该如何应对第三者防第三者?

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?zenmefangdisanzhe?zaixianrujinnanduonvshaodeshidaitezhengxia，meiyiweinvshideshenpangyebuqianquechusedenanxingzhuiqiuwanmei。yingduizhuduodejingzhengduishou，nanrentongchanghuijinqisuoyoulaidedaonvxingdechunxin。wojuede，bujinshinanxingzhuiqiuwanmeinvxing，jianxindangzishenzaoyuyimingkushuai、boxueduocai、pojuqizhidenanshi，yehuihendazirandebaqilierudao“lieshi”defanchou。neimagaizenyangqiadangduifudisanzheni?

顺水推舟，合乎他的品位

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 zheijiurutong，zhendui1gexiaicaomeireneryan，tazongshizhongshicaomeidezhiliang，erburongyizaiyiwomendepinxiangheweier。buguanzenyang，bixuyoujianshizenmefangdisanzhe?

该如何应对第三者-对付第三者的方式

 huoxuyouderenhuijuede，yaoshiyigenvhaiyouzhangxiang，shushichuanzhedapeijiunenggoufuhuoquanbunanrenxin，wojuedebingbushineiyangde。yaohaijide，nanrenshikeguandedaicheng。tamendelixing，zhicunyouyuduizheiyinvxingdeshenkeyinxiang，yinciwaizaidetixianzhiyoushibayanguangxiyinzhuhuilai，yaoxiangshenhuadefazhanqushi，jiubixuyoubenzhidejianshi。

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在遭受竞争对手的激怒时，要淡定从容自若

 jiranshi“lieshi”，neimachongzhetadezhunxindaziranbujin1ge。yingduixinxineirongshejimianshenguangdejingzhengduishou，mianbulexinxihuijindaodaolingyifangdeerli。zheiyineishihou，tingdashuipingshangkeyiyingduide，shilingyifangjiyuzishendemouxiejinu、jingshinaizhishiweixie。jiejuezheizhongjiaoweihoujidezhonglei，zishenbixuweichidejiushishuodandingcongrongdexintaizhuangtai，qiewufangcundaluan。

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 neiyanggenjubizhaojiuhenxianzhule，daodishisheizhenzhixingyouya，daodishisheizaiyanzang，jiudoujiandanmingle，bubizhengfengxiangdui，yaoyuqinguzong。nandeweihezhaoqingren? wojuedexuduonanshitongchangshiyinweiduiyishizhuxingdekuzao，huoshiyizhenzideyuwang。

 zheiyinvxing，huranjitamenermuyixindejuede。liangrenchupengyihou，nvxingkanqilaiqihuibunengziba，keshishishangduitaeryan，huoxushizaipingdandeshenghuozhizhongdezheizhongdiaoliao。yincimishang1geyoubiedeqingganderen，bingfeikeguandetiaoxuan，bibushangyongshanyufajuedeshuangyan，jiangdaliangdefangshiyongyishenpangdegaopinzhinanxing，huoxuqueshihuiganshouguishuyuzishendeneizheifenyonghuan。