为了你的爱情，要处理好和它的关系，如何处理第三者关系？

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01.爸爸妈妈

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yinci，guanyuganqing，zuihaoshidebianshinenggouhepenyouqingtu，danbuyongtiyi，zhongjiuqingganshidajialiangrendeshi。

 zongjie：ruhechulidisanzheguanxi？zheihaoduoge“disanzhe”quanshirenshengdaoluzhongbibukeshaoderen，qiadangdibadajiadeqingganhetamenzhongjiandejiaowangfanghuqilai，bikaidiaozheixiebutaihaodeweihai，caikeyirangdajiadeganqingbaitouxielao，zhongjiu，dajiabicizhijiancaisuanshizuizhongxiangsuizouwanyishengderen。