怎么谈判才能挽回婚姻呢

　　zenmetanpancainengwanhuihunyinnidanghunyinzoudaojintoushi，nijiuhuijuedezhenggeshijiejuewangle。

　　cihou，jiarunigandaowuli，xuyaofujianneigeshijie，zheibingbuqiguai。zheiyejiuyiweizheshinideqianfuhuijia。

　　不过怎样做?

　　benwenjianggaozhinirangtazaiduxiangyaonidezuiyouxiaotujing。

　　zenyangshinideqianfuxuyaopeizainishenbian

　　1)zhongxinfaxiannishisheiya

　　zheiyibuhenzhongyao，erwangwangbeihulvele。

　　dangniyaowanliunideqianfushi，feichangrongyibazhongxinfangzaitadeshenshang。zheishiyizhongchangjiandeqianyidajiazhuanzhulidefangshi。

　　danqudechenggongwanliuqianrenlaogongdeguanjiansuozaishishishangzaiyuni。

　　zhenxiangshi，zijidexintaihezijideganjuejiangrangnideqianfucongbutongjiaoduduidainiyunimenzhijiandeguanxi。

　　nibixurangzishenzaicigoujianqizixinxin，erfeizhendexuyaonidelaogonglaiguoshangxingfudeshenghuo。

　　womingbaizheikansihencanren，youqishiruguoshuonizhixiangyaotahuijia，bingqienihuijuedemeitaniyenenggouxingfukuaile。

　　danzheishirenxingdeyigeshiji，neixiekanqilaijuewangheshangnaoderen——dajiayehuigengjiaxuyaobikai。danneixieshifangchuneixindeningjingheyouzixinderen，dajianengbeixiyinzhudegengjin。

　　suoyinixuyaobianchenghoumianyizhong。

　　ruguonizaihunyinshenghuozhongshi，nikenenghuitaixiguanbiancheng“dajia”deyibufen，yizhiyufeichangrongyisangshi“wo”deganjuele。

　　dannishiyigegeren。muqianshizhongxinrenshizijideshike，yaonongqingchunizhendexiangyaonaxie。

　　nixihuanhebuxihuannaxie?zainimenzhijiandeganqingqineiyoushenmebutong?nixiangyaocongshenghuozhong、congyiduanganqingzhong，congyigeairenzhongshouhuoshenme?

　　huayidianshijianlaihuidazheixiewenti。

　　2) chongfenwajuenimendeganqingnanti

　　woxiangxinniyijingxianglehaoduoci，zainimendehunyinzhongchuleshenmewenti，ruhechudewenti。

　　shijishang，zheiyinggaishinisuoxiangdesuoyou。

　　danzhongyaodeshiyaohuiyouzheiyangdesikaoshizhang，laiquerenzhijieyuanyin。yibanlaishuo，zaochengfufufenshounantishijishangzhishizhenzhenzhengzhengnantideyigebingzheng，danzhenzhengwentizaiyushenduheguangdu。

　　biru，zhengchaohemaodunyoukenengshiweishuochukoudexuqiuzaiguanxiliwufadedaobiaodachulaidejielun。huoshi，hunyinliqianquefuqishenghuohenyoukenengguinaweiqianquehunyinguanxi，huomeiyouweiduifangkongchuchongzudeshijian。

　　jiluxialaihunyinlizuijinzhangdequyushiyoubangzhude。yanjiufaxian，jiandaobaidiheizisuoxiedewupinnengbangzhuwomenyibutongdefangshiguanliqingxuhekanfa。

　　xiangyixiangzijidewentidezhenshigenbenyuanyin，nigairuhejiejuezheigewenti，jiqi，jiarunideqianfuhuijiale，shiershibushihuiyoubutong。

　　3)维持文明礼貌

　　dangrenheyiduanguanxiliekaishi，xintaidoushihuishangzhang，gengbietixianglihunneiyangfengxianjiaogaoguanxiba。

　　dandangreqinggaozhangshi，xingziyehuibianda。

　　zaizheiyiguochengzhong，huiyouhenduodeshierkaoyanyigeren。womenbuxuyaochengweiyigeshengxian，danjinkenengdebaochilixinghezhenjingyehuirangnichuzaichuliwentidezuijiaweizhi。

　　weilenengbaochilixing，jinkenengjiangdinideyalishuizhun，changshiyixiexiaochujiaolvjiqiao，rumingxiangxunlian、huxixunlianheyibandeziwozhaogu。

　　zheihuibangzhuniguanlifangfanideyali，bingzaizheigeguochengzhongjinkenengdeduoyidiannaixin。

　　zaihenidebanlvjiaoliushi，fangzhizhengzhi、wuruhecaimiyu。changshizhenzhenzhengzhenglingtinglingyifang，bingqiezaidatishangtishengnidegoutongxiediaonengli。

　　4) jiyuguanlianshijianyukongjian

　　zheiyibushiweilejiluoxiaweimu。

　　tamenshuo，xixinshiyizhongmeide，erxiufuhunyinshenghuozexuyaodaliangxixin。

　　wozenmeyangcainengrangqianrenlaogongxiangwo?litayuandian。

　　jishinidebennengfanyingqushinijiejinta，yidingyaomingbaizheibuyidingshizuijiadeduice。

　　fenshouyoushangzhenshicunzai。yanjiufaxian，zaiwomensangshiqinmiderenshi，dajiayaojinglishenjingxitong、shentixinlishangdezhuanbian，zheizhongbianhuashenshenyingxiangzhewomen。

　　ruguoniyizhizaineier，taxianranburongyiyitongyangdefangshikanjiannidequezhen

　　zenmetanpancainengwanhuihunyinnijiarutaxiangyaoxiangzheni，tahuixiangde，buyongzuoshenmehuoshuoxieshenme。danshinizhendexuyaoweitashijianyukongjianrangzheiyiqiechuxian。

　　weidiaojiezhangkaihuaibaoyibanjiugoule。

　　wobushishuoniwuxufangzhihenideqianfuchuxianrenhechupeng。dantebieshizaixuyaozhuyideshi，zaiyikaishi，yidingyaorangtazaiyidingchengdushangzhaoni，qianwanbieweizhetapao。

　　5)shitaanzijidefangshilai

　　womingbaizheiyouhendabutong，dannibixujinijihuideqianfuyizishenzijidefangshiqinshenjinglitadeyisheng。

　　gengnandeshi，zuihaobuyaoduitatiaoxuanzenyangchulifenshoudefangshikaizhanguoduojiangjie。

　　biru，woguoqucengyouguoyicifenkai，qiannanyouhaoxiangyidiandoubuzaiyi。tayixiazibiandehengaoleng，meiyourenhefanying，jiuxiangtamashangguandiaoleduiwodequanbuaiqing。

　　haoduogeyuehou，talaizhaowole，hanleiqiqiuyuwofuhexing。fenshouzhihoutayizhizaifouding，bingchangshijiangta(yuwo)bierbujian，danshizuizhong，zhongyumingbaileyiqie。