qianrennvyousixinlezenmewanhui?zaiganqingzhanghezhong,zhongshishiweixilianggerenqingxudezhongyaoqianti。danshi,shenghuodangzhongyinyou、yishidechongdonghuozheshiduiziwojiazhidemitu,youshiyehuirangyixierenbeililezheiyitiaolugui,zouxianglewaiyudebuguilu。ruguoniyishidaozijidecuowu,yingduilaoponeiyishuangyiqianchongmanaiyixianzaiqueshanghenleileideshuangyanshi,xinlibenyongdebujinshiaohui,yeyouduizenmewanhuizheiyiduanbaoguihunyinshenghuodemimangyuqipan。xiamianwomenjiuweineixiewomenmitu,xianrujinqipanshuzuideren,tigongyifenhaoyongdeshouce,shoubashoujiaoniyibubuwanliulaopodefensuixinshi。
一、正视错误,真诚道歉

diyibu,yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu,bianshizhengshizijidebuzhengque。waiyubujinshiduihunyinqiyuedepanbian,gengjiashiduilingyibanqingganshangdeshenshendisunhai。womenxuyaoshenkedirenshidao,zheiyixingweizaoyiyanzhongpohuailenimendeguanxixinrenjiben,erxinrenyidansunshang,fujianjiangshifenjiannan。yiner,yigechengxinqieshenrudedaoqianshibukequeshaode。
zhiqianbingbuzhishi“zhendeduibuqi”,ershiyaoluoshidaonidexingweizenyangsunhaita,niduicigandaoduomedehuihen,baokuonixinxingenggaijuexin。liru:“wozhidaowodechuguijinidailailenanyiyanyudekuchuhewuru,woshengankuijiuheaohui。wozhidao,zheibudanshiniquebuzhong,yeshiduidajiahunyinshenghuoyuedingdecaita。woyuanyichengdanyiqiehouguo,danqiunikeyijiwoyigejihui,yaowoyongshijixingdonglaiyanzhengwodegaibian。”
qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng,zhiyaohuixianliao,jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang,benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi,henvshengtanshenghuo,jiaoxin、tanweilai,zhixunigentatouyuan,caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben,xianliaogangtiezhinan,neijiulaiwodegongzhonghao~xunailaoli,gongxiangniyifen,dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu,shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen,heshiyaofengqudian,heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian,yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu,shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua,doukeyidexinyingshou,henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。
二、给与室内空间,耐心的等待
zhiqianyihou,buyaojigongjinli。jinilaopoyixieshijianyukongjianqujiejuezijidexinqing。waiyuchanshengdeshangtongbingbushiyishibankejiukexiaotuide,tayexuxuyaoshijianquxiaohuaxishounaonu、xinhan、nanguodengfuzadeganqing。zaizheiguochengzhong,niyaoduoyidiannaixin,buyaopinfandidaraodaota,gengbuyaoqingyiyonggezhongfangshibitayuanliangni。
nikeyitongguoyixieweixiaodexingdonglaibiaodanideguanzhu,lirujitafendanjiawu、zhaoguxiaohai,huoshizhishijiandandifayitiaoxinxigentashuoniyizhizaixiangta,danqiejiguoyu。jitazugoudeshijian,rangqiganshoudaonizunzhongyulijie,zheiyeshizijiyuanyishenzhongkaolvdajiaguanliandeqiantitiaojian。
三、完全断开与第三者的联络
yaowanliulaopodeneixin,jiubixuyaowanquanyudisanzheduanjueyiqielianluo。bingbujinjinshikoutoushangdefuwuchengnuo,gengjiashijutixingdongshangdezhengshi。shandiaosuoyoulianxifangshi,fangzhirenhekenengdepengmianjiyu,shenzhishizaigongzuohuozheshejiaohuodongyidingyaobaochijueduixingjianju。jiarunilaopoguiding,nikeyizhudongrangqichaxunzijideshouji、shejiaozhanghao,yishuomingnideqingzhengheyongqi。
yucitongshi,niyeyaorenzhenfansizishenzenmehuitaruwaiyuzheitiaodaolu,shihunyinlicunzaidewenti,huoshirenshengjiazhiguanchuxianlepiancha。zhiyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi,caikeyichedijiejue,bimianleisideqingkuangzaicichuxian。
四、积极开展婚姻咨询

hunyinzixunshiwanjiuliekaihunyinshenghuodezhongyaotujingzhiyi。gengzhuanyedehunyinzixunshinenggoubangzhudajiabicigengshenrudilejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuheqidai,zhengqueyindaodajiakaizhanyouxiaogoutong,xunzhaojiejuewentidefangfa。zaizixunguochengzhong,niyaoweichibaorongdexintai,yuanyiqingtinglaopodexiangfaheganshou,yeyongganbiaodazijideneixinshijie。
genjuhunyinzixun,dajiakeyidongderuheyouxiaojiejuemaodun、tigaolejie、fujianxinren。jilao,hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing,xuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendoucaikeyiweichi。biezhiwangzhikaoyifangdenulijiunengchenggongwanliuyiqie,neishibutaikenengde。
五、用实际行动证实更改
yanyushangdezhiqianhechengnuosuiranzhongyao,dangengguanjiandeshishentilixing。niyaoyongshijixingdonglaishuomingnidegenggaiheyongqi。liru,gengweiguanzhulaopoderichangrichangshenghuo,yongyuchengdanjiatingyali,canjiahaizijiaoyu,zhizaoyixiexiaolangmanlaicujinganqingdeng。zhengshizheixiemiaoxiaodexingwei,dankeyizaibuzhibujuezhongwenxinlaopodeneixin,rangqiganshoudaonizhenzhiheqinfen。
yucitongshi,niyeyaonulitishengzijiderengemeili,bulunshibenzhihuoshiwaizaimei。weichihaodeshenti、lianghaodexintai、jiaohaodezhichangxingxiang,douhuirangnizailaopoyanligengweixiyinren。ziran,zheixiegaibianbingbushiweileyinghetaren,gengshiweilebianchenggenghaodeziji。
六、复建信任,慢慢的来
qianrennvyousixinlezenmewanhui?xinrenyidansunshang,fujianjiangshiyigemanzhangjiannandeguocheng。niyaoyouxinlishangdezhunbei,buyaoqidailaoponengzaiyiyezhijianyuanliangni,qianwanbuyaoyinweitachiyihehuaiyiergandaojusang。fanguolai,niyaolejieduifangdeganshou,renzhendidenghoutaxinrenyidiandianhuijia。

zaizheiguochengzhong,niyaoweichizhenchenghetouming,buyaoyourenhemanbaoheqipian。wulunhezhongshier,douxuyaozhudongyulaopogoutongjiaoliu,rangqiganshoudaonidechengyiheyongqi。yucitongshi,niyeyaoqingtingtaxiangfaheganshou,zhongshitajianyihetiaoxuan。weiyouruci,nimendeguanxixinrencainengzhujianjianliqi。
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