爱情心理学 两个人中间到底会产生什么转变

 zailianaixinlixuezhizhong，yiduanqingganyibanbeifenchengwugejieduan，fenbieshi：ruoyinruoxianqi、relian、pingdanqi、moheshijian、xianghuyicunqi，jinyouzuodaolexianghuyicunqi，zheiyifenqinggancaizhujianjianjiandidequyupingwen，shenzhizhangqi。aiqingxinlixue，xinlianshiyoushenme？

 “wei，libaitianwomenyiqichulaiwanbalangrensha，tingwenchengnanxinkaiyeleyijiashiguoyuyouqimeiwei”！xingquchongchongdetongdianhuananyou，benxiangyiqiduguoyigekaixindelibaitian，kelingyifang，quelijiyixiaolezhidejujuele。

 “xiayiciba，libaitianyutongxueyuehaolaqudalanqiu，jinqiyedequehenmang”。tingjianzheijuhua，nvyouyeshishifenbiequ，guadiaodianhualijixianghaoguimisuku：

 “xiangyixiangganglejieneihui，nayigelibaitianbushitajiji，henzaodedengzaizhusulouxiabianyuewoquwan。danshirujin，jishiwojijiyueta，tayebuchulai，tashifoubuaiwole”？

 henduorendouyudaoguozheileiqingkuang，dangliangrenjiaowangyiduanshijianzhihou，yifangzhujianjuedelingyifangbianlengmole，naizhizhujiancaiyilingyifangbushandaizijile。shijishang，tashiqingganfazhanqushidaoyidingjibenhoudeyiqiezhengchangzhuyaobiaoxian，tabushibuailele，jinjindajiadeqinggandao“pingdanqi“le。

两个人中间到底会产生什么转变？

1、congwuhuabutandaomeiyouhuashuo

 aiqingxinlixue，dangqinggandaopingdanqi，zuixianzhudeyidian，bianshibicidegoutongjiaoliujianjiandijianshaole。congzuikaishidewuhuabutan，daozhihoudemeiyouhuashuo，yikaishinenghuaizheshoujishangliaoyitian，shizhongburongyiquefahuatitaolun，danshizhihou，jishizuozheyiqi，yefangfobuqingchugaishuoxieshenmele，tashipingdanqideguanjianzhuyaobiaoxianzhiyi。

2、congkuanrongnichongdaoxiaodujichang

 zhiqianzijizuobuduishi，lingyifangzongkeyinichongyixiao，youqihuoda，danshirujin，zishendemaimengbianchenglezuonao，biequbianchenglemanbujiangli。dangqinggandaopingdanqi，niyejiuhuifajue，yanxiadezheigerenyuelaiyuexiaojiaziqile，yizhixiaodujichang，buhuizaikuanronghenichongle。

3、congxiaoluluanzhuangdaomeishenmejuede

 qinggandepingdanqiherelian，xianeryijianshidabuyiyangde。gangzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，jinjinjinjinkanjianlingyifang，doushihuiyoupengranxindongxiaoluluanzhuangdejuede，danshirujin，jiusuanshixianghuzhijianxiangyong，fangfoyezhaobuzhezhiqianneileixingfendejuede。zheibushibuaini，jinjinqinggandepingdanqidao。

4、congzhongshixinyi，daorichangshenghuowujingtaohailang

 zaiyige，dangbicideqinggandaopingdanqi，liangrenderichangshenghuofangfoyebiandeyulaiyufaweile。zhiqiandeyixiexinyi，gezhonggeyangjieriheliunianridexiaojingxi，meiridezaoanwanan，fangfozongshihuibeibujingyidehushi，richangshenghuo，yezhujianyuelaiyuemeishenmequweixinghejingtaohailang。

 yidanlianrenbicizhonglezhishangsitiaozhizhongdelianggen，neimawuxucaiyi，tashidaoqinggandepingdanqile。erzaochengqingganpingdanqideyuanguyeshiyouxuduo，keshizuiguanjiande，huoshizheisidian：

 ①、lingyifangguangyundetunqu②、fenqiquexiandepulu③、chongzulejie，shenmigandequeshao④、waibufabingyuanyin，pengdaolegengqiangde

 xinlianshi，yeqiahaoshiyinweizhishangsidianyuangu，rangliangrendeqingganmanmandimaixiangpingpingdandan，naizhimanmandezhujianbaofafenqi。yidanlianrenbicijiejuebutaihao，feichangrongyizaochengzheiyifenqinggancongciyaowang。keshi，jiarulianrenbicikeyishunlididuguozheiyiduan“pingdanqi”，yeyidinghuirangzheiyiduanqinggangengweijiangu，rangbicideqinggan，gengweilaogu。