花镇：老婆和他分手了怎么挽回

　　laopohetafenshoulezenmewanhui？wanhuiairenbingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，danruguonizhenxinxiangyaowanhuishiqudeaiqing，yixiashiyixiejianyi，xiwangnengbangzhunichenggongwanhuiairen。

　　一、了解分手原因

　　nixuyaolejiefenshoudeyuanyin。shiyouyugoutongbuchang、sanguanbuhe、disanzhechazuhaishiqitayuanyin?zhiyoulejiefenshoudeyuanyin，nicainengyouzhenduixingdicaiqucuoshi。

　　二、保持理性

　　zaimianduifenshoushi，baochilixingshifeichangzhongyaode。buyaoguoyuqingxuhua，buyaozuochupianjidexingwei，fouzekenenghuirangduifanggengweidichu。

　　三、改变自己

　　ruguonixiangwanhuiairen，neimenixuyaogaibianziji。nixuyaofanshengzijizailianaizhongdebuzuzhichu，nuligaishanziji，rangzijibiandegengjiawanshan、gengweidongdezhenxi。

　　四、再次建立联系

　　dangnizhunbeihaogaibianzijihou，nikeyichangshizaicijianlilianxi。nenggoutongguodianhua、duanxinhuoshishejiaowangluodengxingshiheduifangjianlilianxi。zaiguanliandeguochengzhong，yaozhuyibuyaoguoyureqinghuoshilengmo，yaobaochishidangdeweizhiheguanzhu。

　　五、展现自己的价值

　　zaizhongxinjianlilianxideguochengzhong，nixuyaozhanxianzijidejiazhi。nengtongguofenxiangzijideshenghuo、gongzuo、gerenaihaodengfangshilaizhanxianzijidemeili。tongshi，yeyaozunzhongduifangdeganshouheyinsi，buyaoguoduganyuduifangdeshenghuo。

　　六、建立信任

　　zaizhongxinjianlilianxideguochengzhong，jianlixinrenshifeichangzhongyaode。nixuyaorangduifangganshoudaonidezhenchenghekekaoxing，rangduifangxiangxinnishiyigezhidexinrenderen。zaijianlixinrendeguochengzhong，xuyaonaixinheyili，buyaojiyuqiucheng。

　　七、给彼此充足的时间和空间

　　laopohetafenshoulezenmewanhui？zaiwanhuiairendeguochengzhong，jibicichongzudeshijianhekongjianshifeichangzhongyaode。buyaoguoyujiuchanhuoshibipoduifangzuochujueding。zaijibicichongzudeshijianhekongjiandeguochengzhong，yexuyaobaochishidangdelianxiheguanxin。

　　八、接纳结果

　　nixuyaojienajieguo。ruguoduifangyijingjuedinglikaini，neimenixuyaozunzhongduifangdejuece。buyaoqiangqiuhuoshijiuchanbuxiu，zheiyangzhihuirangduifanggengjiadichu。ruguoyijingjinliwanhuiganqing，danshijieguoyiranbujinrenyi，neimenixuyaoxuehuijieshouxianshibingxiangqianzou。zaiweilaideshenghuozhong，nikeyijixunulixunzhaozijidexingfu。