongzuozhong，yerangtadelaogongjingbaituojiamenkou。

"wonengshinizou，danbingbushibaise，danniwubitouruniyinggaijinidegerenxingweitourudechengben。"

yaoyuelaiyuewanqiang，sisuonixihuanshenme，suihouxingdong，bixuxuduoshijian。liyibingbukeyijiejuekunnan。zenyangliqushizhongyao。

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？huanjuhuashuo，“buqufennanhaihenvhai，quanshiweilegenghaodishouyi，yizhimeiliyou”，hunwailiandenanhaihenvhaiyebuyuanjizijidegerenxingweibianbo，yingdangfuchuyingyoudedaijia。