老婆想离婚怎么挽回婚姻

　　laopoxianglihunzenmewanhuihunyin？qiziqiangliejianyilihun，kendingshinimendehunyincunzaileyanzhongdewentile，yincitaxianzaitaiduhenjueqing，dajiahunyincunzaidebuzuyizhimeiyoudedaochedidichulicaidaozhijintiandejushi。

　　一、冷静期沟通

　　zaiqizitichulihunhou，buyaomashangjiuchanhuoshizhenglun。yinweicishitakenengqingxuhenjidong，qiangzhiwanhuikenenghuishitagengjiajiandinglihundexiangfa。jibiciyixieshijianyukongjian，liru1-3tianzuoyou，rangqingxuxianpingfuxialai。

　　zaizhaoyigeheshideshijigentagoutong。zaigoutongzhong，biaoshuniduizheiduanhunyindezhongshihebushe，yongrouhe、zhenchengdeyuqiwentaweishenmehuiyoulihundexiangfa。biru：“qinaida，wozhidaonixianglihunkendingshiyouyuanyinde，woxiwangninenghewoshuoshuonideganshou，wohenzaihunidexiangfa。”

　　ruguonideqiziwulunnizenmeshuodouwufagaibiantayaolihundejuece，dannihaibuxiangfangqizheiduanhunyin，genwoshuonideqingkuang，wolaibangnifenxi，bingjidaonijianyi。kanshouyeneili

　　二、仔细回想大家这段婚姻的主要矛盾点

　　dangqizitichulihunshi，nanrenyaofansiyuqizizhijiandewenti，zhaodaoqiziyaolihundezhenzhengyuanyin。huoxuzaichaojiahemaodunzhong，takenengcengjinibiaodaguozijidexiangfa，zhibuguonihushile;zaiyixielangmanhuiyizhong，tayejiangguozijideqiwang，dannizongshisuiyiyingduiyiwang。

　　henduoshihou，lihundeyuanyinshiyinweifuqishuangfangdouyounanti。jiaruqiziguoduanyaolihun，nixuyaoshenshizijidexingwei，kankanshifouyoushenmedifangxuyaogaibian。

　　youxierenkenenghuijuedezijimeizuocuoshenme，danshijishang，youshihouwomendexingweihuiyingxiangdaoduifang。gaibianzijidetaidu，xiangduifangbiaodanideaiheguanzhu，yeshiwanhuihunyindeyigezhongyaoliucheng。

　　三、跟妻子真诚道歉

　　dangnanrenyishidaozijizaizheiduanhunyinzhongdecuowushi，yidingyaozhenchengdixiangqizirencuo，gaosunideqizinidexiangfahetihui，lingtingtaxiangfahetihui。qizihenjueqingdeyaolihunzenmewanhui?zaigoutongshi，yaorenzhenqingtingqizineixindexiangfa，suihouduiyusuotingjian、suokandaode，jiyushidangerjianduandefanying，biru：“yuanlairuci”“shi”yijidiantou，rangduifangzhidaonizaiting，yehuirangduifangganshoudaobeizunzhong。

　　四、寻找改变

　　laopoxianglihunzenmewanhuihunyin？qizihenjueqingdeyaolihunzenmewanhui?yunyonglizhidezheiduanshijian，zuochushizhishangdegaibian。xingdongshangdegaibianshihenyoushuofulide，qiziyehuibazheixiegaibiankanzaiyanzhong，zhidaolelaogongdenuli，jinerxiaochulihundexiangfa。

　　ruguoyinweiduishenghuobuman，nanrenkeyichangshiyuqiziyiqitantaozenyanggaibianxianzhuang。liru，yiqizhidingjiatingjihua，rangqiziganshoudaozijizaishenghuozhongdezhongyaoxing。

　　ruguoyinweilengbaolirangqizigandaofushang，neimelaogongyaoxuehuizhudonggoutong，jijihuiyingqizidefenxiangyujiaoliu。dangqizixinggaocailiedijiangshuzijideyitianshi，laogongyaorenzhenqingting，jiyujijidehuiyinghefankui。nenggoushishidibiaodazijideganshouhexiangfa，rangqiziganshoudaozijideguanzhuhezaiyi。