如何正确处理婚姻里的第三者

 ruhezhengquechulihunyinlidedisanzhe?tashixuduoweirenfusuoguanzhudenanti，laidaozheiyibu，zuibukequdezuofajiushishuobierbujian，qijieguodaduoshushifuqiganqingpolie。zenyangnengquebaohunyinshenghuodelingwai，younengrangzhangfulejiedaowaiyubuzhengquehehaoruchu，nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？jiukanyixiaconghuinvrenshizenmekandaideba!

一、如何正确处理婚姻里的第三者

不必死缠在这件事情上

 nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？yaoxianjiangshierxianzhiyixia，yichengxiangdaididuitashuonixinlidetihuiheniantou，kantadefanying，yaoshuodongzishenjianxintadehua，bubiquzhuizong，yebubiquzhaozhijiezhengju。

 hunwailianzishenyouyigeguilvxing，qiansangeyueshirelian，nimeibanfaqieduanta，zheiyihuanjiegongji，hunyinshenghuohuimaotingdadefengxian。qinggandeshijiandanzhijieshinanyijiejuede。xiangnagehunanshengxifu，zhangfurenhuijiale，xinyemeibanfahuijia。

 dabannianzhihou，nanshengzaihunwailianzhonggengxiangyaozhaoliaodaohunyinshenghuodequanyi。jiaruzheiyinanshenghaiyoujia，yaotadehunyinshenghuo，yibanliugeyuedaoyinianjiudangrangaoyiduanluo。

不必去找哪个女人交涉

 dangdaidedisanzhedaduoshuzhenzhenyouci，tayaoshuonizhangfuduoaita，naizhihuipulutamenzhongjianyouduoqinmiwujian，nilailexiangdangyuziquqiru，youyuzuodisanzhehuihuaitarenjiazhongdetongchangshehuidaodeshuizhunbugao。niyebubijingongzheiyinvren，dihuitaxiangdangyudihuilaogongderengetezhi，huiyinqitadenaonu，jiangditadekuijiu。

不必四处传扬

 suirannanshenglanqing，danduizishendeshehuifazhanpinpaixingxiangjiaoweizaihu，tahuiyoujiqiangdezishenfangfanyishi。jiarubierenlejietayouhunwailianqing，weilefangzhitarenshuotadaodelunsang，tahuijijimingquetichuliyizhengshizishenyuanlaidehunyinshenghuoshitongchude，meiyouganqingde，tebieshizaishiguojiaganbu，yibianzhengshizishendeyiqingerbai，tongchangtiaoxuanliyi。

不必告知家人

 nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？yilaifangzhijinhoulaogonghuizhangbierennankan，nibujinyaoxiubufuqiganqing，yeyaoxiubutayujiarendeguanlian;erlaipaniangjiarensipolianduifu，xiangdongbeidiquxifuneiban，qingrenzoutayidun，neishihoushichuleqi，kezishenpeilefurenyouzhebing。

 hunyinshenghuomeile，jinqianmeiduona，haidepeizhiliaofei0jiaruxiangliyi，hebuxiangbeijingshixifuxuexipeixun，yongfalvfaguilaiweihuzishen。gengbubidaoqiyequnao，quzhaolingdaoganbu，zheidoushizaochengfuqiganqingpoliedeshixiaogerenxingwei，shandongshengxifujiushishuoshili。

不必盲目跟风仿效

 bubixianglianrendemoyangduizhangfutaiguodihao，neiyangtahuinanshou。nenggouhedisanzhelaigezhihuixingdeshichangjingzheng，bubiyoukuyounao，yaoxinxinzili，xintaiyouran，tajiulengzhu，buzhidaonihululimaidenaxieyao，dangranhuishoulianxingzishendegerenxingwei。

haikeyixuexishanghaishixifu，zengjiazishendefengcai，rangzhangfuzaicifajueniderongyan，ranhouhehaoruchu。