情感往往会生疏的缘故 爱情心理学

 doushuohunyinguanxishishijieshangzuinandexiuxi。guanyuganqingdeweichi，yeshiyibufenrenyibeiziyexuebudongdeyijianshiqing。zaihuiyingzheigewentiyiqian，zuixianwolaishuoyixia——hunyinguanxizenmehuishengshu？woshenpangyouyigehaoguimi，hetamubiaotanlesinian，yikaishideqingkuangxiatayitiandaowanyuwoxianbaitahetamenjialaosongzhongjiandeqinggan，liangrenjuedehenbunengyitiannengyou25xiaoshikeyidaizailingyifangshenpang；keshibansuizheshijiandebianhua，tamendeqingganxianzhunengkanchuqumanmandanle，tayeburongyigesanchawuyuwotidaolaosongle，wohaoguimizhuyaobiaoxianchuleduizheiyiduanguanlianshifenchiyi，bingqiebumanyi，ganjueliangrendeganqingbiandanle。aiqingxinlixue，xinlianshiyoushenme？

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爱情心理学，要做到那样的环节通常很有可能必须两三年，自然，有的人有着更强的思考精神实质，可以搞好情感进度的管理方法，那很有可能会提早做到。

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那麼难题发生在哪儿呢？

 tanlianaiqingkuangbadetaigaole，rujinnanhaiziwufabaochi，jiusuanshineiyangdeqingkuang，yebukeyirangnvyoulingrenmanyi，juededaohenlei。

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xinlianshi，zhangzhezishen“ruo”ersheqiweilingyifangkaolv，shijishangshihanzhe“ruo”dehuangzi，mingmuzhangdandezisizili。