发现婚姻里有第三者不要做的事有哪些

 ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？jiaruzhangfuzhaoqingren，nizishenyexunzhaohunwailianyiduifuhechufazhixiqinshu。shijishangtashijiejuehunyinchuguinantidezuiyumeidejingxing。faxianhunyinliyoudisanzhebuyaozuodeshiyounaxie?nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？

一、发现婚姻里有第三者不要做的事有哪些

不必以眼还眼

 nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？jiaruzhangfuzhaosan，nizishenyexunzhaohunwailianyiduifuhechufazhixiqinshu。

 shijishangtashijiejuehunyinchuguinantidezuiyumeidejingxing。shierbiandefuza，jinjunrenzhouranzengjia，budannantibukeyichuli，ganqinghuigengweiebian，bingqiebenyingguishuyuzishendezhipeiquan，rujingjifazhancengmiande，shehuidaodecengmiande，yehuichedixiaotui。zishenyanzhongsunshi，haiyixiaodafang，wanbukeyong。

尽量不要有成人之美

 zhangfuhunhouchugui，xuduozhuangkuangxiashinenggouhuiguotoude，buzhiyujiazhongliekai。dangnijijisheqihunyinshenghuo，neimajiazhongliekainanyibimian，jinhouzuigandaoyihannizishenyunidexiaohai。

 keliandexiaohaishijishangshiliyijiaodadeshouhairen。nidecaolvhuihailexiaohaiyibeizi。yaoyoujuebufangqihunyinshenghuo，neiyangbudanrangzishenyougengdadeshineikongjianquqinfenwanliu，bingqienenggourangbeipanzhehedisanzhechuxianguanlianweiji，shidisanzhequxiangsilexin。

谨记要学会欣赏欲擒故纵

 nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？bawolezhijiezhengjueryiweijinbi，benxianglejiebuzhengquedezhangfuyehuixinbuzaiyan，feichangrongyiyibuzuo，erbuxiu，yuniwanquanpolie。zheishi，jiarubaichengbaorongdezishi，zejiaonengshitayouneijiugan，shenjuebaoqianni，henbuxiaxinzaisunhaini。neiyanghaowuyiwenhuitishengshiqizhongguideningjuli。

suihou，liangrenkeyiqizhaogeyouxiaodefangfabazishenzaoshoudesunhaihebiequfaxiechuqu。

最聪明的作法是交流思想

 zhuiyidangshi，naduifufuchangyouyiduanlingrenchenzuihechongjingdeshiri，jinjinshijiandezhangyuduanbale。fanshengdangjin，pouxifenqiyumaodundegenyou，geaoziwopouxi，chongjingweilai，taolunfufuzaiciqiehedefangshi，neiyangzuodemudi，qujueyuyongfanbeiwennuandexinquhuanchenglingyifangdelikaizhiqing。

 yibanlaishuo，yichengdairen，renxinhuanrenxin，jingchengsuozhi，jinshiweikai。suiranhunyinchuguishiqingganzhire，dantadexinlizishizhizhongweifuzuiganhefuzuigansuorao，yaoshitaijiedalao，tamenshihuixialoutide。

不必姑息放任

 jiaruzaoyijinlejiaodaqinfenlaiwanhuilaogong，fangzhijiazhongfensuidanlanqingdezhangfujiushishuozhicuobugai，shibaorongweiruanruowuneng，zelaopoyaorenqing，danglizeli，bubiyiweiguxifangren。

 laidaozheiyibu，yaoxianbaozhengzaizhengzhishang，xintaizhuangtaishangbuyifuyulaogongdetiqianzhunbei，jinliangjianshaoyinliyiduizishendehuaxuewuzhihejingshenshizhiyishizhuxingdaozhidesunhai。