全部的谈恋爱最重要 爱情心理学

 niyexuhaibuzhidao，mingyundetanlianaishijishangshibuhuiyoude。youyu，tanlianaishinenggoucaozongde！dajiahenyoukenengjuedezhenzhengdeaiqinghuranlailinde，shubuzhishishishangquebingbushide。yingyongqiadangdefangshi，shikeyishinixihuanderenxihuanxihuannide。xiamiande3dafangfahenzhongyao，qingrenzhenyuedu，qidainengbangshangdahuoer。aiqingxinlixue，xinlianshiyoushenme？

1.全部的谈恋爱最重要的是「爱情地图」

lianaixinlixuedoujiangxienaxie？

 shijishang，dajiameiyigerendoushizaiqianyishideqingkuangxiaduigezhonggeyangderenpingfen，yejiushishuo，bianshiduilingyifangyouyigekaoliangbiaozhun。

·喜欢度假旅游

 jiadingjiajiazhangpengdaoleyigeshifenchusedenvsheng，keshizheiyinvshengshiranlefenhongsedexiufa，neimajiajiazhangjiubudakenenghuixihuanshangta。

 zheishiweishenme？huidaquanzaiaiqingdituli。yijuzheizhongbiaozhun，hehudeshuipingyuegao，neimadajiajiuyuefeichangrongyixihuanshanglingyifang。

zheizhongbiaozhunshihuibansuizheshijiandezhuanbianerzhuanbiande。youqishizhiqianxiangchuguoderen，huiduizheizhongbiaozhunzaochengfeichangdadeweihai。

2.让另一方喜欢上自身的6步

xiamian，weidahuoerxiangjinmiaoshuranglingyifangxihuanshangzishendefangfa。

①shiqiandiaoyanlingyifangdeaiqingditu

 ganggangdepianshuxiangxijieshaodehenqingxile，dajiameiyigerenneixindoushiyouaiqingditu。jiarubufuzheizhongbiaozhun，neimashinanyibeilingyifangxihuanshangde。

liru，yaoxihuangou，yaoxihuanshejiaomeiti，zheixie。

yincihenzhongyaodeyidianshi，shiqiangaohaodiaoyan。diaoyanqingxilingyifangdegerenaihao，chengzhanglicheng，sirenxinxizheixie。

知彼知己百战不殆。

②zhanshichulingyifangdequexian，zishenbaituoledeyimian

 dajiazaixunzhaolingyibandeqingkuangxia，daliangderenhuiquxiangyuzhaoxunhezishenleisideren。huanjuhuashuodajiazaizhaoxundeshihezishenyouyiyangyoushideren。

erlingyifangmian，zishenyaoxiangbaituodequexian，lingyifangbaituole，dajiayehuiyaoxiangzhaoxunneiyangzhongleidelingyiban。

huanjuhuashuo，dajiayehuixunzhaoxiangyaochengweideneiren。

 jugeshili，youneiyangyigeconghuikeshibuzenmehuishejiaomeitideren，tahuixiangzhaodelingyibanjiufeichangdahenyoukenenghuishiconghui，huishejiaomeitideren。

 huanjuhuashuo，jiarunixihuandelingyibanzhenduizishendequefazixinzheiyidianhenkunao，neimaniyejiuzaitayanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandezixinxinzheiyidianhenzhongyao。

youyuzheiyiweizhelezaitadezaiqianyishizhongli，nijileta「niyaoxiangdewupinshiwo！」deshujuxinhao。

③guzhihejianqiangbuquyehenzhongyao

duilingyifangqieerbushedizhuiqiuwanmei，shibushiheli，youshirangrencaiyi。

 shishishang，zheileifangshizaixihuanyikaobierendemubiaodezhuangkuangxia，shifeichanghelide。tamenyaoxiangjiejuexiankuangdeniantouhenmingxian，yaoxiangxindewupin。jiarunixihuanderenshizheileizhongleidehua，jiuguzhidizhuiqiuwanmeitaba，tongguolvhuishangsheng。

④qingyitongdeqinqipengyoubangzhu

 jiaruniyunixihuanderenyouyigeyitongdeqinqipengyou，niyinggaihetachuhaoguanlian。rendezaiqianyishizhongshifeichangrongyixiangxinnixinlaiderensuoqianglietuijianderen。

yinciqingdajiayitongdepenyouqianglietuijiannia，shitaduojiannijuedehaotingdehua。

⑤buduanzhuangzuobujingyiyushang

buduanjilingyifangliuyouyinxiangdehua，xihuanxihuannidegailvbianhuitisheng。

genjuranglingyifangshuciyishidaoni，bianhuibeikezaizaiqianyishizhongzhong。danbushishuoyaomeishifenzhongjiujilingyifangtongdianhua。

 liru，anshifashengzailingyifangkanhuodedediqu，rangzishenfashengzaitadeshixianzhong。zhuangzuoshiouran，zhishineiyang，lingyifangdezaiqianyishizhongjiuzhujianliuyidaonile。

⑥bajijizhudongdewupinhezishenlianluoqilai

aiqingxinlixue，dangtingjiannidemingzi.shi，zhoubianderenhuiruhexiang？

neixinqiangdaderenderen？xingfukuailezixinxinderen？huoshixiaochenderen？

 jiarutarenduinideyinxiangquanshihaode，neimanijiaojitadeyinxiangyehuigenghao。meigerendoushiyouquexian。danguanjiandejiushinixihuandeneirenzenyangkandaini。jiusuanshixianzhizhuyaobiaoxianchugerenyoudian，haiyaojitamenliuyouhaoyinxiang。

3.确实有一见钟情吗？或是封建迷信？

一见钟情的确存有。

 jiaruyouxierencongyikaishijiuyunizaiqianyishizhongzhongdeaiqingdituyizhi，neimaniyejiuhenyoukenenghuiyijianzhongqing。danyouderenhenyoukenenghuiganjueyoudianerguaiyi。meigenlingyifangshuoguohua，nizenmezhidaohezishendeaiqingdituduideshanghao？

 huidafeichangjiandan。zailingyifangdeaiqingdituzhong，youzhanqifangfa、xingzoufangfa、rongmao、xiguanxing，yuciyizhi。ciwai，jiarulingrenxiangdaozhiqianxihuanderen，yefeichangrongyiyijianzhongqing。dajiadabufenhuixihuanshangheyiwangtanlianaiguoderenzhongleitongyangderen。

keshi，zheizhongqinggandezhuanbianquanshiqianyishidikaizhande。yincihenduorenganjueyijianzhongqingrutongyunshiyiyang。

 xinlianshi，shifouganjueyongshehuixinlixuelaibiaoshuganqingjiufangfoyidiandoubulangmanleni，yexuhuichuxianzheizhongganjue。keshiwomenkeyirangshehuixinlixueweidajiachangyong，rangtanlianaihuishaoyixiezuai，duoyixiekanchuanlingyifangde“lejie”，bujiushibeigongbanlemeiyou。