对于情场失意碰到第三者危机该如何应对

 zheiniandai，zuonvrenqueshizhendeburongyile，chukaiyaozhaoliaojiazhong、xiaohai、babamama，yeyaorenzhengongzuo，gengyaoyouzheyixiangzhuanzhang----“fangdisanzhe”。zheiyishehuifazhandisanzhetaichangjue，disanzhehennanfang，huihuaitarenhunyinshenghuodedisanzhe、ernaizhiliuqueshishilingrenshenetongji，tamenzailvcijiaoxiaotarendehunyinshenghuo，zuoweitiaodongjiatingzhanzhengdelingyifang，aishishenmenizuoweibeihaifangdelaopoyidingyaoxuehaoyixiefangshihenhendideyanlidajidisanzhemishu，rangtamenchangyichangsuanxin，qingchangshiyirangtamenlejieganlechunshiyaofuchuyingyoudedaijia，jingshitamenbuyinggaipengdewupinbubipeng，jinrilaijiangxiazhengshiruhezhenglidisanzhedejimiqizhao，rangzhengshimenxuededaliangyouxiaodewupin。

 kedisanzhejiuhaosixingzouyuhunyinshenghuobianyandemoguiyouhun，qutajingjiubusan，databudao，henzhiqueyounatameifa!shehuidaodeguanshuduitamenyagenbuleyiqiedegongxiao，falvfaguiyouhaoxiangyoudianer“wangsanxingtan”，gaizenmeban?nandaoshuocongcibashou?neimaxiabianjiaoshijiuxiangxijieshaojileiqizhao——zhengshiyingduidisanzhedehelijueji，yijibaijijianggandaodajiahaogoude”daoqiezhe“，huoshijingshizheixieyaoxiangqiangdajiaxingfukuaileguozide“jiefei”。

一、切勿怒吼疯闹

 danglaopofajuelaogongyouwaiyushi，haowuyiwenhuihuomaosanzhang，tashirendezhengchangfanying。danshidanglaogonglejielaopofajueletadewochuoshihou，juedaduoshudelaogonghuanshiyouneijiuxinlizhuangtaide，keshinijiaruzhuyaobiaoxiandeyikuernaosandiaosi，youkuyounao，feiyaobalaogongchuguideshiernaodezhongrenjiezhidehua，henyoukenengnilijijiubalaogongyinxiangledisanzhe。erqieyidingyaojilaolaogongchuguideshierbukeyirangqinrenlejie，youyunanshengyeshiaimianzide，jiarunongdezhoubianderendouzhidao，henkenengtajiuzibaoziqi，gancuiliyiqudisanzhele。yinci zuoweishouhairendajiayidingyaoxuehaoren，yidingbubizuopaoxiaodi，yaoxiangrangnanshenglaolaoshishidehuijiashenpang，haijidemingbaitiaoxuanfangshi，lingwaizaijiejuedisanzhedefangshishang，yidingyaolizhi，lizhi，zailizhi。zheishi，qingchangshiyijiarudisanzhezhudongjingong，xiangnimingshuoguanlian，niyemeibiyaomashangquhuiyingta，haozheta，hushita，meilita，yeshiyizhongduidisanzhedechufa。

二、敢于应对，提高自己

 zuixianzaimingquenanxingyoudisanzhedezhuangkuangxia，hebubaochilengjingxintai，guanchaqingxi，pouxizhuangkuangdeqianhouzuoyou，rangzishenxinlizhuangtaiyouyigeshierdejianshu，lirushijian，lingyifang，miqiexiangguanshuiping，youmeiyouxiaohaideng，lingwaixiangyixiangzishen“shibushihaiailianzhezheigenanren?”jiaruhaishenaizheneimejiuxiangbanfabaguishuyuzishendewupinqianghuijia，ruguobuai，neimejiujinzaoliyi，danshiyidingyaorang“zhaoshiren”jingshenchuhu，shitalejiefancuoshieryidinghuizaoshouchengfade。keshiyebubisuibianyouchengrenzhimeidexin，zhangfuyongyouhunhouchugui，xuduo zhuangkuangxiashinenggouhuishoude，buzhiyujiazhongliekai。jiarunijijisheqihunyinshenghuo，neimajiazhongliekainanyibimian，jinhouzuibeijudeshinizijihenidehaizi。keliandexiaohaishijishangshiliyijiaoda deshouhairen。nidecaolvhuihailexiaohaiyibeizi。yaoyoujuebufangqihunyinshenghuo，neiyangbudanrangzishenyougenggaodeshineikongjianquqinfenwanliu，bingqienenggourangbeipanzhehedisanzhechuxianguanlianweiji，shidisanzhequxiangsilexin。

 yaoxiangduohuizishendezhangfu，neiwomenyaomianduixianshi，erqieyaofanshengziji，shishahuirangdisanzheyoukechenzhiji，shifouduilaogongdeguanaishaole，yejiushishuoshizishenshuhudaban，zishendewaiguanshejijizijidehunyinshenghuoganlejiajianfa。jiexiaquyaozuodebianshizuixianyaocongwaiguanshejishangtigaoziji，genjujianfeishoushen、jianfei、meirongmeifa、huazhuangdengfangshidazaochufujianvdemingaiyunwei，rangdisanzhejiandaoniyejiuhuizaochengzicanxingkuidejuede，zheiyizhaoshizhimingyijidisanzhedeqiangyouliwuqizhuangbei。cizhi，zaimeigefangmianxianshixinxizishendewenhuayishu、hanyang、jianshi，jibian disanzheyongcuhuamani，haiyaoxuehaomeiyouyigezangziranglingyifangyehuilai。

zhengshijibaidisanzhedejimiqizhao-yingduidisanzhedefangshi

三、明修栈道，暗渡陈仓

 jiarumeizixinxinnengguanhaozhangfuxiaohuahuadexin，neima，guanhaotadeqianjiayeshihaode——zheidanshishanghainvdajiashidaixiangchuandeyufushu。liuyibayinxingcunzhehegezhonggeyangchuxukasuoshang，youqishigenxinshuiguanxideneizhangchuxuka，aishishenmenizhufangdaikuanxufude，xiaohaidepeixunfeixujiaode，ruguoyoubiaozhundehuajiubeidilibaquanbuchuxuguzidengdougaixingdaoerxiaohaidezhanghushang。……zaiyongjingbajianongdeananwenwen。zhangfudaduoshuxunsuchuitousangqididiaozhengxintai，jiarukendinglihunle，qimadajiaburongyizaizhengzhishangzaichidakui，zailiaonanshengmeiyouleqian，kenengdisanzheyezaoyipaodeyaoyuandele。