出现情场失意碰到第三者危机该如何应对

 dangnanrenzaoshoumeimaobingyuantideweigongzhihou，shitiaoxuanmobuguanxin，renbingyuantisiwujidanqinhai，aishishenmenihuanshitiaoxuanshengjidiannaoshaduruanjian，huoshizhongzhuangxitongruanjianni?zheiyexushinvxingzuibijiaomingandehuatitaolun，qingchangshiyiyeshilinghunyinshenghuozhongdenvxingzuikubukanyandenanti，jiarujiejuebutaihao，yigexingfudehexiejiatingyishunjiantubengwajie，conglianrenbianweimotu。

 neiyangtongchudichengben，yexulaopomenzaoyichangkeyile，haoxiangchukaiyaosiyaohuojiyuzhixin，tuodeliangrendoupibeibukan，jiusuanshipojingzhongyuan，yeyuanchubulaidangchudechanmianfeicehereqingle，zuizhonghaidedaoliyishouwei。weilegenghaodifangzhirenshengdaoluchuxianzheibantongkudeshier，zuolaopodejinyoucongbenshenxueqi，caikeyifangzhilaogongchugui。

 shijishangzuolaoposhiyimenzaoxingyishu，jiarunidonglezenyanghunyinjingying，ruguonishiyigeconghuidelaopo，jianxinzheizhongkunaozhishikenengzhuanhuanweileaidehuanle。

 neimajiaoshizaizheierjiaodaodahuoeryixiejueji，laishengjizishendediannaoshaduruanjian，jiangmeimaozhiduyaoyuandedangzaidajiadekafukachengbaowaibian。

 dangfajuezhangfuchuxianledisanzhegaizenmeban，zuixianyaoxunzhaoyingduidisanzhedehelijueji，yidingbubiyikuernaosandiaosi，nongbuhaonongdelaogonglianjiadoubuyuanyihui，yinci zheileiyumeidefangshibukequ。neimazenmecainengdiyuzhuwaibianmeimaodezhuibuni?

一、和老公的情人做比较，思索自身输在哪儿。

 xiangyixiangjiranzhangfukeyibuhaipasunhaidajiaxianghubaoshizhongridejiazhong，buguyiqiedemishangta，tajiuhuiyouxiyinzhutadeyuanyin。neimadajiajiuxuyaozhaodaotabidajiahaozainaer，jiaoweideqingkuangxiabuyaoshuotabininianqing，buyaoshuotawuchi，qingchangshiyiyinyounizhangfu，gengbubichizenanrenshiaimuxurongdewupin。jiarunijiangguoshijianchituijitaren，neimazongshisangshilaogong，sangshiquanbujiazhong。

neimadajiajiuxuyaobatazuoweiyimianjingzi，zhaochuzishendebugou。

 liru，weihezhangfuhuibuguyiqie，beita“yinyou”?youyutaburongyiyongzhilingdeyikouqichizexiabanhuijiadelaogongzongshikanbisai，ertani?taburongyi，huoshijibian tayechize，keshitahuiyongwenrousishuideyikouqi。huoshizaitaqingxufeichanghaodeqingkuangxia，niquemaiyuantabibushangnajiadenansheng，bierenkailechaojipaoche，kaileqiye，ertazongshizhaijia。xiangyixiangzaitabuchenggonghuoshiqingxubuhaodeqingkuangxia，nishidaizhushangxidemuguangjilitanihuanshimatameiyongni?xiangyixiangniduozhangshijianmeiyouxianglianaideqingkuangxiazaitahuaizhongmaimengle?nimeizuodezheizhongshierer“meimao”tadoushihuizuo，jiaoweiyihou，niyejiugaigaoqingchugaizenyangzuole，jirantanengzuonihaowuyiwenyekeyizuo，erqiebitazuodehaixing，nicongshizhizhongyaoyonglianrendemuguangshangxinidelaogong，neimaxiangxin，jibian tazaoshoumeimao，yehuixunsutingshou。

二、按时为婚姻生活年审

 zhangfudidangbuzhumeimaodeqingkuangxia，yidingbubiqinglvdemingquetichuliyi，eryaoshijinantishenrufenxi。hunyinshenghuotongcheyiyang，yunzuodaoyidingdeqixian，ruguobulijiweixiu，yidinghuichuxianneiyanghuoneibandewenti。chejianyinianyici，hunyinshenghuoyeyingzheiban，xuduo qingkuangxiadajiadouhulvele，hunyinshenghuonianshen。rifuyirideyouyanjiangcu，rangganqingmanmandishiquyuanlaideweierheyanse。yiner，dajiayidingyaoanyuehuoshiannianjihunyinshenghuochangguitijian。

 bubirenweilingyifangjiushinizuiqinjinderen，bukaixindeqingkuangxia，jiunazhangcidehuashangta，nidehenshijiele，jiurutongchikangbingdudeyao，bunenggenchu。jutifangfayinggaishi，zaiyicibuyukuaidezhengzhiyihou，niyinggaisikaoyixia，aishishenmeniweiheyaochao?shifoufeichaobuneng?yejiushishuoyuanbenwuguanjinyaodeshier，yinbulejieyizhi，nongdejifeigoutiao。huoshiruguonikanbushunyanlingyifangdeyixiegerenxingwei，huoshilingyifangyebuguisushi，niyaoyicha，yanyideng，bapohuailijiqiangdehuadiujilelingyifang，jianglingyifangzhadebiantilinshangnicaijiehen。jiaruchangchangneiyang，nijiushineimazhangqimocadedipan，jiugaigenghuanle。