男人变心，自己该怎么对待第三者的呢

 jiaruxiangyingduidisanzhe，neibidingyaoyouchongzudeconghui。keshitongchangdisanzhedoubingbushi“langdexuming”，zhengshijiaruyaozhisheng，neimayidingyaomingbaimiaoyongmoulvecaixing。yinci rujindelaopobingbushizhishishangdetingtang，nanrenbianxinshedexiacantingchufangjiukeyile，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomayeyaokeyiyongmoulveyingduiledisanzhe。zheierjiujiangxiazenyangmiaoyongmoulveyingduidisanzhededuice。

谋略一:多点思绪在丈夫的身上

 zhangfuwangwangyoudisanzhe，tongchangshiyouyuganqinggudu。jiaruniyiqianjizhangfuduoyixieguanzhuheguanai，huoxuyagenjiuburongyiyoudisanzhedechuxian。meiyigechuguinanrenshijishangdouyanzangzheyikequefaanquangandexin。gengshiyouyujiazhongquefaai，yinci tamencaihuidaowaibianxunzhao。jiaruninengxuehuifangxiaxiegongzuozhong，xuehuifangxiaxiecaoxiaohaidexin，zhishizhenshidequguanzhuxianidezhangfu，neimayidinghuishitajuededaoyoudianerneijiuhezaodongbuan。

谋略二：刚开始好好穿着打扮下自身

 xuduo laopohunhoutongchangyouyujiatingsuoshierhushilezishen，xunsujiubianchengrenlaozhuhuang，nanshengshijishangquanshishifenyaomianzide，wuxingzhongdoushihuinazishendelaopogenbierendelaopobizhao。jiarunanshengganjueniyagenbingbushiyigeshishangchaoliuderen，nanrenbianxinneimaxuduo changsuodoubuyuanyidaizhuni。tayigerenchupengwaibiandenvxingduole，dangranyinyoujiuduole，xinyejiujianjiandifangkuanle。yinci ，nixuyaoxiangxiyinta，niyejiuxianxiyintademuguang。nvxingbixuzuoduobiannvmo，rangnanshengjuededaoniyouyizhongshenmi，neiyangcaihuimingbaizhenxishenbianren。

谋略三：想办法去了解第三者，并渐渐地增进感情

 xiangbanfalejiedisanzhe，youyudisanzhewangwangbianchengdisanzhe，bidingyehuishiyigejingshenshizhigududeren，huoshishiyigeyagenbuanshishidexiaonvhai。bubiyizhidaizhuyuanhenhebianseyanjingqukankanta。yaolejie，yaobushiyixienielian，disanzheshiyagenburongyiganxinqingyuandezuodisanzhede。nijiazhongzaoshoudisanzhehenbeiju，keshizuihoudisanzhecaishizuibeijuderen，dingduozuihoujinjinpeinanshengsuibianwanwaneryi。yinci nilejieta，erqieyaozhenxinshiyideguanaita，neiyangcaikeyijianjiandiderangtajiangnidangzuozhijilaodajie。jiarutaquandoubujinijuede，neimaniyejiujitagongxiangyigegushi，gaozhitanishiyigeyihunnanren，laogongchuguile，wenyiwentagaizenmezuo。jiarutashiyigeyouliangxinderen，yidinghuiyichengdairen，huifangongzisheng，huoxuhuiquanzidongchechunanshengderichangshenghuo。

谋略四：请第三者到家里拜访，让老公和第三者猝不及防

 zhaoyigeteshuderizi，lirushizishendeshengchen，yaoyuedisanzhelaijialibaifang，zaitongdianhuarangzhangfuhuijia，jita2geyigecubujifang。zaizheigequanguochengshiyaomingbaibazijijiaoweiteshudeliwudangzhangfudemian，zengjidisanzhe，rangzhangfujiandaonidehuoda，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomarangdisanzhejuededaonidetongqingdali，naizhigangkaishijuededaobaoqian。ninengzuoweiquandoubuqingchu，jiujizhangfushuoganjuehedisanzheyouqihedelai，juecehedisanzhezuohaojiemei。xiangxinnineiyangdezuofa，laogonghedisanzheyidinghaipazaijiuchanbuqingxialai。disanzhejirandangniyunizhangfudemianyuniganlehaojiemei，neimajiubidingjianglaiyouyidingdeshoulianxing。