妻子背着丈夫的外遇之旅，怎么挽回

 beijingdiaochawaiyuruhequzheng？tingjianwaiyu，daduoshurendoushihuixiangqishinanxing，danbingbushiquanbufufuquanshizheiban，ruguoyigenvrenduiaiyeshiyouyaoqiu，yeshiyouqidai，yinci ，nvxingyehuiwaiyu。jinjindaliangdekaolvshehuidaodelijiaoyishizheixie，chuguinvrendegailvyaobinanshengdejiaodi，dandibingbushiburongyi，yinci ，fajuelaopochuguile，beizhezhangfudewaiyuzhilv，yaoxiangwanhuidehua，yingdanggaizenmeban?zenmecainengfaxianlaopoyouwaiyu？

一、找到外遇的缘故

 beizhezhangfudewaiyuzhilv，kanbingfuyaobixuzhaodaozhengjie，wanhuiganqingyeyiyang，“congyuantoushangeryan，qingganguanlianchuxiandeyiqienanti，quanshinanshengdaozhide，youyutameiyoujinhaolingzheyigenvrendeyiwu，caizaochengtazoupianzouwai，meifazuodaoyitongxinyoulingxi。”yinci ，yaowanliuchuguidelaopowubizhaodaozaochengtawaiyudeyuangu，shilaogongjingshenchuguihuanshirentiwaiyuhuoshuangwaiyu?yejinyouzhaodaoyuangucaikeyijiuzhengbenshendebuzhengque，jinyoucongfajuebenshenbuzhengquedeshijiaoqusisuo，caikeyixiezhunizuochuqiadangdetiaoxuan。daliangdeyouguanchuguinvrendeyuangunenggouchaxunwanliuxuexiaodexiangguanziliao。

二、正确看待第三者

 zenmecainengfaxianlaopoyouwaiyu？yiban nanshengdedailvmaoxinlizhuangtaidoushihuiyouqizhong，youqishizaibierendeshandongxia，yeshifeichangrongyizuochubulizhidebuzhengquejuece，naizhijuedelaopochuguilejiuyingdangjiaorenyiqiquzoudisanzhe，quboguangnvrendeyifuyoujieshizhongnaizhishigengpianzhidexingshifanzui，keshi，zheibudanbukeyixiezhuwanliu、wufadedaotarenderenke，zaisunhaibierenxianxiahaitaruleweifafanzuidelumian，rangzishendejiazhonggengweiliekaizheixie，jiaruniyaoxiangwanliuta，qiadangdezuofayingdangrenketaduinisuoqiangdiaodenanti，cishinixuyaozuodeshirangshuangfangdoupingjingxialai。

三、作出更改和提高

 nvrenxuanzelewaiyu，shiduoshaoduizhiqiandenizaoyishiquzixinxinhexingquaihao，yinci ，yaorangtaduinizhongxindianranaidehuoyan，jiuxuyaojiangnidefangshiquanfangmianzuochugenggai，naizhixuexipeixunjingzhengzhedeyoudian，quqijinghua，zuoyigegengdongnvrendenanren，biwaiyumubiaogengyouxiudenanren，yaopaoxiayiwangdexiaochenrichangshenghuo，duojiaopengyou、yundongjianshen、xuehaoxiangshourensheng，yaogantanxianzhuiqiumengxiangdenanshengcaisuanshizuixiyinzhuyixingpengyoude，zaiciyingzaoqizaitaxinlidewanmeinanrendepinpaixingxiang。

 zhenduilaopochuguileyingdanggaizenmeban?beijingdiaochawaiyuruhequzheng？congpouxichuguinvrendeyuanguxiashou，youyuzaihunyinshenghuozhongnanshengyingdangdanfudaliangdezhengqueyindaorichangshenghuodeyiwu，nanrenyaobangnvxingchengdantameifachengdandeshenghuoyali，ernvrenyaocongshenghuoshangweinanshengjianshaoyali。yangeyiyishanglaishuo，qingganguanlianchuxiandenanti，zhuyaoshiyounanshengdaozhide，youyunimeiyoujinhaolingzheyigenvrendeyiwu，caizaochengtazoupianzouwai。