为何必须爱情 爱情心理学

 aiqing，shiyigemiti。tajiujingshishenme？dajiazenmecainengyouzhenanyiwanghuaideaiqing？meiyigejingliguoaiqingderendoushihuiduinishuotamenzijidehuida。aiqingshigeguaiyidewupin。dangpengdaoxinggetouyuandeyixingpengyoushi，huijuedebicizhijianxinlingxiangtong，shunlichengzhangdijiuxiangdaizaiyiqi，shebudefenkai。naizhiyouxierenzaidiyicijianmianhou，jiupingganjuepanduanlingyifangbianshi“wocishengyaozhaoderen”。nixuyaoxiangyouzheguishuyuzishendeaiqing，weilegenghaodirangzishendeaiqingshibangongbei，weishenmebutingyitingaiqingdashendetiyini？aiqingxinlixue，xinlianshiyoushenme？

那麼，为何必须爱情呢？

 congjinhuaxinlixuedeshijiaokanlai，renmenlianaideshizhiyuangushiweilegenghaodi“weichizhongqundechixu”。jiranrenmenyeshiweishengwu，ziranjiuhuiyoufanyanhoudai、chixujiyinyichuandebennengfanying。

 weilegenghaodiliuyoushenxinjiankang、chusedezisunhoudai，nanxinghuixiaibiaomianyoufengcaiqienianqingdenvxing。yinweinanxingmeiyouhuaiyun、yunfufenmianzhitong，yinciyuzisunhoudaide“zhi”duibi，nanxinggengquxiangyuzhuiqiuwanmeizisunhoudaide“liang”。

 ernvxingtongchangyaozaoyuhuaiyun、yunfufenmian，yinerbutaikenengquzhuiqiuwanmei“liang”。“shiyuehuaiyun”shigeyouzhangdequanguocheng，jinvxingdaozhidexinshenyaliyefeichangda。yiner，nvxinggengzhongshizisunhoudaide“zhi”。

congzheiyishijiaokanlai，dajiafeichangrongyilejieweihexuduonvxingdouxiaijingjifazhanfuyu、richangshenghuopingwenyounianlaodenanxingle。

aiqingxinlixue，nanrenhenvrencunyouzhenzhenzhengzhengdeyouqingma？

 yibanduinvxingeryan，nanrenhenvrennenggoucunyouzhenzhenzhengzhengdeyouqing；erduinanxingeryan，nanxingfeichangrongyibahenvxingzhongjiandeyouqingzhuanhuachenglianqing。

从友情变换到爱情

 xinlixuezhuanjiajuede，lianaizhongyouyizhong“youhaolianai”。shuobaile“youhaolianai”，jiushizhiyixingpengyouzhongjianzaiyouqingdejibenshangfazhanqushierchengdelianqing。

 zuikaishi，yixingzhongjianjinyouyouqing，naizhibingmeiyouyouqizaihulingyifangdexingbie。danbansuizhexiangchudezhubutuijin，bicizhijianzhangwodeshuipingmanmanjiazhong，xianghuzhijianzaochenglehaogandu，jianjiandijiubianchenglezhongaizhiqing。

 xueshengshidai，tongxuetanlianaidezhuangkuangshifenguangfan，zuihouzouruhunyinshenghuoshengdiande“tongxuemenqinglv”yebibijieshi。renyouyizhongjibenshangyaoqiuchengwei“qinheliyaoqiu”，jizhuiqiuwanmeiyouhaojiqinmiwujianderenjijiaowangdeyaoqiu，yejiushixianghebierenzaiyiqideyaoqiu。

 rendaoyurenxiangchushi，jingchangjuedezaodongbuan；dangyoupenyoushouhoushi，jiushuxinduole。yiner，rendaoqianyishizhonghuizhaoxunhuoban、penyou。jiejiaodaoyixingshi，yikaishihuijuanqimei，genjugoutongjiaoliufajuebicizhijiandexiangtongzhichuhou，huihuxiangzaochenghaogandu。

 manmandi，bianxiangjinyibulajinbicizhijiandejianju，suihouzhujianyikaolingyifang，bingxiangbeilingyifangyikao，naizhixishengzijixiezhulingyifang。zuihoujiuzaochenglexiangduxianglingyifangdeqinggan，zheijiushiyouhaolianai。

 xinlianshi，jinguanyouhaolianaiguishuyuaiqingdeyizhong，keshinanhaihenvhaidui“youhaolianai”deguandiancunyoufeichangdadechabie。nvxingbayouqinghelianqingdejiexianquhuadehenqingxi。duinanxingeryan，yunvxingzhangqideqinjin，doushiyoubayouqingzhuanhuachenglianqingdequxiang，youyunanxingzhenduilianqing、haogandu、youqing、aiqingdengqingganquhuadebingbingbushineimaqingxi。