女友彻底放弃了怎么挽回？

　　nvyouchedifangqilezenmewanhui？fenshouzhihoutongchu，haosiyichangturuqilaidekuangfengbaoyu，rangrencuoshoubuji，tongchexinfei。youqishidangnifajue，ninvpengyouzaoyiduinisixin，neileijuewangganhaoxiangzhenggeshijiebenghuaile。danbiezheji，xiaohuobanmen，aiqingzheidongxi，youshijiuxiangyichangmigongxiaoyouxi，suirankanqilaifanzananjie，danshizhiyaonilijieleqiadangjiqiao，jiukeyizhaodaochurukou，zhonghuohuanxin。

　　一、看清现况：她已对你死心了没有?

　　zaiwanhuiyiqian，dajiashouxianyaozuode，bianshikanqingxiankuang。ninvpengyoushizhenduinisixinlemeiyou?huoshishiyishidelengmoheshengshu?zheier，woweidajiatigongjigepandingbiaozhun：

　　goutongjiaoliumanmanshuyuan：tabuzaijijigenniliaotian，naizhihuiyingnidexiaoxiyebiandefuyansaize。

　　qingganjulidiaoyuan：tabuzaixiangyaofenxiangjinishenghuodediandiandidi，bianbuzaiguanzhukuailehebeishang。

　　huijueqinjin：bulunshishentijiechuhuoshixinlingshenchudejiejin，tadoushibiaoxianchumingxiandedichu。

　　jiaruninvpengyouhehuyishangzheixie，neiyanghenkexi，tayexuqueshiduinisixinle。danbuyaohuixin，jiexialaiwugeshizhanjiqiao，jiangzhuniyibubuwanhuitadexin。

　　二、方法一：自我反省，找到问题的根源

　　wanhuidediyibu，bingbushimangmudelaiqiutahuijia，fanershidexiankaizhanziwofansheng。yiduanganqingdeliekai，bingbuyidingshidanfangmianyiwu。nixuyaopingjingxialai，zixihuixiangnimenzaiyiqishenghuodediandi，zhaodaozaochengfenshouwentidegenyuan。

　　shifoujiushitaitaiguoziwo，hushileduifangdeganshou?

　　zheishibushinibingmeiyoujitachongzudeguanzhuheguanai?

　　shifoudajiazhijianyoujiaoliuzhangai，jingchanghuiyinweisuoshizhengzhi?

　　zhiyouzhaodaolewentidebenzhi，nicainengshibangongbei，quebaozaiwanhuideguochengdangzhongyicuozaicuo。

　　三、方法二：冷战一段时间，给她室内空间也为自己时长

　　haoduorenfenshouzhihou，doupobujidaidixiangyaoquwanhui，xiaoguoquechangchangdebuchangshi。shijishang，youshi，lengzhanyiduanshijian，fanershiyizhongzuijiadexuanze。zheiduanshijiannei，ninengjitayixiekongjian，rangqipingjingxialai，yejizijiyixieshizhang，qudiaozhenghaozijidexintaiheqinggan。

　　buyaopinfandijitatongdianhua、faxiaoxi，rangtajuedenidejiuchan。

　　liyongzheiduanshijian，qutigaozijidebenzhihewaizai，rangzijibiandegengjiachuse。

　　tongguopengyouquanhuoshigongtonghaoyou，jianjiederangqikanjiannidegaibian。

　　lengzhanbingbushisheqi，erweilegenghaodewanhui。ruguoniyiquanxindemianmaoturanchuxianzaitademianqian，tayidinghuiduinilingyanxiangkan。

　　四、方法三：创建有效的沟通，聆听她心里话

　　nvyouchedifangqilezenmewanhui？hezuoshijiejuewentigongluqiaoliang，doushiwanhuiaiqingdezhongyao。dangnifaxianzishenyijingzhunbeihaole，keyichangshihetachuangjianyouxiaogoutong。jilao，zheierdejiaoliubingbushizhengzhi，bingbushibianbo，fanershilingtingtaxinlihua，lejieduifangdeganshou。

　　xuanzeyigeheshideshijihedizhi，rangtajuedeshushiyouanquanxing。

　　yongpingjingdekouqihetagoutongjiaoliu，bubihanyouyiqiegongjinengli。

　　renzhendilingtingtaxiangfaheganshou，buyaojizheqieduanhuobianbo。

　　genjuyouxiaogoutong，ninenggenghaodelejietadeneixinshijie，yehuirangtakanjiannidezhenzhihegaibian。

　　五、方法四：展示你的改变，让其看见你的不一样

　　wanhuideguochengdangzhong，zhanshinidegaibianshihenzhongyaode。nixuyaorangqijiandao，nijiuyijingbuzaishineigerangqifennuheshangxindenanrenle。nikeyitongguoyixiajizhongfangshilaizhanshinidegaibian：

　　zaishejiaopingtaishanggongxiangnidezhengnengliangheshenghuozhuangkuang。

　　genjugongtonghaoyou，jianjiedechuandinigaibianhechengzhang。

　　zaihetaxiangchuguochengzhong，yishijixingdonglaishuomingnidegaibian。

　　jilao，gaibianbushiyicuerjiude，taxuyaoshijianhexixin。danzhiyaonijianchixialai，tayidinghuikanjiannidebuyiyang。