妻子背着丈夫的外遇之旅，该怎么做

 zenmecainengfaxianlaopoyouwaiyu？qizibeizhezhangfudewaiyuzhilv，gaizenmezuo？dangyiduanguanlianchuxiannantideqingkuangxia，youderenhuijiqiezhaoxunjiejuefangan，youyixiezeshixiaochenkandai，yifangmianhuoxushiyouyuzijuedenantibingbubijiaoyanzhong，zhidaolingyifangbumanyidexintaileijizuigaochushinicaiyishidaonantideyanzhonghouguo，lingyifangmianzeyoukenengshiduihunyinshenghuodeyanfanjibuzaiyi。beijingdiaochawaiyuruhequzheng？

zenmecainengfaxianlaopoyouwaiyu？haidianjizheyinggaizenmeban，zuishaohainengfanyingniduihunyinshenghuo、jiazhongdeyiwu。

 beijingdiaochawaiyuruhequzheng？congyuantoushangeryan，qingganguanlianzhongchuxiandeyiqienanti，quanshinanshengdaozhide，youyutameiyoujinhaolingzheyigenvrendeyiwu，caizaochengtazoupianzouwai，meifazuodaoyitongxinyoulingxi。yinci ，nanrenaiyingjiangyiwudouguiyinyuxifuyirendeshenshang，erhulvelehunyinshenghuobenyingyiliangrenyitongyunying，yidanchuxiannantishiliangrendeyiwu。

一、女人为什么要外遇

 sixiangguannian：zheigenanrenxinzhibuchengshu，jibushangtasuobixude。youyixiefufudeguanlianhenqite，youyuyibanrendehunyinshenghuo，shinanxingzhaoliaonvxing，nvxingnenggouyikaozheigenanren。keshiyouderenqueshixiangfande，nanshengxianggenanhaieryiyang，ernvshuoshitadelaopo，shijishanggengxiangtademuqin。zhangciyiwangnvxinghuizhujianfaxian，zheigenanrenjibushangzishensuobixude，youyutayagenbukeyijindaoyigezhangfudezeren。

 richangshenghuo：zheigenanrenbuzuqianghan，bukeyilingzhetaxiangshourensheng。zaixianshishenghuozhong，tongchangxuduonanrendoushibeizishendexifuguandesisidi，jiazhongdedashixiaoshizishennabuzhunxiangfa，douwubiyaozishendenvxinglaijuece。lingwai，henyoukenengzhengdeqiandoumeiyounvxingduo，yinci zaijialijianghuadangranzixinyebugou。zheileinanshengtongchanghuibeizishendenvxingqiaobuqi，youyuzainvxingdeyanzhongtamenquanshibuqizuoyongde，yinci jiarutashenpangchuxianlechusedenanshidehua，nvxingfeichangrongyijiubeidaiqule。

 gongzuofangmian：zheigenanrenjinquxinbugou，meiyouyifenhaodegongzuo。nanyifangzhide，youyixienvxingduiqiancaishijiaoweizhuzhongde，youyuzaitamenyanzhong“tusimianbao”bi“ganqing”gengguanjian。xuduoqulezheileiwuzhinvdenansheng，quanshimeiyouchongzudejinquxin，tamenmeinengchuangdangchuyifenguishuyuzishendegongzuo，youyixienaizhihenyoukenenglianjichuderichangshenghuoyeshigewenti。zhangciyiwang，neiyangderichangshenghuoziranbukeyikunzhuzishendenvxing，zhixuwaibianyouyigenanshengduitakaizhanqiancaidezijintouru，tabianhuizijintourutarendehuaili。

二、妻子出轨我该怎么做

 qizichuguigaizenmeban，chulifangfazhibuguoyejiujinyou2ge：yishitiaoxuankuanrong、kuanshu，weilegenghaodiyiwu，weilegenghaodijiazhong，weilebaobaoyaotiaoxuankuanrong，yonglixingqujibaimangmugenfeng，yaoguanaizishendehunyinshenghuo，baoweizishendeganqing，bujinyaobaorong，naizhiyeyaokuanshu，jinguanzheileifangfa，henduorenwufabaozheng;ciwaiyigeshitiaoxuansheqi，jiarujinglilezhangqidehunyinshenghuo，dequemeifarichangshenghuo，jiarurenheyifangzaoyibuxihuan，neimejiutiaoxuansheqi，xiuenaisidekuai，bukeyiyikeshushangdiaosi，baliyikanzuoshisuiyideshifang，meihaoshenghuodezhujian。xuduoqingkuangxia，dajiapengdaodezhuangkuangkenengshidaolidoudong，yetiaoxuanleyaozaicihunyinshenghuo，danbianshimaidanshixinlineizheiyiguan。zheileizhuangkuangxiayinggaizenmebanni?

 kuanrongtarenyoushihoubiyaoqiutarendekuanronggengnan，youqishiwaiyu。yaokuanronglingyifang，jiuwubiguozheiyikan，jinyibubaozhengxuehuifangxia。zheibingbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshi，danninengshizhe：zuixianquedingfufubicigaijinfuqiguanxidechengxinqudongli。youyufujianxinfangxiangbixulijingtongchuhetourujidadeqinfen，meiyouxiangyaohexingdongshibutaikenengwanchengchuxinde;keguanxingpouxiqizichuguideyuanguhezishenyingdangdanfudeyiwu。youyuhunyinshenghuochuxiannanti，bicidanfudeyiwujinyouchicunzhifen，zaiqizhongbutaikenengyouzhenshiwuguderen。chongfenkaolvzishenyeshiyouguoshi，bichunsuidiqukuanronglingyifangyexugengfeichangrongyixie;keguanxingdidianpingzhixiqinshudegerenxingwei。bukeyiyouyuyishiguocuoerfourentadeyoushiheguoququanbudetouru，zhidaocaiyitadeweiren;ruheshicuobaibianchengbicifazhandetupokou。

三、提高诱惑力

 tishengshenghuopinzhi。jiarunishenghuopinzhidi，duirichangshenghuomeiyouzhuiqiuwanmei，shenghuoshangwusuozuowei，taoyantanxian，chedimeiyoureqing，neiyangdeshenghuoshimeiyoukuailede，zhangqixingneiyangzongshijinideyouhuolijijuxiajiang，maikeleigeshuo：shenghuopinzhishizhangqixingxiyinzhuzuizhongyaodeyigeyinsu，youyushenghuopinzhiyueyuegaoyuejingcaifencheng，jiuyuenengzhangqixingdexiyinzhudaoshenbianderengenniyiqishenghuo。nixuyaotishengshenghuopinzhi，duobaomingcanjiahuwaihuodongyouxi、duolvyouhejiaopengyou，jiniderichangshenghuofengfuduocaiqilai，caikeyizhangqixiyinzhuta。

 kuozhangweixinpengyouquan。zuixian，bianchengyigetarenxiaiaijinderen，shenbiandepengyouderenyibanshihuodadadude，shimingbaiqushangxihezanyangbierende;cizhi，fengfuduocaizishendegerenaihao，dangdajiayouyitongdeyuyan，gengyouyiyujieshizhiquxiangtoudepenyou;ruguonideweixinpengyouquankuozhangle，niderichangshenghuobianhuiyulaiyuduozhongduoyang，nidejianshiyehuigengkuankuo，fengcaiyehuihuodetigao，zheifenairenbianhuigengaizheni。

 qinfenfazhanqushigongzuo。nanshengdeshiyongjiazhichukaifanyingzaishenghuozhiliangyiwai，haifanyingzaishibushiyouzerenxin，jiaruyigenanrenhunhundundundiguorizi，duigongzuozhongfuyanleshikandai，duigongzuomeiyoujinquxin，neimatashijibushangnvxingbixudeguishugande，nvxinghuiyouyuduirichangshenghuosangshizixinxinerliqunansheng，nanrenxuyaoqinfenfazhanqushigongzuo，duigongzuozhongjinzhijinzedenanrenshiyoufengcaide，nengrangnvxingyouguishugan，rangnvxingwugulv，lingzhezishendenvxingyiqigongxiangfaxianshenbiandemeihao。

四、更改相处模式

 xinlizhuangtai。xinlizhuangtaizaihunyinshenghuojiaowangdeqingkuangxia，juyouleyigeqianzaixingdegongxiao，bulunshilaogonghuanshilaopo，douyingdangweichileguandexintai，jiubirushuo，nidelaopo，shiyigexiaoji，yitiandaowanquanshizibaoziqi，neimadajiadejiaowangbianhuiyoushenmewentile。qiadangdefangfabianshiweichileguandexintai，fenfaxiangshang，yaoxiangyoudajiadehunyinshenghuo，neiyangjiukeyiranglingyifangjuedeniduizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodezijintouru，xiai。

 gongzuozhong。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，gongzuozhongshibaochirichangshenghuodefangfa，yinci gongzuozhongbianhuiyougongzuoyali。buguanzaijialishinanhaihenvhaidougongzuozhonghuanshinanxingzaiwaimiangongzuozhong，nvxingzaijiazhongqingxi，nanshiyebuyingdangbagongzuozhongdegongzuoyalidaifanhuijiazhong，nvshiyeyingdangqianjiunanshideyali。

 richangshenghuo。zairichangshenghuoli，zhangqixingdejiaowangjiuhuiyouhenyoukenengzaochengyanfan，yinci ，zairichangshenghuozhongweichishenmigan，nenggoushidajiaderichangshenghuogengweilengzang。zuoweinanshi，nenggouzairichangshenghuozhongduoyixiereqing，yiwaijingxi。nenggousongxiewupin，qulvxing，baomingcanjiajuhuihuodongzheixie，rangnvshijuedegennizaiyiqihourichangshenghuohuanshineimadejingcaifencheng。nvshizairichangshenghuozhongduoyixiezhengqueyindaonanshi，duoyixieqianjiuzishendezhangfu，zhuanxianzishendewenrou。lingwainvshiyeyingdangweichizishendewaizaibiaozhun，rangzishendeyouhuoligengqiang。

 goutongjiaoliu。zailianggerenjiaowangzhong，yigehaodegoutongjiaoliufangfa，nenggourangdajiazhangwoxianghubixudewupin，lingyifangxuyaoshenme，taoyannaxie。youyuhunyinshenghuodejiaowangbianshiwubilianggerendouxianghuxinrenshenru，suihoukuanrong，ailingyifang。jiarulianggerenyemeiyouyigegongpingdegoutongjiaoliu，neimadajiadenantijiufeichangrongyichansheng。

 qizibeizhezhangfudewaiyuzhilv，gaizenmezuo?nvrenweishenmeyaowaiyu?zaiyiduanguanlianzhujianyihou，xuduonanshengzhujianlansan，zhujianzongrongzishendelianren。nvxingzaizheigeshihou，zhujianganjuezheigenanrenbingbushinansheng，qitaqiangshidenanrencaishinanxing，youyumeiyigenvxingxinlidoubixuyigebitaqiangshidenanren。tabixuneigerennengcaozongta，bingfeitacaozongneigeren，dabufennvxingyushengjulaiyebumingbailingzhenansheng。yinci ，nvxingwangwanghuiwaiyu，shiyouyuyaoxunzhaoyigenengjitayuzhongbutongganshou、nenglingzhetaxiangshourenshengderen。erzhixulaogongnengbaozhengzheiyidian，neimahunyinshenghuoxingfumeimanjiujinzaiyanqian。